The Family Bond! Chapter 3…Segment 1.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Chapter 3.  The Strength of the Black Woman to Carry on in His Absence

While we know women are nurturers by nature some missed that gene.  Mother’s on the other hand stand up to a different level, especially if they are single parents.  Yes, I know that there are a lot of mothers that pass their young off to more mature women but still mothers nonetheless.  Yes, we know there are plenty of women/mothers that need the village to aid them but are scared to ask for help.  They live in fear that they will be damn or criticize by those who are there to help not judge. 

G – Growing up is hard especially if they aren’t ready.

I – Information need to help develop their growth, mature their bodies, and educate their minds.

R – Rally with single mothers as a support system

L – Love thy sister from another mother as you love thy sister from the same mother, do not demeanor her.

S – Support the changes they/we all go through as women.

We must be ready for the next step in life not only for ourselves but for the gifts, the Higher Power blessed us with.  Educating them to achieve more than what we have to offer, but with morals, and values.  Embrace them with all that you have, all that they need, and more.  Give them of yourself as you wanted someone to give of themselves to you.  Understand I do mean mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually, solely, and most of all do it all with love and warmth. 

I know you didn’t bring this child in this world by yourself but if you allow the village to help then you won’t raise them alone.  When a mother was taken from a child during slavery days do you think the other mothers turned their backs on that child?  No, they embraced that child as their own and taught their children that we all are as one; everyone is a part of this family.  We must stand together in order to stand against the oppressed “society.”   How do we discontinue the conditions of the households now?  Families are torn away from one another, mothers burying their sons and daughters, because of the lack family values.  The disrespect for life is unbearable.

G – Generally, a disregard for all life.

E – Enemies of our own race, culture, and heritage.

N – Navigating people destinies by difficult decisions for the family

O – Overriding Gods plans, the audacity

C – Consider karma because someone is gunning for you as well

I – Improve quality of life not by murdering though

D – Depriving mothers of their children and people of a future.

E – Enclosed in their own hell.

Do a man knows when he leaves his home vulnerable the next man will show his real intentions, whether they are good or otherwise.  A real woman will do what she must do to support her family.  You know the one you left behind to fend for herself, so don’t be mad or call her names when her only line of defense has abandoned her.

W – Won’t take no or nothing from her child/ren

O – Own up to her responsibilities

M – Multi-task while keeping her sanity

E – Evolves with times to keep up with her child/ren but not changing her status as a mother

N – Never negotiate nor debate about rules set in her home.

What has it come to when women in their middle ages are trying to keep up with the young mothers; its tiring.  They have abandoned their maturity to impress or convince themselves they aren’t getting old.  Instead of denying it, we as elderly women need to embrace it as well as spread the wisdom, we have gain in this life time.  Experienced women should be more than grateful to having knowledge and advantages, they should share it with others.  Getting old isn’t embarrassing it is encouraging, because at the rate our young men and women are going, they will never experience getting old nor accumulating wisdom.

For all these women who had or is enduring the company of someone else’s man, remember your still single.  No matter how much time he spends with you, he is still with her.  Also remember that if he does decide to give her up for you, how he found you and his patterns will lead him to the next woman the same way.  Stop being a side piece, it isn’t special, it is embarrassing.   I know he treat you different, but its only because you don’t demand much.  Your wants are well within his range, but as soon as you want more, he’ll leave, because now it feels to him like a relationship.

He’s already in a relationship which he’s not faithful in so what make you think he wants another one so he can cheat on two women at once, he already uncommitted to the first don’t need any more of that.  That’s like paying for two homes and not living in either one.  Now I said they were broken not stupid!  They are scared to be real men and as soon as it feels unfamiliar to them, they want a way out.  This leave a strong woman to pick up the slack for a absent man again.  Instead of trying to process the situation they rather just run from it.  Calling you all kinds of names, disrespecting your whole being like you are no longer a human.  I know the pickings are slim but we all can’t have a good man, some of us need a broken man so we can rebuild him just for us.

We as women, then crawl into a shell like we didn’t play a part in our own hurt, well come on we did!  We set ourselves up from the beginning.  We allow ourselves to believe we are better than what he has at home or why else would he be with us.  The truth is because he’s a coward and we just became his shield, shelter, a safe-haven for his ego and manhood.  Well not really his manhood, because if he was really a man then he wouldn’t be out trolling for someone to improve it.  But, ladies he’s not the only problem, we need to take blame as well.

Sending you all kisses and love. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 2…Segment 5.

Goddess Morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

R – Restore the faith of the Higher Power, love and family in their psyche

E – Ensure stability and confidences in the Black male

B – Be held accountable for life of all Black people

I – Insinuate life over death because Black Lives Does Matter

R – Retrain all Black men thought process

T – Teach morals and values to all

H – Honor your Royal Heritage, take your place as the Kings you are.

Our Black men to be the head of their house holds not the footstool to “society”

Then you have those men that has everything and came from a good family loving home.  They aren’t satisfied with what the good Higher Power blessed then with so they decided to be cheats and steal their way into another family.  I like to call these men predators, vultures if you will.  They destroy two homes at once, their own and that of the single mother’s.  They are just like “society” come in with their lies and money in hand.  Prey on the hearts of the lonely, the mind of the abandoned, the spirits of the less fortunate, all the while playing roles that leads to hate, but spreading uncertainty in young men and women’s hearts.

They play the male role but only when it deems necessary.  Part time fucks, therefore young men think it’s okay to fuck up on young women and move on, leaving behind hurt, anger, children, disease, and waste to all the women lives he touches.  Making life more difficult when the mother is fed up and doesn’t want anything else to do with him.

Now I’m not saying all Black men are good we know the devil himself exists in some of our men, but we cannot persecute them all for a few bad seeds.  Yes, I know that most of us would like to say the apple didn’t get off the tree, so forget about falling.  We can’t because some our men aren’t anything like their fathers before them are some are like their grandfathers before them.  We would love to think that all things be rationalized, but some time we just choose to close our eyes to the ignorance and horror to blame it on DNA.  The realness to it all is that some of you are just really trifling and we justify your behavior to protect our actions or a lack thereof.  

We know what we should do but don’t do anything about it because we are family or because we allow it to get to far.  Let’s talk about these rapes in the families.  It is so much hidden secrets to protect other feelings, hearts, and lives, but we know that’s wrong.  We shouldn’t protect evil, that’s just wrong and we know it.  No, it’s not always adults that causes the pain, hurt, or commit the rapes.  Some children are the problem, and commit some of the most violent acts of all.  I have seen it!  I have seen young children do acts of terror and I have decided that he/she needs more than an ass whipping.  They need more than God that they deserve death.  I know is sounds a little harsh but when you allow them to grow up and do nothing or give them a mild reprimand, they become grown and powerful predators and a lot more people are targets in their line of sight.  No and I’m not talking about a quick death, I’m talking one that is long, drawn out and painful beyond any one’s pain level.

I know I said that children are born innocent and taught evil but as I think about it some of them are born of evil and needs to be destroyed at birth.  It is all the DNA and the parent actions before, during, and after conception.  If you are evil and conceive a child that child will have that profound evil laying within him/her.  So be very cautious of whom you conceive with because your child may be more then you can handle and you may be the victim needed to fuel the fire.  You very well maybe the push he/she need to want to kill and shall killed.

Choose your seductive words to what partner and remember your temper, his/her temper along with both sets of parents, grandparents tempers will be instilled in your seed.  How you raising him/her will be the key, because even with all the love and understanding may not be enough to defuse the time bomb waiting to explode or implode.  Your choice, your mess, your problem, so if you have already decided that there will be no village in aiding you to raise him/her, then the outcome is all based and falls on your shoulders.  Don’t call on the village in your desperate time of need.  Your bed, lay in it.

Be very careful the choice of words you use when raising the seed of lucifer.  Don’t be cruel, be gentle but let him/her know you are not to be played with and you can be just as evil, nasty, and cruel as he/she.  Not to say go in provoking the situation but remember you are the parent not him/her.  To live in fear means you are the target of your impiety, that you created.  So sometimes it might be best to remove the male from the home.  I have seen evil of all kind, but a black man, child or otherwise, who take the innocents of a child, woman or otherwise is pure malice.  Name calling isn’t going to be damaging to this person.  You are wasting your time, and your breath.  With this type of sin considering, our ancestors had this malevolent thrust upon them as they were release into our homes to do unto other’s this evil that was done unto them.

I see how the evil became a part of our nature.  It was never corrected nor was it spoken into existence.  They simply tucked it away, allowing all that evil to manifest into rage, hate and destruction.  When it was release it was release unto the wrong people.  It didn’t make matters better it made matters worse.  No one was ever punished for the raping of slave man or woman.  The question is how do we keep the madness from spreading and continuing to destroy our black men which entails keeps them out of the home?

 Something needs to be done but without criticism and persecution.  That will only add fuel to the fire and cause more damage.  Our goal is to help our men and bring them back into the home healthy, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially.  This is the mission to restore the family bond!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 2…Segment 4.

Goddess Morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

T – Tortured beyond what is humane

O – Observed by your family for them to know their place.

R – Ridiculed for all to see and fear “society”

N – Neutered to ensure less population for all who witness your public punishment.

Enough you say and think, yes so, they were “freed” so we thought.  Seen as though they were emancipated.  See there are a lot of proclamations on the United States like the one from King George III in 1763 that follows Great Britain’s acquisition of French territory in North America after the end of the French and Indian War/Seven Years War, which forbid all settlement past a line brown along the Appalachian Mountains.

In 1863, President Abraham Lincoln emancipated the south enslaved black but only during the Civil War.  The 13th Amendment was supposed to free the slaves but I don’t think society was listening.  It was revised in 1992 because some just didn’t get in “The Black Codes” were passed by Southern States in 1865 and 1866 after the Civil War and the emancipation and 13th Amendment was passed.  Intent and the effect of restricting South African Americans (black) freedom and of compelling them to work in a labor economy based on low wages or debt.  Black Codes were part of a large pattern of southern trying to suppress the new freedom of emancipated South African Americans slaves, the

F – Formation of “society” to continue to diminish Black

R – Revoke their rights, but harass them more

E – Evoke their prior state to force anger

E – Empowered by other Black to hold your head up high

D – Develop a numbness to all the “society’s” bull shit

M – Maintain your freedom mentally and physically

E – Emancipate them never trap them in their own state of mind

N – Never submit to “society’s” demand to reincarcerated you physically

Freedom is a state of mind for the body to follow.  If your mind is enslaved or enclosed then your body, and actions will be as well.  You have to learn to free yourself from what “society” have locked your mind into.  When you are arrested you decide to learn how to not be a prisoner to the system, but by then it is too late.  You have already given your life to the system or “society” when you allowed yourself to be locked up by messing up.  The thought process has to be involved from the beginning.  You have to be able to be more than a statistic in today’s “society” system.  You have to think differently as the modern-day male but be braver than our ancestors but smarter as well. 

Now we have the modern-day male, husband, boyfriend, baby father, and lover, who we damn because of their ancestors or because they grew up in a home where no male was present.  They believe they have turned out just fine because their mother did a very fine job by herself.  Not true, she did her part but they were a huge part of life missing from the family development.  No male which plays his role and help boys and young men develop into a family man.  This is how the struggle to deal with being a family man comes into a negative role.  Some adapt quickly because they have a woman who understand and takes her time with them but there’s others who really can’t grasp the concept.  They want so much to but the idea and the action itself eludes them. 

Also no one taught these males a lesson in hard work, how to support his family.  How to protect his family, how to care for his family nor himself?  How to cook, clean, dress, plan, pay bills, groom, or love oneself?  Mothers have shown then from her prospective all these things but as a woman she shown them what women do and not what men do.  Sure, mothers are doing the best and boys are learning but they also learn how not to be in the home.  They learn that mothers can do it without fathers, which mean their child/ren will be alright without them.  So, ladies I commend you for doing everything you do but they learned the absence of a man and will become the absent male. They learn to take care of the child/ren from a distance but never look at the problems, wear and tear it has on the female’s psyche. 

Males today just go with the flow and hide their feelings, and true selves, scared of what others and society thinks of them, because the male psyche is just as fragile as the female psyche.  They aren’t sure how to express themselves without thinking it’s gay or feminine.  They bottle up those emotions that eventually become more than they can handle.  They get confused by them and uses them for evil or lashing out at others.  Some bottled them up so much they allow them to change them completely.  They become closet homosexuals and even then, still wants to allow others to dictate their actions.  To fit in they call out names of the very same men they wish to sleep with secretly.  How confusing is that?

Don’t get me wrong many have found their own way.  Many were fortunate to have a male in their life to guide them and to show them the whole way of life.  They taught them how to be a man and how to provide, care, love and support for their family.  To those men I give you praise.  I thank you for your heart, mind, body, soul, and spirit.  I congratulate you and your parents especially, the fathers for your contribution in the man they raised.  Now we need to help the ones who are broken because they didn’t have what you all have or had.  May the good Higher Power continue to bless you and your seeds and future seeds.

All our black men are in trouble because of our ancestor’s treatment and life style suffered at the hands of their captives.  We now must be the village to help raise our black men.  The true mission is to keep the black in the home and out of jail or prison.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 2…Segment 3

Goddess Morning Royals. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Doomed from captivity, many knew they wouldn’t survive, so they warned new comers of the hardship.  Many killed themselves to escape while others just escaped.  Some were smart enough to buy out their freedom.  Most wasn’t sure why they had to buy freedom when they came there as a free man.  They couldn’t believe they were now slaves when so much was promised to them.  Many just wanted on the ship to find a love one that was taken so many years ago to start the mend of a broken home.  Some debated and called those “veterans” liars, thinking they wanted the wealth to themselves, but soon learned there was no wealth only hate and poverty.  Some conformed and traded up on their own kind.  This was their way of escaping harm, death, and sales.

This would soon be a different thought process for most, because they wanted freedom.  They have heard that if you travel north that those black were free.  Some fought back and loss their lives but regained their dignity and self-respect in battle.

C – Condemned their own future for their presence

O – Overlooked things that wasn’t right to avoid punishment

N – Neglected their own families for the sake of themselves

F – Fought with “society” against their own kind.

O – Ostracized themselves from the family to fit in with “society.”

R – Replaced family with “society”

M – Manipulated by “society” to believe they were family and accepted

E – Enforcers made sure everyone stayed in compliance

D – Discriminated against the family to please “society”

Years of being passed around is now embedded in their Deoxyribonucleic Acid DNA.  Now their seeds are all over the place and without a mentor to guide their actions.  Predecessors, successors, are now preordained to continue with the lack of the family value.  For those who do fight the urge society has found new ways of ensuring their demise.  Murders their dreams, hopes, and ambitions by incarcerating, and denigrating their minds.  Make them a prisoner of themselves.  How you ask?

Educate them but with a poor integrated system.  Give them just enough education where they feel as though they have learned by not what society learns.  If they exceed what “society” teaches them then denounce them cheaters, evil, bewitched, but don’t accept them as intelligent or intellectuals.  Don’t allow other blacks to teach them of their heritage, ancestors, culture, or religion because they don’t know anything.

Black list them, give them jobs that only servant workers deserve even with “society’s” education.  Underpay them but overwork them causing depression, frustration, deterioration of their body.  Soon deeming them unable to work.  If a man can’t work he can’t eat or take care of his family.  So “society” think they won again, but black people are inventive and creative.  They are the village “society” will never be.

Let’s define “society:” The aggregate of people living together in ordered community.  An organization or club formed for a particular purpose or activity; association, club, circle, fellowship, lodge, guild, fraternity, brotherhood, sisterhood, sorority, league, alliance.

As soon as black gather together they are gang members, thugs, communed ally’s, united, ruffians, hooligans, hoodlums, gangsters, villains and criminals.  Why is my group different from your group?  Is it because of the color of our skin, the difference in our mindset, or is it the fear from “society” that black people have united and become on one accord?  So now they are terrorist.  Isn’t that what being in fraternities and sororities mean?  Just a group of people who terrorize other people who don’t fit into their club?  Same thing goes for “society’s” circles, associations, and alliances.  If your money isn’t right you don’t belong.

When blacks do it, they are conspiring against “society” and must stop at once.  I’ll revisit this in another chapter, back to how “society” tear away the black man.  So now Dad or the black man is frustrated and need someone or something to take it out on.  Since, home is the only place safe enough for him then home it is.  But even there, “society” have a say in what you as a black man can do, say, or even act out.  Either way you will be punished for “society” actions because of your reaction.

Prosecuted because of your reactions for being in the position “society” have placed you in.  Either you will be sold, beaten, or hung until death but surely you are removed from your home or shall we say the life with your family.

Sending you all kisses and love. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 2…Segment 2.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

R – Reject them this right because they are poor ass murderers.

E – Ensure they are always in the wrong.

S – Scare them with jail of enormous time for possession.

T – Trigger their violent behavior to ensure denial.

R – Reassure proper “society” that the bad guys is safely put away.

I – Imprison anyone who is Black for possession of a concealed weapon.

C – Constrict their ability to protect their families.

T – Target them as criminals with mental problems.

I – Intrigue them by provoking their natural instinct to protect.

O – Over exaggerate all injustice murdering of these people.

N – Negotiate their lives with others.

S – Sentences them for being black the new slavery technique

They will never admit to our superiority but will admit to massive slaughter of black, but deny their reasons for such destruction of our people.  If we never question their intentions then they will always have the upper hand.  If you never stand for ourselves then they will always put us where they think we belong. 

This is how it starts, first they come with their lies and money in hand.  Promising you everything but delivering you nothing.  They took everything from the Aborigines, pillaged and plundered our people.  After killing all the men of the tribes, the only thing left was to rape and impregnate the women.  Once they were done with them, they sent them off to live in a third world country and to take their elderly and weak with them.  This instilled hatred for the United State of America and brought about a need for revenge. 

Still they needed someone to build the land up for proper living.  Since “society” was so lazy they weren’t about to do the work themselves.  They tried others but came up short and very disappointed.  Their quest for other ethnics to do their will come up short but then they discovered South Africa, which from their Historical readings was already a part of a slave trade system.  What we didn’t know or what they haven’t divulged to us is that they have been enslaving our people since the 6th Century.  They saw the hard work, love, connection, commitment, dedication, and loyalty of our people.

They knew these were the people they needed to build their stolen country.  With lies in their hearts and distrust in their voices they approached the “King” to ask his people to aid them in building their country.  They promised money, jobs, living quarters, opportunities for all.  Their first trick was to show good faith.  The “King” with gold in his face and lies at his back with a good heart said okay.  Not sure of anything but the gold in front of him, he promised his people to the visitors.  Not all was please nor willing to go, but the dreams that was sold, sound good.

Once upon the ship the truth was revealed as they were shackled at once.  Some escaped to warn the King of the visitor’s betrayal, but were murdered before they could reach him.  Then the visitors thought for some to stay behind and keep the people disillusioned.  If anything looked different murder the King, then stay and rule over this land as well.  Many stayed behind while the slave ship took all the men they could from the families whom needed them.  The young and elderly were now prisoners of a “society” who was escaping from their own demons.  Do I pity them?  No, I don’t because of their laziness, lies, hate, and deceitfulness!  They have taken men and boys from their wives and mothers to do them harm and erase their existence, culture, and humanity. 

They robbed them of their chances at life.  They denied them of their dignity and honor just to satisfy their own.  Many died because of this act and the women and children left behind was never aware of their love one’s death.  No notification that their love ones will never be coming back home to or for them.  But, the ones taken wasn’t enough they needed more and since they were now in control in South Africa, they could go and take more whenever they thought necessary or unnecessary.

Then “society” learned that the South Africa’s could read and write so they weren’t as savage or dumb as they originally thought, hence the “The First Eleven Slaves” to sue “society” and win.  Nor was they like the Indians that once ruled upon the land in which they stole.  They also saw the South African worshiping the Sun God.  “Society” needed to use all this to their advantage.  I will admit they are some crafty ass villains.  The evil they lay wasted upon the South Africans will be their own mistake.  For you took away their reading doesn’t mean you stopped them from learning.  Just because you took away their writing doesn’t mean you took away their ability to do so.  You even denied them their native tongue all so you can be a ruler over people who already had a ruler.  You didn’t take away their hope nor their belief that the Sun God had favor in them.  If the Sun rose there was hope, will, and their ability to escape this madness.

Once you couldn’t break that spirit you denied them worship of their God but chose to force your God and beliefs upon them.  They now must learn to read your word and worship your God.  For their God was a lie and did not exist.  When in fact that is exactly what your God is, all lies!  Now you have completely erased their identities and now we know nothing of who we really are but we are learning, growing, and reclaiming our identities once again, even though we will never really know who we are, we can start from where we are now.

Now they are refusing to work and you feel the need to punish them.

W – Withhold their freedom and love ones from them until they beg.

H – Hate who they are but thankful for who they are.

I – Impose yourself onto them sexually.

PPatronize them as if they don’t understand what is going on.

H – Hinder them by brain washing them.

A – Assaulting them for no apparent reason.

N – Negotiate sales for their lives and bodies.

G – Gagging them to silence their cry for your God

B – Belittle them for pleasure.

U – Undermined their abilities to live as humans

R – Restrain them by crippling them physically and mentally.

N – Notarize their life, death, and birth to keep track of their movement.

S – Stealing their joy by making those who oppose your examples.

E – Easing your guilt by detaching yourself from that you have violated

L – Lessen your time on the planet by way of your God

L – Leaving behind a world of pain and uncertainty in those sold.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 2…Segment 1

Good morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Chapter 2.  Tearing the Black Man from His Home

This isn’t a new thing so don’t believe the hype of a horrible useless, lazy, no good man.  That’s simply isn’t true.  Let me see this isn’t his fault per say but it is his attachment.  Okay, so the United States of American was built on the back of the black man.  Honestly, how can they be lazy, useless, or no good?  You would have to be a self-centered bastard to say such a thing to someone after they have done all your dirty work and you have done nothing but castrated them.

S – Stripped of their manhood and family values.

T – Transferred or transported to another life not of his own.

R – Retrained to think less of himself and more of his slave owner.

E – Embarrassed by humiliation of his character.

N – Nervous for his presences of his captive.

G – Growing weak from his abuse and demoralization.

T – Taught nothing to have nothing but wealthy beyond his means.

H – Hated by all who fears his abilities to better himself.


H – Helping to build one another up.

O – Oppressed no longer by the shackles that once bonded him.

N – Negotiating his own freedom from himself and his captive.

O – Operating his own life and managing his own business.

R – Reconnected with the family he once loss.

This is where they should have regained their pride and dignity of life which was once stolen from them but they couldn’t, why?  Because “society” found a new way to keep them away from all that loves and needs them.  It’s called the Constitution for whites and not for colors.  Oh, but there is more, this was just the beginning.  It wasn’t enough to enslave them now they shall have no rights as a human at all.  I know that you all think that the Constitution of America is for all, but it isn’t.  It is so many Addendums and add-ons to the Constitution but ways around how to allow black people the same rights of those who created it and signed it for their people. 

How can something written when we were slaves, be for us?  Think my people it is only your right as a human being to be able to think past what they have trained you to accept as a way of life!  So “society” took the heart out of the home and left you with an artificial one, “pacemaker,” or shall we say a resourced income.  That’s definitely not the same damn thing.  You can’t really replace a human being with a source of money.  If you think so then you are brainwashed.  This is their figuring of the absent man.

Man Replacement
Father Money
Spouse Dildos
Disciplinary Court
Financial Supporter Child Support
Handyman Handyman Services
Source of Income DSS
Reliability Social Worker
Protector Alarm Systems
Cook Order Out
Cleaner Maid Services

Now that the man isn’t in the home what shall we do with him, nothing because what leverage do, we have over him.  None!  This can’t be right; we need to be able to control him since we have taken him from the home.  Where do we put him because without responsibilities, he is a loose cannon?  Well we can always just let him be that loose cannon and wait to see what his natural destructive behavior brings to the table.  Got to give him a push though.  We gave him drugs and we must allow him to sell them for us, but he cannot be in charge of all that money.  So, we need to create a way for him to pay us back, in comes Child Support.  You think Child Support cares where the money comes from?  No, they just want you to pay your child’s mother needing their assistance where you are absent.

Well if he gets a real job, we deduct it from his check but we will take cash to keep him from going to jail if he makes his money illegal for us.  Either way we benefit from the madness that is the single black man. What if he doesn’t leave the home then we make him work for pennies on the dollar but we give him a pat on the back for staying in his children lives.  We know they all will not stay because the money and chaos will be too great of a deal to them.  Temptation is a mother isn’t it?  What if he gets too cocky then we put him in jail or prison?  We already built the concentration camps because we didn’t want to let them run free in the beginning.  They have masterminded the whole plan and when they came to obstacles, they just simply went back to the drawing board to fix the problem and add a law to make it right.

What about the Constitution, because thanks to Lincoln they now have rights under those laws?  We’ll be bank on them not knowing them all and the right laws that bends the Constitution to our desire, suites our needs.  They have the freedom to speak but not directly to higher power or law enforcement if told not to talk.  Isn’t that a violation not if worded correctly it isn’t?  If their speaking with loud outburst and it draws in a crowd then it is inciting a riot and that is against the law.       

Let’s see the Right to Bear Arms, not for black men or women, because they are natural savages and will murder randomly.  But that isn’t really working out the way they planned.  See they put stipulations in place to deny black the right to bear arms.  With black people killing each other I think this was the plan when they decided to “allowed” them to play with the thought of being able to protect what was rightfully ours.  Oh, you can bear arms only in the comfort of your home but with a permit or license to do so, meanwhile “society” is allowed to conceal them on their person as long as the clip isn’t in the weapon and the safety is on.  Not to mention all-black people are considered to have mental problems based on the drugs that they pushed through the black communities which targeted our young black men in the beginning for ADHD. 

I really don’t remember growing up with males in my family having Attention Deficit Hypertension Disorder.  They were all normal to me.  Now all black young boys are being diagnosed with having ADHD so they can make them sterile and create a mentally ill person with no rights even if he is mentally capable.  Now they are restricted from a lot of things knowing that they shouldn’t be restricted from anything.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 1…Segment 8

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

As for my family and I, we been through it all, but who family hasn’t.  We grew up in East Baltimore in a three-bedroom, row home, with both of our parents in the house.  Unlike most of my secondary family, but their parents were still in their lives in one way or another.  I would say I’m thankful for growing up with two parents but that would be a lie.  In all honesty, my life was a slight horror film that hasn’t been reviewed by the critics and may never be viewed by anyone more than myself. I see life in a whole different eye sight.  I have never been a follower so that will never be a part of my story, but I have been accused of being more than I needed to be at times.  Whatever that mean? 

I haven’t a clue of giving people the satisfaction of controlling my existence nor my presence in any given moment.   I did that enough when I was a child and allowed my parent the satisfaction of my joy and happiness.   Yes, I grinned and bared it because I had to but in my adult life it will never be a factor of mine.  Please, to give someone my joy is like giving someone my soul in the palm of their hands and no one is that powerful to my existence anymore.

I have twenty-four siblings, yes twenty-four but I was raised with mother’s eight, most of my cousins from both sides of the family including my aunts and uncles.  Yes, both sides of my grandparents and wonderful Godmothers.  I cannot forget the wonderful ladies who found prayer and love for my siblings and I, for giving my mother their hard-earned time, love and support in raising and feed us.  I am most grateful for knowing them, because their generosity is what gave me hope in uplifting the next person, whether as a child or an adult.

But even with all that, it still wasn’t a fairy tale.  However, we were a tight knit family with hell of problems.  What kept it all together for me was my Grandfather Robert.  We believed in our hearts as children, the world around us is better than what we are seeing through our eyes and pain.  Our experience wasn’t met without difficulty but we struggled together and made it through.  We as children spent a lot of time together and there were times when we had our little arguments based off our parent’s arguments but we moved on and made our living arrangements work.  Every day, I prayed for my own bed and own space. I’m quite sure I wasn’t the only one.  We had a lot to pray for and even more to be thankful for in our lives.  There were times when we went to sleep in the dark and woke to the dark and never knew when we were going to see light again.  I’m not talking about morning but light, television, electricity of any kind.  For me when anything went wrong Granddad was there to fix all my problems and bond this family together again as one.  My “Superhero” was dyeing and I had no idea, but he wouldn’t allow me to see it either.  I saw him down a few times, but in my mind, I didn’t want to believe that my “Superman” could ever be hurt, but like the fictional character “kryptonite” was killing him slowly.

What was his kryptonite; Brain Cancer?  This Six foot something odd inches man was one of the lucky ones to get it right.  He was until, the Higher Power called him home. He was a family man in every sense of the word.  He did it all; took care of his family, paid bills, worked, cooked, cleaned and raised six children by himself.

Well that is after my Grandmother ran off with his best friend, but that another book.

I give Great Grandma Bessie and Great Granddad Israel along with the Creator the praise and glory for such a great man.  He may not have had everything but he gave them a roof over their heads, clothes on their backs, shoes on their feet and love from his soul.  Like I said I was raised in a house with all my family.  It was crowded but it was rewarding.  There were days when we struggled but there were days when life looked good from my eyes.  I wouldn’t say we had the best life but I wouldn’t say it was the worst either. It was days when we didn’t know where our next was coming from but being with this family made things like that vanish from my mind.  Couldn’t expect much we grew up in a poverty-stricken neighborhood.  Everyone had some sort of issue, whether it was drugs, hunger, health, mental, murder, rape, domestic violence or otherwise, but we were a community still.

I was ashamed that we relied on public assistance to help us but as I looked around my neighborhood so did everyone else.  Then I had the chance to journey outside my environment and realized that we are being played like a violin.  Public assistance was just a way to keep my family in check.  It was a system designed to keep my family from advancing mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially.  It was put in place to help you get up, no it is put in place and designed to keep you down.  They get all in your business and never get out.  They know so much about you that you have to go to them to remember who the hell you are.

I know this sounds strange but it is true.  You just spend their money and then when they need something from you could can’t say no because they are the ones that gave you all you have.  See I see the plan and understand the goal of “society.”  Yes, they allow you to have but only enough that they make you miserable and aware that they control your every movement.  It is very depressing to think that you have something just to realize you have nothing. 

The craziest part of it all is that both of my parents had jobs but still relied on the system to carry them as well as us.  We lived poor as hell but had money, well enough to live better than how we were living.  My parents became a victim of “society’s” hold.  Then when “society” pushed their disease into our neighborhoods and what the next man was doing was the trend, my parents and other family members became entrapped in the web of seduction, called “Drugs.”  This is one powerful bitch and “society” knew it. 

I wish I could say it was a product of the sixty’s flowing into the 70’s; 80’s and 90’s but I would be lying.  For the most part Drugs has been an epidemic in poverty-stricken neighborhoods long before it tidal waved through Baltimore City.  It just when it hit us, it quickly manifested out of control.  The war had begun and not on crime or drugs but on Baltimore’s communities and all its glory.  Slowly the community support and happiness died and the drugs were to blame.  People had lost focus of what family was and had no chances or notion of turning it around. 

“Society” blamed the hippies and needed the world to jump on board so the fingers would dare point to them.  No, it was just the way those hippie babies were programmed by the music, the oppression, and the life style they were forced to endure.  War was and continue to be a terrible thing but we know that isn’t where all the blame lay.  This isn’t all the blame; we have to look at the family as a whole and not as just one individual.  In fact, let’s see it like this. 

Your body have many components but you need them all to be whole, but not all of them to function properly.  That is the same thing “society” figured out when they decided to break the family into pieces.  You know without the major organs there is no way to survive therefore they came up with artificial parts to replace the originals.  They didn’t function as well as the one you were born with but they function with the help of someone or something else to assist its functionality.  Correct!  Now that is what “society have done they took away the major components of the family and replaced them with generics just so what was left could function.  Where you had both parents, grandparents, cousins, nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles are now like Pangaea broken into other parts of the world.  What was whole, is now in piece and being picked apart like a scab.  If you pull to hard it will bleed but if you pull little at a time, then you can get the scab off without hurting anyone, so they thought or really didn’t care.  You be the judge!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove