Wednesday – Try Something New & Exciting

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Are you on a daily routine and feel like you are stuck and going nowhere? Are you tired of doing the exact same thing day in and day out? Do you already know the results because you do the same thing? Well try something new or exciting.

Spice up your love life if need be with your significant other though. Add something different to your original recept. Go out on a lunch date by yourself and enjoy yourself. Ask your partner out on the town for the night of dancing. Fire up the grill and make just the two of you dinner. Get romantic and make love in park after dark. Have a bubble bath together and tell each other secrets. Go to the nude beach and show your stuff of because after all it’s yours and you have to live with it. For once, intimidate the other people.

Get nasty and dirty with your mate and make the baby you two been wanting. Go rock climbing and ziplining together for the first time. I mean if you can dream it and it is legal go out and do it. If you need that extra umph in your life go out and get it. If you want the children gone for the day so you can relax, trust them at the movie theatre by themselves as long as they are age appropriate. If you always wanted to learn a new line dance then get in a class and shake your ass.

Stop allowing fear to hold you back from doing something you always wanted to do. Today is the first time for something new and exciting.

If you never gave oral sex then by all mean learn to choke and gag on him or eat her until she is numbed. If you want to marry her and you know that is where you heart belong then by all mean pop the damn question! If you going to spend the rest of your life with him and you know this then got damn ask him to marry you! It doesn’t matter who do the asking as long as you two are happy with the idea of the rest of your lives together then go for it. Either way do what your heart is telling you to do and do it with great intentions of having the best time of your life.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Quality Time With The Children

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Have you ever spent quality time with the children doing the things they wanted to do? Have you ever gave in to their wants and allowed them full control of what they wanted to do as a family? Or have you give them the options of doing what you think children should be doing and as long as your money was paying for it that was what they were going to do?

When asking the question what do you want to do as a family allow them to tell you and then do what they suggested. As long as it is legal why not? If they just want to go to the mall and hang out do that. If they want to go shopping and get their nails and toes done do that. If they want to go to the Arcade then do that. If they want to lay around and do nothing but watch tv, well get you ass on the couch and do nothing with them.

While you all are out, do not and I mean do not embarrass them! I can not express this enough, if you do they will never trust you with anything else. Be cool and laid back, they will not try anything stupid especially if you are one of those parents that don’t play. If you play it cool you will learn friends, hangouts, foes (even if they can’t see them), potential girlfriends or boyfriends, hobbies, and their lifestyle I know you don’t think they have one.

Sometimes we just need to enter their world. No not force your way into their life but enter their world so that we as parent can understand our children. We need to know what they are into and what they like to do when we aren’t around. It is still parenting but you are learning who your children are. No don’t become a best friend to them but be that person that they can trust to come to you with everything, honestly. If they want to drink and smoke then you need to march their ass to rehab and fast. That is a cry for help, especially if they are underage. Peer pressure is one thing but if they think they can drink and smoke with you that is a whole other issue that needs to be address. Like the lack of respect that they have for you knowing you are their parent, but if you haven’t been doing much parenting then that is another day for another discussion. If you have been trying to be their friend more than their parent you have lost the battle and the war already, as a parent. There is no turning that around at all.

So make family night about them and not about what you as a parent want to do but including them. No not this time make about them and let them feel like they are including you. They will respect and love you more for being a part of their life and not having to alway be apart of yours. In doing so you will learn signs of when your child is going through things that aren’t for them, like depression, anger, hate, peer pressure, bullying, frustration, broken heart, liking another person of the same sex or the opposite. Yeah I know fears we don’t want to face but as parent we need to address. In turn they learn things like family values, who they can trust with issues and concerns instead of trying to turn to their friends for the answers. They also learn techniques of how to deal with things on another scale and understand who really got their backs.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Manic Monday! Don’t Panic It’s Monday!

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I know this is my topic for today, but I am only writing it because my son experienced something dramatic Friday and made him dread Monday. You want to talk panic! On Friday my son’s school had to experience a threat of a mass shooting.

It was too many police on Friday when I dropped him off to school. He said Ma it looks like our school was in another school on school fight again. I ask him do he get involved in those fights and he told me no. He said I have no beef with no one at another school, because I have friends that goes to those other schools. Looking at how many officers were on the perimeter I told him no this is something else. I told him to find out just in case I had to come back and get him. He got out and an hour later he calls me and tell me I need to come get him because he fear for his life.

I didn’t even want to know what was going on at that time so I rushed to the school to get him. While I was driving he calls me back and say Ma, there is a child here talking of shooting up the school, that’s why the police was on the campus today. I couldn’t even thing at that moment. I know that the night before a 14 years old had shoot several people in a school in California. Prayer are with the family and the victims of that shooting and all of the previous shootings. SideBar: What is going on with our parents that we can’t see the hurt and distress before it comes to a mass shooting? Why is it that we choose to ignore the signs of a mentally disturb child or an abused child until something tragic happens?

I got to the school and was as calm as possible. It was still several police on the campus and I asked them if the situation resolved and one of them said yes but the other said the perpetrator is being sought. Which to me means no. I am not one to blame anyone but those who needs the blame and well I didn’t have have time at that moment. The only person on my mind is my son who was in the bathroom with his cellphone calling me for help. I got him and got out of there. I wasn’t the only one, I saw about 50 other parents getting there children as well.

Now today is Monday, Manic Monday at that and his nerves are all over the place. I am dealing with the situation but I know that he needs more support than just me. So I am calling in the troops and since it is a lot of us we are going to rally around my son for support. Our mission is to help him get through this and back in school, because he told me his isn’t ready to go back just yet. I can understand his concerns especially since we aren’t sure if they have the child in custody. To make matters worse my son told me that he knows the child because they are in the same French class together. He said the child confides in him but he never thought things were this serious. I told him to pray for him and ask the Lord to guide him and send him the necessary help he needs. People talk to your children. Listen to your children. Hear your children even when they aren’t saying anything. Don’t ignore your child’s cry for help or attention.

That’s my Monday so far, what is yours looking like. I tell you one thing I will not panic because it is Monday. I will live this day as any other but more productive than the last.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Death is just a scary word! Everyone wants to go to heaven but not all wants to talk about how they are going to get there. In order to see the Savor you first must move on from the vessel that enclose your spirit. We all know that our vessel is just clothing for the soul and when we take off that fabric finally, that we will not be putting it back on. Our will might be weak but our destiny is strong. It has to come to an end and we all know it but when, I think, is what scares people so much.

I say don’t sit around and think about it nor wait for it. Go out and live within your vessel the best you know how until the day you no longer need your clothing to keep your spirit covered. When your spirit is ready to be exposed to the world, they will not be torn by your vessel but rejoiced by your soul. I think it is only hurtful when people haven’t really understood your purpose in their lives, so they missed their opportunity to know of their own purpose. They can’t find themselves and haven’t found themselves by the time you are ready to shed your fabric. They question death because they aren’t sure when their time is but have no reason to understand why your time is now.

Yes the feeling of losing someone is uneased and very painful but if you really stop and think about it, you haven’t loss them they just transitioned into their next chapter and now you must focus on your story. We cannot live our lives through someone else’s book and think when their story ends so do ours. It isn’t like that! This just mean that you weren’t paying attention to your story being written because your eyes was on someone else’s book. Stop try to step in their success or life and direct, publish, narrate and produce your own story. You never know what extraordinary things you might leave for others to read. Who knows your story might change or direct someone else life into learning to write their story and making it a novel no one can put down.

So when death comes knocking don’t be afraid to open the door because it just mean that another chapter is about to happen for you so that someone else can tell your story in a way no one will believe. It can’t all be fairytales and rainbows, sometimes it has to be horror and thrillers, with a side of danger and mystery. It is all up to you how your story goes, but how it ends will never die with you. There will alway be someone to tell what they have been told or experienced being in your chapters. So in fact your story lives on and on and on. It gets better with each person that tells their part or how they remember it for themselves.

Remember Death is only to be absent in the body but present in the spirit. Let’s see what your story is about and who will tell it as great as it is.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – Is This Really What You/I Need?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

There are times when we really want more than we can handle. When we get it we ask why God put all this on us. Never realizing that we put this on ourselves. God had nothing to do with your own sabatosh. We then find other avenues or people to point the finger too. Still no ones fault but your own. We are afraid to admit when we have caused our own demise; it is better just to find someone to blame for our mistakes. Just take a break from what is causing you to doubt yourself and then ask yourself; “Is this really what you need?” Ask it as if someone else if posing the question. Then turn around and repeat the question; asking for yourself this time. “Is this really what I need?”

You know what you want and what you want from it but is what you need even in the picture. We tend to think that somehow the two are the same when in fact they are very much different.

“What I want?” Based on what you see but not necessary what you need. You just want it because it is either the latest trend, idea look, with get you the attention you really don’t want, or is what someone else has. Or the biggest and most problematic thing of all, to show others I can afford it. Of \course you could afford it at the time but then you didn’t need it so now it is costing you and you can’t handle it.

“What I need?” This is going to enhance what I already have in place. This will increase my flow, marketing, and strategy to get further. I will have enough capital to create more. This will make my life a lot better and I will be able to do more than I have ever done. Profits will soar and my opportunities will increase and 100 fold.

See the difference isn’t what others see, it is what you see. It makes life better when you know what you need versus what you want. Stop focusing on what others have so you can get what you really need. Your wants will be covered by your needs as long as you wants aren’t ahead of your needs.

Note* People will be your friend because of their wants while tearing down your needs. People will praise your downfall, but hate your come up. This method applies to those who claim you as well as those who dismiss you. Ask yourself is this person someone I want in my circle or someone that I need in my circle? If you can’t decide then ask the hardest question of all. What do they bring to my circle that make them worthy of my presence? If still you can’t come up with nothing then that person is a want and yes, they can be fun to be around but they aren’t a necessity and so they really only get the attention you want them to have which is little to none.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Living

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the al High.

We are just want to live on this rock. Everyone said they struggle to survive. When are we going to stop surviving and start living? I for one would like to wake to my family and say have a great and mean it without the thought of them dodging bullets, running from the police, being harrassed by the drug dealers, worrying about some high ass junkie stabbing them for money they don’t have, or being bullied. It is a shame that we have to live in a world where these are our general worries.

Remember when you were a child and you worried about school, being bullied, getting into fights, homework, classwork, test, food for the family, mommy struggles to make ends meet, daddy out here doing #GodKnowsWhat to make it happen for the family. Yeah, well guess what haven’t much changed at all. Our children go through the same things we went through as a child, and just like our parents we tell them these are grown folk’s problems. We were told the same damn thing. Then when we became teenagers our parent told us we had to find a job or help out around the house. Again nothing has changed! We just want them to learn lessons and learn to mature. I wonder if it is too much pressure. I wonder if forcing us into the struggle at an early age isn’t what makes life a survival and not a way of living.

With school being hard as hell, children being children and making poor decisions; with growing up moving so fast; with trying to find their identities; with the question being asked what are you going to do with your life when you grow up being on the table and in the back of their minds; with what you do now determine who you will be in the future being thrown in their faces; and making the right choices in life too much for children. What I noticed since nothing has changed is that we as parents and parents before us, think that children have nothing to worry about. That’s a lie! We think just because we pay the bills and buy the food as well as their clothes that they don’t have nothing to worry about but remember we are the ones that put the most pressure on them and then have the audacity to tell them that they don’t have nerves yet but wait. We frighten them into adulthood while screwing up their childhood. For a matter of fact our lives right now are the way they are because someone did the same thing to us.

It might seem like what we should do because it was done to us, but it isn’t fair. It wasn’t fair when it was done to us and it isn’t fair now that it is being done to yours. For a matter of fact I know some of you are saying I turned out just fine, but are you really okay or just getting by with what you were taught and learned along the way? Do you have moments of regret based upon the choices that were made for you? You went along with them because there were no other choices given. Now as an adult you think that if you had other options that you would have made different decision for your life? I know we pay the bills, put the food on the table, keep the roof over their heads, clothes on their backs, shoes on their feet, lights on in the house and water for drinking and cleaning, but why do we do it?

We do it for them. So why keep reminding them of it when they can see the struggle from it. They can see the hurt in our faces, the pain in our bodies and the worry in our eyes. They don’t want that for you nor for themselves. They just want to live as children right now, just like we wanted to when we were children, but the pressure is what’s overwhelming them and more now that life have changed and not for the better. We want whats best for our children but we give them what we think is best based on what you were taught by the same people who said the same thing to us. Break the cycle and really sit down and understand your children needs and feelings. We owe it to the child in us.

Maybe, just maybe we will stop struggling to survive and start #Living.

Sending you love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – How Do You Like To Be Sexed?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

This is a question that most people don’t even want to know the answer to. They just figure they know how to fuck so they are going to do them and see if that is a good fit for you. Most don’t even know what they like about sex but the end result. If you know your body and what you like about your body, you will not allow anyone to mistreat it just for their satisfaction. You will take pride in making sure getting there was worth the trip. I understand that most never really had the good experience in the course of the sex life but now that you are older what is your preference. What is it that make you want a man or a woman? What makes you want to hold out until the end? What makes you stand out from the rest of the people this person could be sexing right now? If you say the head game is wicked, then that’s what it is. Here’s the question, is it the same for all the people you give it to and if so, it can’t be wicked? I tell you why, if it was wicked the last thing you would want to do is give it to every person you meet. If it was that you claim to fame then you will be afraid that giving it to wrong person would cause you harm. Note* Not everyone can handle awesome sex and it will literally drive a person insane if it is wicked. It will make a person do bodily harm to anyone who thinks that you are available for the challenge, but most of all they will kill you if they think you are giving it away like that. More often than you think most people who is weak minded think that your sex game is the truth, but if it is what you say it is, you should have a group of followers that will claim for you the fame. They will literally want to fight each other and everyone for what you have to offer. This isn’t a dis it is an acknowledgement that you can’t sex everyone the same because if you do the that mean you have no real sex life just few good moves.

When sexing the next person do understand how to make that person crazy you when you aren’t around. The art of make love or performing sex well is literally make that person know their are the only person that exist. I mean when you leave them they believe that the universe just made love to them. Their mind should always remember that first time with you and never ever forget even if you don’t end with them that you made them feel like life started with them. It’s about living up to the fantasy in their head and making them believe that they have lived the moment in their life wherein they won everything, even when they lost everything.

Good sex or great loving making is about allowing that person a part of you that you can never take back. It’s about making them wish that this moment is forever and no one can take this moment from them. When it is done they have no regrets and that this time will never end. It’s about making a person who you have sex with everyday fell like it’s the first time every time. It’s about a connection of the mind, body and spirit. It’s about two DNA’s inhabiting one soul. It’s like the destiny isn’t the end game but the forever game. When you exit that person life it will take a life time of apologies to get you back or a life time to find someone who make them feel like you made them feel.

I would say it is like rainbows and explosion but it isn’t. It is like a war and even though you have no idea why you are fighting you aren’t leaving until the other person respect what you have to offer. Except the deal or in that moment which up the game and make a different offer but don’t leave without knowing you did what you came to do and that is be remembered. Yeah, I can admit winning the war sound great but if all you got was the nut then what war was won and who won it. If both of you came but neither of you remember any of it or want more than that moment; then who won?

See with me, my goal is when I am not around and you think of me not only do you get hard but you cum as well. Because that whole connection have your body remembering what happened, and how sensual it was when we connected. I want you to be in a state of trans, ready to transition into eternal bliss. I don’t sex everyone the same because everyone is not the same. I watch your moves, I pickup on your tone, I discover your enemies and destroy them. In the moment we are together, you have no worries, no problems exist, there is no job you want to get to, there is no time of day. There is only you and I. You aren’t sure what is real and what isn’t it. You remember me even if we are only here for a one night stand. You carry my DNA like it is a gift from GOD himself. You crave me like your life depends on it and believe it or not I have sworn affidavits that will confirm my abilities, but like I said not everyone get it the same.

I know how I like to be sexed and I do ask questions about what your preferences are and how you like to be handled. Once I have a scope on you then, it’s about you. I know how to be get me where I want to be so all I need to do is get you right there with me.

Now do you like rough or soft; fast or slow; freaky or regular; left or right; upside down, or do you like to ride, in public or private, laying;down or standing up, with one person or multiples, different position or straight to it; foreplay or oral; dress up for the strip down or role play; will a nice dance turn you on or will a good song set the mood; on or back or all fours? Are you will to share this information with others or do you prefer for them to find out the hard way? Are you aggressive or passive? Do you take the lead or like to be led? Do you suck in the middle, beginning or end? Do you talk or are you quiet? Do you moan or just wish it was over already? Do you swallow or spit? Are you giving or getting? Are you a top or bottom? Knowing who you are and what you want will make a difference in being remembered or forgotten. It’s all up to you!!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove