Wednesday – Try Something New & Exciting

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Are you on a daily routine and feel like you are stuck and going nowhere? Are you tired of doing the exact same thing day in and day out? Do you already know the results because you do the same thing? Well try something new or exciting.

Spice up your love life if need be with your significant other though. Add something different to your original recept. Go out on a lunch date by yourself and enjoy yourself. Ask your partner out on the town for the night of dancing. Fire up the grill and make just the two of you dinner. Get romantic and make love in park after dark. Have a bubble bath together and tell each other secrets. Go to the nude beach and show your stuff of because after all it’s yours and you have to live with it. For once, intimidate the other people.

Get nasty and dirty with your mate and make the baby you two been wanting. Go rock climbing and ziplining together for the first time. I mean if you can dream it and it is legal go out and do it. If you need that extra umph in your life go out and get it. If you want the children gone for the day so you can relax, trust them at the movie theatre by themselves as long as they are age appropriate. If you always wanted to learn a new line dance then get in a class and shake your ass.

Stop allowing fear to hold you back from doing something you always wanted to do. Today is the first time for something new and exciting.

If you never gave oral sex then by all mean learn to choke and gag on him or eat her until she is numbed. If you want to marry her and you know that is where you heart belong then by all mean pop the damn question! If you going to spend the rest of your life with him and you know this then got damn ask him to marry you! It doesn’t matter who do the asking as long as you two are happy with the idea of the rest of your lives together then go for it. Either way do what your heart is telling you to do and do it with great intentions of having the best time of your life.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Quality Time With The Children

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Have you ever spent quality time with the children doing the things they wanted to do? Have you ever gave in to their wants and allowed them full control of what they wanted to do as a family? Or have you give them the options of doing what you think children should be doing and as long as your money was paying for it that was what they were going to do?

When asking the question what do you want to do as a family allow them to tell you and then do what they suggested. As long as it is legal why not? If they just want to go to the mall and hang out do that. If they want to go shopping and get their nails and toes done do that. If they want to go to the Arcade then do that. If they want to lay around and do nothing but watch tv, well get you ass on the couch and do nothing with them.

While you all are out, do not and I mean do not embarrass them! I can not express this enough, if you do they will never trust you with anything else. Be cool and laid back, they will not try anything stupid especially if you are one of those parents that don’t play. If you play it cool you will learn friends, hangouts, foes (even if they can’t see them), potential girlfriends or boyfriends, hobbies, and their lifestyle I know you don’t think they have one.

Sometimes we just need to enter their world. No not force your way into their life but enter their world so that we as parent can understand our children. We need to know what they are into and what they like to do when we aren’t around. It is still parenting but you are learning who your children are. No don’t become a best friend to them but be that person that they can trust to come to you with everything, honestly. If they want to drink and smoke then you need to march their ass to rehab and fast. That is a cry for help, especially if they are underage. Peer pressure is one thing but if they think they can drink and smoke with you that is a whole other issue that needs to be address. Like the lack of respect that they have for you knowing you are their parent, but if you haven’t been doing much parenting then that is another day for another discussion. If you have been trying to be their friend more than their parent you have lost the battle and the war already, as a parent. There is no turning that around at all.

So make family night about them and not about what you as a parent want to do but including them. No not this time make about them and let them feel like they are including you. They will respect and love you more for being a part of their life and not having to alway be apart of yours. In doing so you will learn signs of when your child is going through things that aren’t for them, like depression, anger, hate, peer pressure, bullying, frustration, broken heart, liking another person of the same sex or the opposite. Yeah I know fears we don’t want to face but as parent we need to address. In turn they learn things like family values, who they can trust with issues and concerns instead of trying to turn to their friends for the answers. They also learn techniques of how to deal with things on another scale and understand who really got their backs.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Manic Monday! Don’t Panic It’s Monday!

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I know this is my topic for today, but I am only writing it because my son experienced something dramatic Friday and made him dread Monday. You want to talk panic! On Friday my son’s school had to experience a threat of a mass shooting.

It was too many police on Friday when I dropped him off to school. He said Ma it looks like our school was in another school on school fight again. I ask him do he get involved in those fights and he told me no. He said I have no beef with no one at another school, because I have friends that goes to those other schools. Looking at how many officers were on the perimeter I told him no this is something else. I told him to find out just in case I had to come back and get him. He got out and an hour later he calls me and tell me I need to come get him because he fear for his life.

I didn’t even want to know what was going on at that time so I rushed to the school to get him. While I was driving he calls me back and say Ma, there is a child here talking of shooting up the school, that’s why the police was on the campus today. I couldn’t even thing at that moment. I know that the night before a 14 years old had shoot several people in a school in California. Prayer are with the family and the victims of that shooting and all of the previous shootings. SideBar: What is going on with our parents that we can’t see the hurt and distress before it comes to a mass shooting? Why is it that we choose to ignore the signs of a mentally disturb child or an abused child until something tragic happens?

I got to the school and was as calm as possible. It was still several police on the campus and I asked them if the situation resolved and one of them said yes but the other said the perpetrator is being sought. Which to me means no. I am not one to blame anyone but those who needs the blame and well I didn’t have have time at that moment. The only person on my mind is my son who was in the bathroom with his cellphone calling me for help. I got him and got out of there. I wasn’t the only one, I saw about 50 other parents getting there children as well.

Now today is Monday, Manic Monday at that and his nerves are all over the place. I am dealing with the situation but I know that he needs more support than just me. So I am calling in the troops and since it is a lot of us we are going to rally around my son for support. Our mission is to help him get through this and back in school, because he told me his isn’t ready to go back just yet. I can understand his concerns especially since we aren’t sure if they have the child in custody. To make matters worse my son told me that he knows the child because they are in the same French class together. He said the child confides in him but he never thought things were this serious. I told him to pray for him and ask the Lord to guide him and send him the necessary help he needs. People talk to your children. Listen to your children. Hear your children even when they aren’t saying anything. Don’t ignore your child’s cry for help or attention.

That’s my Monday so far, what is yours looking like. I tell you one thing I will not panic because it is Monday. I will live this day as any other but more productive than the last.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday, Let’s Talk Food With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Unhealthy Foods

Do you like to snack? Do you like fast food? Do you like lots of bread? Do you like soda? Do you like candy?

Let’s be honest, we all either use to love it or just like it now and again. It isn’t all the time that we do it but sometimes we like to splurge a little. We like being able to go to those fast food places and pick up something quick. We might even get to comfortable and order up a meal or two for the family. Question is how often do we do it? Is it twice a week, three times, four times or everyday? How often do we eat the unhealthy things that is leading us to an early demise is the question? I mean we know death is coming but we don’t want to rush it either. We aren’t ready before our time is up or are we? If we are eating away our feeling, emotions, and habits through unhealthy foods then we are ready sooner than expected and we can’t blame anyone but ourselves.

We are parents turn right around and introduce it to our family and then wonder why our family is tired all the time, drained of energy and all they want to do is rest. Why they don’t have the brain power to study, be productive, or ambitious enough to strive for greatness. It’s because we are pushing cancer, laziness, and high blood pressure, obesity, diabetes down their throats and they have no idea that we are doing it. We are the ones that goes grocery shopping and pick up all the snacks, sodas, sugary drinks, candy and over processed foods. We leave out the goodness our family needs. We might pick up fruits and veggies but we focus on things that make our lives more sustainable and not healthier. We want more time to do other things than standing in the kitchen cooking healthy meals or making sure we’re not killing our children.

Don’t do it any longer, remember CANCER is a business not a DISEASE! They don’t have to tell us that they are poisoning us, they just have to please the FDA and only the government and the Savor knows who is really doing their job and who hands are being greased. What we do know is all enriched foods are bleached so they are definitely unhealthy for you. If it’s dead then why even bother, but I do get it. Some meets, if cooked and prepared. suppose to provide nutrients, but honestly I doubt it. I think it is all financial gain with the lies. I know that make it taste so good with all the chemicals and dyes that they put in it but if your not sure then don’t do it. If it is loaded with sugar and sugar by products then we already know it is going to lead to health problems so why do it to ourselves.

Remember your life and those who you love life is in your hands, let’s make the right choices for them until they are old enough to do it for themselves. By then they will know what choices is right because we would have taught them well. Live longer and healthier by making the right choices.

Sending you love and kisses. #GoddessLove.

Saturday Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Death is just a scary word! Everyone wants to go to heaven but not all wants to talk about how they are going to get there. In order to see the Savor you first must move on from the vessel that enclose your spirit. We all know that our vessel is just clothing for the soul and when we take off that fabric finally, that we will not be putting it back on. Our will might be weak but our destiny is strong. It has to come to an end and we all know it but when, I think, is what scares people so much.

I say don’t sit around and think about it nor wait for it. Go out and live within your vessel the best you know how until the day you no longer need your clothing to keep your spirit covered. When your spirit is ready to be exposed to the world, they will not be torn by your vessel but rejoiced by your soul. I think it is only hurtful when people haven’t really understood your purpose in their lives, so they missed their opportunity to know of their own purpose. They can’t find themselves and haven’t found themselves by the time you are ready to shed your fabric. They question death because they aren’t sure when their time is but have no reason to understand why your time is now.

Yes the feeling of losing someone is uneased and very painful but if you really stop and think about it, you haven’t loss them they just transitioned into their next chapter and now you must focus on your story. We cannot live our lives through someone else’s book and think when their story ends so do ours. It isn’t like that! This just mean that you weren’t paying attention to your story being written because your eyes was on someone else’s book. Stop try to step in their success or life and direct, publish, narrate and produce your own story. You never know what extraordinary things you might leave for others to read. Who knows your story might change or direct someone else life into learning to write their story and making it a novel no one can put down.

So when death comes knocking don’t be afraid to open the door because it just mean that another chapter is about to happen for you so that someone else can tell your story in a way no one will believe. It can’t all be fairytales and rainbows, sometimes it has to be horror and thrillers, with a side of danger and mystery. It is all up to you how your story goes, but how it ends will never die with you. There will alway be someone to tell what they have been told or experienced being in your chapters. So in fact your story lives on and on and on. It gets better with each person that tells their part or how they remember it for themselves.

Remember Death is only to be absent in the body but present in the spirit. Let’s see what your story is about and who will tell it as great as it is.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Last week we talked about stress while dancing around her cousin depression. This week we are going to talk about depression. First let’s define the word depression.

*Depression –

  1. feelings of severe despondency and dejection.”self-doubt creeps in and that swiftly turns to depression”

*Despondency-

  • a state of low spirits caused by loss of hope or courage:”he hinted at his own deep despondency

*Dejection

lowness of spirits

From where I stand on the whole issue it is a state of being and not a mindset. Yes we all know that the mind plays tricks on you especially when the devil is busy and you allowed him in your space. With all the definitions it still isn’t in the mind it is all in the body and spirit. Your mind however allows for you to feel this way because your body not your mind have giving up. Your spirit has been interrupted by something that is not of you and so your mind isn’t sure how to process if your body will not cooperate. It’s like broken heart, you mind is straight but your spirit will not allow you to go through that emotion again so your feelings take over and now you aren’t sure of your trust in people. Not just that one person who broke your heart but everyone. Even though everyone wasn’t involved just this one person somehow manage to take it out on everyone. Once again a state of being heart broken but it isn’t a mindset it is a feeling.

Depression is just like that, if you allow your body to die then the mind will not fight it, it will do as you body wants until your spirit is high again then your body will react to that. When we loose someone from this planet, our memories of that person don’t die just the love and life we had with them. So it isn’t in our minds that we are having the problem it’s in our hearts and spirit that take us down into darkness and despair. We still can reminisce on this person or people we loss, we can still see their face, hear their voice, and identify with their scent even when we know there aren’t there. Some ever visualize people in to spirit because we so badly need them to still be a part of us. This can’t be a mind thing because if so we would be able to do all this concentrating, the focus will be off and we wouldn’t shut down. Depression however leads to mental illness wherein we are will to cope with life anymore. We rather just give up instead of dealing. We can identify with there is a problem but we refuse to acknowledge that help is needed before we shut down completely. You refuse to let joy in where someone has suffered. It isn’t your fault and you shouldn’t allow what you remember most about this person to leave your spirit because once you do then you have giving up on theirs. In order to allow their life to continue then you should allow yours to continues so that they can live through you.

We have learned to shut our minds off so that we will not be able to live with the pain. It is not depression it is mental blockage. Once we start turning things off we go dark and then blank. We think it is easier to deal with darkness and silence then reality so there is wherein the confusion comes in. It’s like turning off the lights in the house but the bill is paid and all you have to do is slowly turn all the lights back on, but you refuse and after while you stop paying the bill and now without lights you adapt to the darkness then you get comfortable and live that state. Medication will not help and doctors know it, but they medicate you anyway. They know it has to come from within and if you don’t want out then you will die in that darkness and know one will ever know your truth, they will just say you were depressed. They will never say you suffered from a broken heart and never recovered. They will never say your spirit gave up and so you turned yourself off. They will simply say you were depressed.

Get help now because you know in your spirit, heart, and soul your need it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – How Do You Like To Be Sexed?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

This is a question that most people don’t even want to know the answer to. They just figure they know how to fuck so they are going to do them and see if that is a good fit for you. Most don’t even know what they like about sex but the end result. If you know your body and what you like about your body, you will not allow anyone to mistreat it just for their satisfaction. You will take pride in making sure getting there was worth the trip. I understand that most never really had the good experience in the course of the sex life but now that you are older what is your preference. What is it that make you want a man or a woman? What makes you want to hold out until the end? What makes you stand out from the rest of the people this person could be sexing right now? If you say the head game is wicked, then that’s what it is. Here’s the question, is it the same for all the people you give it to and if so, it can’t be wicked? I tell you why, if it was wicked the last thing you would want to do is give it to every person you meet. If it was that you claim to fame then you will be afraid that giving it to wrong person would cause you harm. Note* Not everyone can handle awesome sex and it will literally drive a person insane if it is wicked. It will make a person do bodily harm to anyone who thinks that you are available for the challenge, but most of all they will kill you if they think you are giving it away like that. More often than you think most people who is weak minded think that your sex game is the truth, but if it is what you say it is, you should have a group of followers that will claim for you the fame. They will literally want to fight each other and everyone for what you have to offer. This isn’t a dis it is an acknowledgement that you can’t sex everyone the same because if you do the that mean you have no real sex life just few good moves.

When sexing the next person do understand how to make that person crazy you when you aren’t around. The art of make love or performing sex well is literally make that person know their are the only person that exist. I mean when you leave them they believe that the universe just made love to them. Their mind should always remember that first time with you and never ever forget even if you don’t end with them that you made them feel like life started with them. It’s about living up to the fantasy in their head and making them believe that they have lived the moment in their life wherein they won everything, even when they lost everything.

Good sex or great loving making is about allowing that person a part of you that you can never take back. It’s about making them wish that this moment is forever and no one can take this moment from them. When it is done they have no regrets and that this time will never end. It’s about making a person who you have sex with everyday fell like it’s the first time every time. It’s about a connection of the mind, body and spirit. It’s about two DNA’s inhabiting one soul. It’s like the destiny isn’t the end game but the forever game. When you exit that person life it will take a life time of apologies to get you back or a life time to find someone who make them feel like you made them feel.

I would say it is like rainbows and explosion but it isn’t. It is like a war and even though you have no idea why you are fighting you aren’t leaving until the other person respect what you have to offer. Except the deal or in that moment which up the game and make a different offer but don’t leave without knowing you did what you came to do and that is be remembered. Yeah, I can admit winning the war sound great but if all you got was the nut then what war was won and who won it. If both of you came but neither of you remember any of it or want more than that moment; then who won?

See with me, my goal is when I am not around and you think of me not only do you get hard but you cum as well. Because that whole connection have your body remembering what happened, and how sensual it was when we connected. I want you to be in a state of trans, ready to transition into eternal bliss. I don’t sex everyone the same because everyone is not the same. I watch your moves, I pickup on your tone, I discover your enemies and destroy them. In the moment we are together, you have no worries, no problems exist, there is no job you want to get to, there is no time of day. There is only you and I. You aren’t sure what is real and what isn’t it. You remember me even if we are only here for a one night stand. You carry my DNA like it is a gift from GOD himself. You crave me like your life depends on it and believe it or not I have sworn affidavits that will confirm my abilities, but like I said not everyone get it the same.

I know how I like to be sexed and I do ask questions about what your preferences are and how you like to be handled. Once I have a scope on you then, it’s about you. I know how to be get me where I want to be so all I need to do is get you right there with me.

Now do you like rough or soft; fast or slow; freaky or regular; left or right; upside down, or do you like to ride, in public or private, laying;down or standing up, with one person or multiples, different position or straight to it; foreplay or oral; dress up for the strip down or role play; will a nice dance turn you on or will a good song set the mood; on or back or all fours? Are you will to share this information with others or do you prefer for them to find out the hard way? Are you aggressive or passive? Do you take the lead or like to be led? Do you suck in the middle, beginning or end? Do you talk or are you quiet? Do you moan or just wish it was over already? Do you swallow or spit? Are you giving or getting? Are you a top or bottom? Knowing who you are and what you want will make a difference in being remembered or forgotten. It’s all up to you!!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove