Parenting

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I’m no expert on the situation but I do have something to say to these parents who are being their child or children friend instead of parenting. The way you raise your child is up to you and for you to decide but if there is no moral and values being instilled then why are you wasting your time and theirs as well. Society has rules and most of you are not teaching your children respect, person space, morals, nor values of life. Instead you are allowing the social media, television, streets, and other children to raise your children. You all think it is cute allowing your child freedom to do them but without proper guidance they have no idea what freedom means. As we can see to them it means they can kill, rape, molest, torture, and bully other children. The worst part is some parents are now facing this problem in their own home because they have lost control of their own lives, homes, and children. Then we have all these young children having children but without anyone ever raising them. I mean what in the hell have this world come to?

Where is the parents who believe in their children future and is willing to go the distance to fight the good fight for their children? Parent them and make them understand the value of life and give them morals to stand on. Where is the parents who still believe that run their own household and will not allow their very children they brought into this world to run over top of them just to keep them from being a part of the system. Well I mean if you aren’t raising them they will be a part of the system of some sort. Whether it is the foster care system or the prison system either way you have no control over them at that point either way. I mean you need to buckle down and parent no matter how bad that may seem to you or hard it may seem to be. These kids are crying for parents by acting the hell out and we are ignoring them by rewarding them with things that make them even more disrespectful, disloyal, angry, and fueled to misbehave and show you up.

I saw yesterday, a girl had to be about 14 years old yell at her mother and call her by her first name. She then started to curse her mother like she was just a bitch in the street. She then told her to give her the keys to the car so she can sit there until she finish shopping. Then called I think was her father and curse him for being with the mother or ever having sex with her in the beginning. I could only imagine me doing some shit like that to either one of my parents at the age of 14. My father’s foot would still be planted in my ass if I ever thought about cursing him or my mother and living under their roof. I know I would have taken up permanent residence at the nearest hospital until I turned 18. My parents did what they did but at the same time they raised me and no we weren’t friends. They were my parents and I will always be their child. May they both rest in peace but I don’t think I would have done any of the things that these children are doing these days.

I’m glad that all my children are well mannered and respectful to not only me but their elders and the people they come in contact with that doesn’t make them want to run and hide. I can see them not speaking to those who they sense are just plain evil but my children will never disrespect anyone just because life allows them to do so. I can’t take a disrespectful child and I definitely know I cannot converse with the parent if they aren’t sure their role in their own life.

WE REALLY NEED TO GET IT TOGETHER BEFORE YOUR FUTURE IS LESS THAN WHAT YOU HAVE WORKED SO HARD TO ACCOMPLISHED. WE WILL NOT HAVE A FUTURE IF WE ALLOW THE BAD SEEDS TO BRING DOWN THE GOOD ONE OR JUST BRING DOWN THE POPULATION WITH ALL THE VIOLENCE, HATRED, KILLING AND SO FORTH. PLEASE GET YOUR CHILDREN BEFORE THE SYSTEM HAVE TO OR SOMEONE SEND THEM TO SEE THE MAKER.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Time Alone

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

There are moments in time when your life seems to be spiraling out of control or maybe in a place unfamiliar to you. A time when you are out of touch with reality and not sure how to separate fiction from facts, lies from the truth, right from wrong and so on and so forth. You know yourself and this doesn’t seem to be the norm or what you would do. This isn’t of your character, and if no one else can see it, you can. Your behavior is that of a savage, your mindset is of suicide, and your motivation is that of a murderer. Hate had fueled you with anger and destruction. You aren’t quite sure who you are nor what you’ve come to be, but deep down inside you know this isn’t you.

Step back and look within yourself to find that person you know you are. Don’t feed into the “this is exactly who you always were it just had to come out of you” bullshit. Take time alone and fight your demons. Close your ears and open your heart, feel your way back to life and love. Close your eyes and recall your memories of happier times of joy and passion. Remember how it made you feel. Allow that feeling to take control of your soul once again before you do something that you will regret, can’t take back, can’t stop yourself from doing that may cause you or someone else hurt and pain. Breathe in life and exhale death. Embrace love and shun hate. Kiss joy and refuse destruction. Hold hands with passion, compassion, empathy and sympathy. Leaving behind misery, pain, agony, devastation and horror. Goodbye darkness, and evil; for I have found the light. A path in which I got off and now have returned to for me and not for others, to redeem my soul and my destiny.

This was me! I had to regroup and get back on track. I had to come to terms with myself before I got in that place I knew I couldn’t come back from. Sometimes it takes a while but this time it took longer. I was in such a terrible state of mind and action. I lost focus of me. Never mind the love ones around me, I lost me. I had to find me because I had no idea who I was and where I was going. I sat in darkest room with silence until I was sure it was me who would emerge. I needed this for me in order to be me once again.

I speak from experience, #Depression is real and shouldn’t be taken lightly. Find what makes you whole and hold onto that when you are falling apart. I had to hold onto me because I know that I am a great mother, friend, wife, daughter, sister, and most of all great person all the way around. I have moments when all the evil in life comes to the surface and all I want is to destroy anyone and everything in my path. Then a little part of me, a little voice says, “This isn’t you! Find yourself and make you whole again.” That’s when I withdrawal from society and find myself, so I can be whole for my love ones and family, but mostly for myself.

I love me and wouldn’t have it any other way. I tell you all this because I know there is someone who is going through it right now and need to know they aren’t alone. Even though it feels like they are, they aren’t. Just take sometime and find yourself and if you need some help reach out, I’m always here to help. I know the feeling all to well. We all have some things we must fight through but if you can’t do it by yourself then reach out and ask for help. The right people are out here and are will to help. All you have to do is be willing to receive. It’s hard I know but don’t allow the darkness to win, fight back!

Sending you all kisses and love. #GoddessLove.

Improvement

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I always had a dream to become a household name. People told me that I was just doing exactly that, dreaming. I didn’t allow them the satisfaction of seeing me cry so I just punched and walked away. Yes, I had a little of a short temper back then. Can’t say right now that it has greatly improved but it has improved. I have come a long way from that dream to knowing that what I want I can have. I can say my success even though small to others is great to me.

I am a published author. I have an Associates in Healthcare Administration. I have two Bachelors; one in Forensic Science and the other in Accounting/Finance. I have a Masters in Psychology and as soon as my money is better I will continue my PH.D in Neuroscience. In the meantime, I continue with my writing to release two new books this year. One being a children’s book and the other being a mystery sy-fy. Either way I am still moving towards my goal. Maybe not as fast as I thought I could but I am doing it. I have started my own clothing line as well as continue on with my diner, small but thriving. I counsel financially and emotionally, those who need me to do so. I sell jewelry for magnolia and vine at magnoliaandvine.com/GODDESS. I sell shoes and purses. I have my hand in a lot of things. I also a have semi-happy Blog @missk22

My whole point is that my goal haven’t changed just my road to getting there has. I will always look for new things to get involved in and that show growth. After all that is what the mission is to improve, to show growth and to let my children know don’t allow anyone to steer your from your dream.
I make my personal investments to keep my head above water and haven’t drowned just yet. I owe it all to the ALL HIGH, because he sees the potential and promise within me.

Sending you all kisses and love. #GoddessLove

Family

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We all have a family whether big or small; good or bad; blood or not. It could be someone or a group of people you grew up with or the real deal. See in my family I have 23 siblings, hundreds of cousins on my father’s side and equal as many on my mother’s side but I only beginning to realize the intensity of having so many family member. I thought having 23 siblings was tough imagine having hundreds of personalities to deal with and trying not to burst. See we are a close knit family and get even closer when we are threatened.

We all have our own lives yes but we can’t seem to stay out of each others lives as well. We fuss and fight sometimes with the physical but we always manage somehow to work it out. We dance, sing and eat together more often than most families. We share our history with our new generations. The one thing we haven’t done is abandoned one another. We have yet to see our family out on the streets or in rare form suffering. We weren’t raise to leave one another behind and so we don’t. We bare and grin but we don’t close our doors nor turn our backs on one another. We have our grandparents to thank for that passion and compassion. Even though there have been some abandonment involved by those who shouldn’t have the rest of the family picked up the slack.

We have nursed our sick and elder into health or made it comfortable in their last days with us. We have fed the whole family and didn’t care the cost. We have adopted other’s babies within the family so that no one else will have to do what our family can do. Some have slipped through the cracks but we never stopped looking for those ones. We teach our children the meaning of family with hopes that they continue on the traditions and love. We are an affectionate bunch and show it as well as say it. We gather in honor of graduations, great achievements, proud moments, births, as well as death. We are a enormous family but we have big hearts and large shoes to fill. So when we leave we pray that the ones we leave behind will remember us like we remember the one’s who have went on.

So on this day and everyday, I honor my family with love, encouragement, dedication, determination, motivation, reconciliation, passion, compassion, empathy and sympathy. I glorify them because of their achievements, persistence, ability to get back up when it seems as though the world has knocked them down. I praise them for not giving up on themselves and the others around them. I accept that some need more help than other and I don’t deem them less worthy of being praised because it take a lot of courage to ask for help or to receive it when you feel as though you don’t deserve it. I commend them on going after their goals and passion. To make life better for themselves and their families. To show our children that any and everything is possible if you just believe in yourself and allow other to believe in you as well. I cherish your dreams as if they were my own. Follow your heart to the fullest because we got your back.

Way to go and continue on FAMILY. I LOVE YOU FOR JUST BEING YOURSELF AND NEVER COMPRISING WHO YOU ARE FOR ANYONE.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Getting To The Truth Thursday

Getting To The Truth Thursday

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Lets jump straight into it shall we. How many of you all think you are in a one on one relationship only to find out you’re not? Well don’t be discourage because a lot of people found that out over the Valentine Day extravaganza, that they are in multiple situations. This is why this holiday doesn’t hold water to me. Yes I know I always get something and this year made no difference, but in reality if I didn’t get anything I wouldn’t be disappointed. I mean I get gifts and love 365 days a year so one day will not destroy me in any way.

What I do understand is that this is all that most have to look forward to and that is because this is what they allow. Is this your fault? Yes and no. I say that because you didn’t get involved in your life or your relationship. What you have been doing in belonging into a relationship or an endless marriage but not involved. I know you all do so much together, but how many of you share the deepest darkest secrets? How many of you know what your mate is doing when you decide to do you? Think about it, if you think you are getting away with it, so do she or he. When you think that you are in this committed relationship and find out that you are in a triangle web of lies is horrifying. When you find out that there is multiple partners involved is more devastating. When there is a child now present that wasn’t there when you met. When there is a boyfriend wherein you thought you were the husband or a girlfriend wherein you thought you vowed your life to him forever. When you find out an ex is a still ongoing thing and now you are the side piece. I see it all the time and much too often. How about when you find out that everyone knew but you? Then you blame everyone for not telling you about it. Please open your own damn eyes to see the truth and not hide behind what is given to you or what is being said to you. Yes, anyone can say that they love you but if they aren’t showing it then that’s where the problem lye. Why do you make it someone else’s business to get in your life, love and relationship? When they are there you then tell them to mind their business when isn’t beneficial to you. Then question their loyalty when it is hurtful only because you didn’t want to hear it in the beginning. Well my friends we all stand in our own way to shame the hurt and cover up the pain. We force ourselves to believe that there is no way this person could do this to me. “Not after all I have done for them!” “Not after all I have given up for them!” “Not after what I have given them!” “Not when I could have been with or loved, or done or did!” My question to you is why didn’t you just go with your instincts? Because you got in your own way and thought you could change a person instead of just moving to the side and allow nature to take it course. We have that I am better than; I can make you feel; I know I have; I am the right person syndrome and come to find out you weren’t. Your aren’t or weren’t the better; You couldn’t make them feel; You didn’t have; and of course they end up with someone else still.

The problem is no communication. People are afraid to ask the hard questions. Are you seeing someone else? Is there a new child I need to know about? Where is you loyalty and love in this relationship? Is there new skeletons I need to be aware of? Make bold statements like, I scheduled both of us for STD testing. I am going to the doctors with you and no I will not sit in the waiting room. There is no confidentiality when it comes to my health and we are married or in a committed relationship. I do it all the time. I tell my mate come go in the room with me and be there for the examination. There is no secrets when it come to me. If we are sharing bodily fluids we might as well share a doctors appointment, health report, dental visit, eye examination, or specialist visit. People say there are in a relationship and then do everything by themselves. Reason for uncertainty and secrecy. Not me I am an open book and invite my mate to all my appointments, even Gynecology because if anything is different then you made it different. I don’t play with my health, life, family, love, or money and yes in that order. So get all involved in your life, love, health, and family business. Because at the end of the day it matters to you as well. Do not rely on someone who barely holds their head up when speaking to you the truth to tell you the truth. Because I know that I am who I am and I am not here to make your feel better and me feel worse. I am not here to make life better for you while I live like shit. I am not here to play guessing games with my life, health, nor this relationship. I am here to better us and if there is no us then I surely know how to leave for the better. I am not going to throw dirt on your name because that isn’t in my character. I will however, turn a blind eye when you see the grass wasn’t greener. I will however, forgive you for your ignorance. I will however, continue to wish you the best of luck because you did me a favor. You help me dodge you; that bullet that is killing that current relationship. Thank you for showing me a different side of the mirror. I only saw the reflection I wanted to see and not the image that was stirring back.

Your life is in your hands so don’t just give someone the power of your freedom, love, health, journey, nor destiny. Don’t allow anyone to decide when any of it is over. You are your director, publicity, narrator, producer, writer and critic. So feel free to live your life like you think it should go and not how someone else views it. Get Involved in your relationships, marriage, family, home, and life. If you don’t someone else will!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Updates

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

My money have been returned for the package stolen off my steps by the thief that she is. I then went and purchase my product again because well I needed it so I can do gel nails in addition to just manicures and pedicures, tips and so forth. Now I have also added new cameras to my home so that I can more security for my family and our awareness. I put up motion detectors as well as sensor lights only to alert me more. I do so much work in my I don’t have time for people shenanigans when it come to safety. I rather not and say well I did.

Now my family and I as well as my clients feel a little more sense of security when we are doing what we need to do and don’t have to worry about extra.

Then there the scare of Glaucoma going on within me. No I am not a diabetic nor do I have high blood pressure, but for some strange reason Glaucoma wants to play a role in my existence but my Ophthalmologist tell me not to worry because it have not progressed in 10 years but still need to be monitored annually. I did have a problem with losing my sight but then thought I would still be able to survive because I pretty much know my way around my house, laptop, phone, kitchen, and block but will require the need of my family for everything else. The reason I don’t burn bridges nor cause hate among those I love and cherish.

The clothing business is coming along. I have several orders for pants suits, pants, joggers and more. That is keeping me busy. I did have a fitting the other day and it was different for me but I managed through it.

The book is on its way to the press and will be available by the end of the month or at least the beginning of March. Look out for “Twelve” and give me your feed back. It will be available at Amazon, Kindle fire, and Barnes and Noble, as well as I shall sell copies myself.

The jewelry sales is slow but it is expected but not for long. I always have a game plan in place. As for the give away no one have won yet, reason the sales are down. I’m not worried though because I still have ways of sales.

What’s new with you all? How is life treating you and yours? I would like to hear.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

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Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Ladies and gentlemen we have a problem that can be solve as well as resolved. See what I have noticed is that we have this certain persona that we display when we are in the company of various people. We give off a scent that attract people in all the wrong ways and send them all the wrong messages. Well some of us at least, the rest just like to be messy and it shows.

We flirt and giggle or smile in a manner that tells someone who is on the other end of this flirtation or smile we are available. If you are available that is fine but if there is only one thing you want out of this encounter please say so? If you aren’t available then there lies the problem? Don’t led someone down a path of uncertainty just because you yourself is confused about what you want, or what it is that you think this person can give you. Don’t get stuck in a triangle that you created, then pretend you don’t know how it came about. If your game plan is just sex then say just that, and if it is only the one time, then make sure you can handle the encounter. After all this was your mission, and not the person on the receiving end. If money is the only thing you are after, then don’t catch feelings when it is nothing there, because you thought the look was money. See all things that shine isn’t fine, and all things that glitter isn’t gold. So if platinum is what you were looking for, and all you found was copper? That’s your problem! Maybe you should have done your research before you executed your pursuit.

Diamonds definite are a girls best friend but if all you really are is cubic zirconia then that is all she will treat you like. Dog are man best friend so if she bark like a dog and howl at the moon then you got your friend. Don’t try to trade it in when that is exact what you were looking for. We as people put on such a facade to make ourselves look more appealing than what we really are, then tell the other person you knew what you were getting into when you met me. How could they know, when you were in costume, pretending to be more than who you are and had more than what you have? FALSE ADVERTISEMENT!!! Don’t get me wrong we all have done it and it is the reason so many people end in heartache, hatred, anger, name calling, court, death, or in a dead as relationship going nowhere fast.

It’s like being on a stationary bike, you pedal hard as you can, but get nowhere, and know you’re not going nowhere. It is great exercise, but that is all it’s every going to be. Now pat yourself on the back for a workout, and a waste of time. For some of us it works, but for the most part it ends in disaster. Then to keep the facade going you continue on so you can look good in those around you eyes, but in reality you are suffer miserably, and want out. Because you don’t want to be the bad guy, you stay, and try to make something work that have no business being together. To top it all off some of you take it as far as marriage, and then cheat to make the marriage worth the effort. HOW DUMB DOES THAT SOUND? What is the purpose of marrying someone if you know you made a mistake in the beginning? After time the marriage fail, but now children are involved, and hell has broken loose. Now it is war, and you have no other alternative, but to go all in with war instead of admitting defeat, and throwing in the flag.

Pride won’t allow you to admit when you are wrong, hurt, or defeated. You rather just die then to allow someone else a victory. When you don’t even know if you leave now with your dignity, sanity, and heart intact you are the winner of the war, and the battle. Ladies and gentlemen, please stop with the bull and maybe you will send the right signals to the right person and get the results you were hoping for in the beginning. Not the look, but the results; happiness, love, excitement, great sex, laughter, joy and someone to share it with for the rest of your life.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove