Wednesday – The Millennials

Goddess afternoon Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

The run in that people are experiencing with these “Millennials” is ridiculous. The reports are astounding and I only can ask who is raising them.

I believe that the parents of these Millennials are those who got the short end of the stick. By the time they were having babies real Mothers and Fathers were not available they were to busy working. They forgot about helping as grandparents and so the millennials are not being taught respect, given proper love nor are they being educated by the system correctly. Technology is their babysitters, corner stores is their kitchen, the streets it’s where they live and sleep comfortable, peers are they guides and the Higher Power isn’t a factor.

They are in desperate need of assistance because they are becoming victims of their own self hate. Predators are walking them into sex trafficking situations. Parents are losing them by the dozen and they are dying faster than they are being born. Where and who can they turn to if Mommy and Daddy isn’t around, they only place no one told them about, the street and everything it has to offer. Drugs, sex, unsupervised nights, lack of school, diseases and murder is all they know because it’s all they are shown. No one cares anymore.

Let’s pray that the children of today see tomorrow because they don’t believe in tomorrow. They believe and live for the right now, the moment, the last day is today. They don’t have to though we are adults should be teaching them better ways, showing them better days, and giving them hope for tomorrow.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Manic Monday! Being Too Exhausted To Deal

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Have you ever been so tired, so overwhelmed, so exhausted that you can’t deal and won’t deal with anything? That’s how I am feeling this morning. It has been a draining weekend to the point I don’t want to deal with people, the truck, the animals, the idea of cooking, etc, I am anything! The worst part is I didn’t even want to blog today but I use writing as a stress reliever as well as a coping mechanism. It seems to be the way I can function when I wake with days like this bringing me down. School is out and there’s no work, it is going to be a hecked day and well I am going to have to pull out of the tricks I know to make it through this day with a smile so my family won’t be able to tell it isn’t a good day for me.

Unfortunately, I suffer from these days more than I am willing to admit. I play the strong mother, wife, cousin, sister, grandmother, best friend a lot, but if they only knew how stressed or overwhelmed I be most of the time. I mean it has been 75% of my life that I have been on this rock, I lived in this madness. I live in a dark place and for the most part if I don’t write about it, I need to sleep it off. I never went a whole day with this feeling because I scares me so I am afraid of how others will feel if they saw me from start to finish. No I am not worried about their reactions, but my actions, like I said dark place. So when it gets to be too much I rest and regroup so I can wake to a better me. It is one of my ways of destressing, and being able to operate efficencially with others. Instead of blowing up or blowing things out of proportion when someone says something that strikes me as offensive or demeaning.

It is better than acting first and then worrying about the consequences later. I have a family to continue on for so why throw it away because someone else is having a bad day as well. I just remove myself from people and give myself the necessary space, time and rest needed to keep myself out of harm’s way or from harming anyone mentally, physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Why be that person when I am the one having the bad day, not them? Why should I spread my evil and hatred or stress onto others to make them match my feelings at the time? It isn’t right and I know it if no one else knows it. I am responsible for me and not anyone else. It is on me.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday, Let’s Talk Food With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High. Second, I would like to thank each and everyone of you for your support, so thank you. You truly are Royal.

What should we eat today? We had pizza, avocado salad, and granola, etc which were all healthy. Today let’s do something different, what do you say? Let’s do cornbread and apple pie, sounds good and since we are working towards becoming healthy, we’ll stay there.

Cornbread (protein balanced)

Mix

  • 4 cups warm water
  • 3 tsp. dry yeast
  • 1/4 cup honey
  • 1/4 cup lecithin granules
    • In a large bowl mix
    • 1/4 cup sesame butter
    • 1/2 cup whole wheat flour
    • 1 cup yellow grits
    • 1/4 cup oil
    • 1/2 cup honey
    • 4 cups cornmeal
    • 3 cups unbleached flour
    • 1/4 cup molasses
    • 1/4 cup almond butter
    • 1 tbsp sea salt

Mix any ingredients with hands. Pour yeast mixture over flour mixture immediately. Mix enough to combine. Oil pans. Dust with warm flour. Preheat oven to 375*; turn to 350* and bake 40-45 minutes.

Oat Pie Shell Mix

  • 2 cup rolled oats
  • 1/4 cup pineapple
  • 1/4 cup peaches
  • 1/4 cup apples
  • 1/4 cup papaya
  • 1/4 tsp sea salt

Combine and mix completely and press into pie pan, smoothing with a spoon. Pie pan should be pre oiled lightly. Bake at 350* for approximately 30 minutes or until it becomes brown. Now make filling while crust is baking.

Apple Pie

  • Bring to boil and constantly stir for thickness:
    • 2 cups pineapple juice
    • 4 tbsp tapioca
  • Partially let cool and then add: 2 cups shredded green and red apples. Pour into pie shell, chill in refrigerator, then cut and serve.

If you like my unhealthy award winning version of an apple pie or cornbread, please comment below.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday – Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Respecting one’s individuality! I know it may sound cliche but believe me it isn’t. I have been in homes of all kinds of people and what I have realized is that most people believe that if they are raised that same then they must be the same. They believe that if they go to the same church then their beliefs are the same. They believe that even though they are all raised to be one religion that trying or believing in another religion is going against the family. They believe that born one nationality means that you are supposed to act a certain way and cannot love another who isn’t of your nationality. I hate to be the bare of bad news but it is 2020 and you can be whoever you want to be and love whoever makes you happy and loves you back. That is what is wrong with the world today, no one wants to believe that people are of their own mind, body and spirit That if they were raised or born of a certain status that is what they are supposed to be of. Well it isn’t working out in most of our favors.

Take for instance, I am a homebody, who believe in strong family bonds, values, morals, and love, while giving a person room to be who they want to be, respectively. My sisters on the other hand have different outlooks on who their children are supposed to be as well as how they treat their siblings. Remember that there is 25 of us, so how they expect for all us to be the same is a mystery to me. One of my sisters, thinks because she doesn’t socialize with her family that her children should either. Even though when they do get to come around they enjoy being around their family and have a great time. She removed herself from the family because she did unspeakable things. Why should her children be the result of her horrior? I don’t know but they are suffering at the hands of her mistake. She has it in her mind that everyone is against her for what she done to another sibling of ours. We had our take on it but then we let it go because it is in the past and we can’t do anything about it.

Then I have a sister that blames everyone for her misfortunate. She never looks in the mirror to see that she is the cause of what she doesn’t have or what she does. She refuse to believe that she dealt her own hand or that she can change it. It just feels better blaming others. She doesn’t make her children do more than she does because she doesn’t want to sound like a hypocrite. So she just goes on about her day blaming her lack of on others, instead of applying that energy to make things better for her and her family. She wants the youngest to be exactly like her and mad at the other for not being exactly like her.

Then there is another sister who believes in the individuality too much that she forgets sometimes that she even have children. She goes on about her day as if she has no worries in the world. She has to be given a reality check every now and then. She just do her and well that is the definition of individuality but not the definition of parenting. Remember we don’t want to be like us, we want better for them, but also we have to remember that we have them.

I have sister who have lost everything including her way but she doesn’t let that effect her day. She just goes on about her business as if she doesn’t have a care in the world. She lives as though nothing has happened and since she does well I do as well. Remember the process have to start with wanting help not just jumping the gun assuming that they want help. I make sure she is okay and leave it at that.

Then there’s my brother who I can say came a long way. He has really turned his life around in more ways than one. He only have himself, but cares about everyone to a point. If you show him that you don’t care about yourself then you are no longer a thought process for him. He writes you off like you have written yourself off. He will not show any concern if you refuse to care enough for yourself. I love that about him because he takes care of himself and stay in his own lane.

My youngest brother is a different story, he has issues. After our mother died he took it the worst, and while we as a family rallied around him for moral, and financial support, we had to realize that he is a con artist. He was playing us with the whole heartache thing. He just wanted our money and sympathy so we wouldn’t say anything about his abuse of drugs. He used my mother’s death as a coping mechanism to get high. Well we caught on to that fast and then allowed him to destroy his life if he wanted to and not to bring down ours. He is trying to get clean or so we think but it could just be another con.

My other brothers however is doing well I might add. Well as far as I can see they are doing well. I have one that has did a whole 180 in the art of growing up. He was a terrorist when he was a child. I mean he was bad as hell, now he is about his family and raising his daughter to be the best she can be. He is about promoting non-violence and help brothers get their life right. No he isn’t a preacher but he is a better individual than what he was as a child or a teenager. In his adult life he has made me proud.

I know that we are all of my parents and some have adopted their mentality but we all are individuals and all we can really say about being raised by them is that they tried and failed. I wish I could say that they did their best but I would be lying. I will say this though, what we learned is what not to do but some of us have test the theory anyway. Some have become my parents and well that isn’t working out in their favor just like it didn’t work for my parents. So they followed the process of being raised to be your parents and living it, or should I say struggling in it. While other have adopted their own individuality and living the life that is theirs.

Parents this is a message to you. If you know your life isn’t great or going the way you planned then don’t push it onto your children. Allow them to live their life but instill those morals and values needed to know the difference between right and wrong. If you yourself aren’t sure what they are please get them professional help now so that you won’t be responsible for your children’s downfall.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – Ladies Take Charge!

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Ladies we know we are sexual active and turned on by the sight of our man, well most of us anyway. He makes up aroused by the walk, his talk, his stance, and that cologne we love so much. When we get home from a hard day we know what you were and how we want it. But it doesn’t always go our way of course. We have children, some of us, and we know that we need to take care of business before we get down to business. We know the food needs to be cooked, homework needs to be reviewed or our assistance is needed. We know that today’s events need to be shared as well as a lot of don’t and do’s before we even get in the mood. Honestly, some of us are always in the mood but because we have to run other’s life first we ignore it but the urge does go away. They wonder why we have toys, it’s not because you can’t please us, it’s because you don’t help out around the house, or with the children and by time you are in the mood we can’t deal with anyone else so self pleasure becomes the ideal way of relieving ourselves of the stress.

No more! We want our asses smacked, our pelvis thrusted, our hair pulled slightly (because of us aren’t natural), toes curled, lips kisses, pussy ate and all while making us cum. We want sex when we needed it and love when it is demanded. We also expect for you to know the difference. Yeah, I know we are asking a lot but think about it, we give a lot and never ask for anything in return. Some of us never complain we just go about our day like nothings wrong, but without that release there is a lot wrong. We are confined and restricted to our wombs. We need them to feel loved just like our hearts. Yes, we need relief from the head to the toes. We stress a lot and the tension builds from the feet to the head and that when can’t take it anymore.

Ladies take charge, initiate sex. Make him understand we are in need of supply and demand his services. When was the last time you rode him ass to sleep? When was the last time you suck his dick until he came or he ate you until you beg for more? When was the last time he had to stop you mid-thrust because you back that ass up on him and he couldn’t take no more? When was the last time you had him cry your name while cuming because he could take it no longer? Ladies I think it is time we let them know what we have all the power. It is time for you to gain control of your sexuality and make him know that you call the shots in the bed as well as in the home. Yes, he’s the King but without you there is no Kingdom. Queens rule and Kings beg. There is a sex war going on and he will not win because you already had your victory party and all you have to do is get the battle started. Go ladies and make sex your bitch and your man a prisoner of war.

Victory is yours.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Revenge

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

To be vindictive to others just mean that you store hatred in your heart for something someone did to you or someone you love. In many ways revenge hurts you more than the person who you seek revenge on as well as for. I know sometimes we feel like we have to be their Noble warriors and safe the day, honestly that’s not true. Sometimes you have to sit back and watch mysteriously how the Lord works. It will amaze you and have you wondering if you done anything to make him mad or upset enough to bring this much vengeance upon you.

We don’t see it until it’s too late because we intervened where we should have prayed. The walk when we should have stayed still. The plot and preyed when we should have been educating and reaching. We get in the way and then ask, “Why God.” If only you could really hear because you were standing in the way and I didn’t want you to get hurt too. You would understand that every battle isn’t yours to fight and every war isn’t to be won. Sometimes you have to allow your heart to hurt and your mind to wonder in order for justice to take place.

Isn’t that what you do when you seek revenge, apply your justice where there was none? Of course we do, we know best or so we think, but aren’t really thinking at all. We think that if we take revenge for whomever or ourselves then we are fighting back. What happens when someone with the same mentality does the same thing? Continuous war, death, innocent lives lost, was that you plan? Is this what you really wanted? You must ask yourself will others seek their justice (revenge) after you implement yours.

Sure they are because they will be angry just like you are now, but that doesn’t matter at this time because all that matters is your pain. Do you know what caused their pain to start? Do you know what would have made them do what they did? How innocent is the person you seek revenge for? No one is worthy of hate or pain so think before you deliver what someone had already brought you.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – Get Through It

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

You don’t need to get over every hump sometimes you need to get through it. If every Wednesday you need to rush to get over it and when things happens on that day you can’t remember because all you wanted to do is get over it. Take some time and get through it and maybe something good will come out of getting through and not over. It isn’t always about getting to the end of the week as fast as you can. Sometimes it has to be about living in the best week of your life and if all you want to do is rush through it then you might just be missing out on life.

It doesn’t take much to want to know what the hell is going on in your own life. Not all of it can be bad! At least you have a job and a home to come to when your hump day is over. Think about this some people don’t have that and they wish they had what you have. So while you are rushing to over the hump some is wishing they had a hump to get over and for other that hump isn’t pleasant at all. Their complaints are yours, just not wanting to be at work, or can’t want to get home so you can rest. Some just want to be able to eat, and drink, a shower would be nice and be able to have a choice of where to order or eat from is a far fetched dream.

The roses will not always be there to smell so while you have the time you need to stop and just smell on them. It could be this Wednesday that you want to hurry up and leave so that you can get to Friday, which in fact could be a shitty day and you wish it was Wednesday so you can do it over again. So don’t just hump on this day make something of it and get through it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove.