Confession Thursday! Are Bad At Parenting Or Winging It?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We have allowed these children too much freedom of expression. They are now whipping parents asses, killing grandparents, murdering children, and all while being high. They know we’re not saying anything because we don’t want them upset. I know that’s shit is wrong, I could care less about them being upset. We are the parents and we need to be teaching, educating, and whipping asses and setting the boundaries.

What is going on? If you were raised correctly then you know what the rules are as well as what right and wrong. Why is it that parents now days try to be their children’s friend? Forget all that get your own damn friends your own damn age and raise you fucking children!

Here’s the thing girls are taught not to go off with men they don’t know but boys aren’t taught not to be the predators that wants to take girls off. If you are educating our daughters then we better be double educating our sons. We tell them not to me whores and not to give it up so early. Father’s get mad and want to grab the gun when they find it they are dating but no one does anything about these boys. We aren’t teaching them that no mean no. We aren’t teaching them that’s their hands belongs to themselves. We are teaching them how to wait. We aren’t teaching them safe sex. We are just hanging them condoms and telling them not to get the girls pregnant! We get happy when the son start dating when we should be getting upset as well. We should be grabbing the gun for his ass as well. Not to run off the gun but to let him know don’t be a sex offender, predator, creeper, pervert, or child molester. Where is their speech? Where is the concern that maybe you aren’t raising them correctly reason why they are out here doing more than society can handle?

As soon as they are dead, in prison or hurt then its free him or not him or he was a good boy. Maybe not! Maybe you just didn’t know your son as well as you thought. Remember we are the parents and we need to step up and be that even when they are grown because they are more confused then ever. Don’t just kick them out onto the world without guidance and tell them they can do it because if you weren’t that great of a teacher then they can’t do it. Yeah you did take care of the house, cook, clean, and keep a roof over their heads as well as for in their mouths but while you were doing it did you ever teach them? Or were you just hoping they were watching and learning on their own.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – The Millennials

Goddess afternoon Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

The run in that people are experiencing with these “Millennials” is ridiculous. The reports are astounding and I only can ask who is raising them.

I believe that the parents of these Millennials are those who got the short end of the stick. By the time they were having babies real Mothers and Fathers were not available they were to busy working. They forgot about helping as grandparents and so the millennials are not being taught respect, given proper love nor are they being educated by the system correctly. Technology is their babysitters, corner stores is their kitchen, the streets it’s where they live and sleep comfortable, peers are they guides and the Higher Power isn’t a factor.

They are in desperate need of assistance because they are becoming victims of their own self hate. Predators are walking them into sex trafficking situations. Parents are losing them by the dozen and they are dying faster than they are being born. Where and who can they turn to if Mommy and Daddy isn’t around, they only place no one told them about, the street and everything it has to offer. Drugs, sex, unsupervised nights, lack of school, diseases and murder is all they know because it’s all they are shown. No one cares anymore.

Let’s pray that the children of today see tomorrow because they don’t believe in tomorrow. They believe and live for the right now, the moment, the last day is today. They don’t have to though we are adults should be teaching them better ways, showing them better days, and giving them hope for tomorrow.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday – Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Respecting one’s individuality! I know it may sound cliche but believe me it isn’t. I have been in homes of all kinds of people and what I have realized is that most people believe that if they are raised that same then they must be the same. They believe that if they go to the same church then their beliefs are the same. They believe that even though they are all raised to be one religion that trying or believing in another religion is going against the family. They believe that born one nationality means that you are supposed to act a certain way and cannot love another who isn’t of your nationality. I hate to be the bare of bad news but it is 2020 and you can be whoever you want to be and love whoever makes you happy and loves you back. That is what is wrong with the world today, no one wants to believe that people are of their own mind, body and spirit That if they were raised or born of a certain status that is what they are supposed to be of. Well it isn’t working out in most of our favors.

Take for instance, I am a homebody, who believe in strong family bonds, values, morals, and love, while giving a person room to be who they want to be, respectively. My sisters on the other hand have different outlooks on who their children are supposed to be as well as how they treat their siblings. Remember that there is 25 of us, so how they expect for all us to be the same is a mystery to me. One of my sisters, thinks because she doesn’t socialize with her family that her children should either. Even though when they do get to come around they enjoy being around their family and have a great time. She removed herself from the family because she did unspeakable things. Why should her children be the result of her horrior? I don’t know but they are suffering at the hands of her mistake. She has it in her mind that everyone is against her for what she done to another sibling of ours. We had our take on it but then we let it go because it is in the past and we can’t do anything about it.

Then I have a sister that blames everyone for her misfortunate. She never looks in the mirror to see that she is the cause of what she doesn’t have or what she does. She refuse to believe that she dealt her own hand or that she can change it. It just feels better blaming others. She doesn’t make her children do more than she does because she doesn’t want to sound like a hypocrite. So she just goes on about her day blaming her lack of on others, instead of applying that energy to make things better for her and her family. She wants the youngest to be exactly like her and mad at the other for not being exactly like her.

Then there is another sister who believes in the individuality too much that she forgets sometimes that she even have children. She goes on about her day as if she has no worries in the world. She has to be given a reality check every now and then. She just do her and well that is the definition of individuality but not the definition of parenting. Remember we don’t want to be like us, we want better for them, but also we have to remember that we have them.

I have sister who have lost everything including her way but she doesn’t let that effect her day. She just goes on about her business as if she doesn’t have a care in the world. She lives as though nothing has happened and since she does well I do as well. Remember the process have to start with wanting help not just jumping the gun assuming that they want help. I make sure she is okay and leave it at that.

Then there’s my brother who I can say came a long way. He has really turned his life around in more ways than one. He only have himself, but cares about everyone to a point. If you show him that you don’t care about yourself then you are no longer a thought process for him. He writes you off like you have written yourself off. He will not show any concern if you refuse to care enough for yourself. I love that about him because he takes care of himself and stay in his own lane.

My youngest brother is a different story, he has issues. After our mother died he took it the worst, and while we as a family rallied around him for moral, and financial support, we had to realize that he is a con artist. He was playing us with the whole heartache thing. He just wanted our money and sympathy so we wouldn’t say anything about his abuse of drugs. He used my mother’s death as a coping mechanism to get high. Well we caught on to that fast and then allowed him to destroy his life if he wanted to and not to bring down ours. He is trying to get clean or so we think but it could just be another con.

My other brothers however is doing well I might add. Well as far as I can see they are doing well. I have one that has did a whole 180 in the art of growing up. He was a terrorist when he was a child. I mean he was bad as hell, now he is about his family and raising his daughter to be the best she can be. He is about promoting non-violence and help brothers get their life right. No he isn’t a preacher but he is a better individual than what he was as a child or a teenager. In his adult life he has made me proud.

I know that we are all of my parents and some have adopted their mentality but we all are individuals and all we can really say about being raised by them is that they tried and failed. I wish I could say that they did their best but I would be lying. I will say this though, what we learned is what not to do but some of us have test the theory anyway. Some have become my parents and well that isn’t working out in their favor just like it didn’t work for my parents. So they followed the process of being raised to be your parents and living it, or should I say struggling in it. While other have adopted their own individuality and living the life that is theirs.

Parents this is a message to you. If you know your life isn’t great or going the way you planned then don’t push it onto your children. Allow them to live their life but instill those morals and values needed to know the difference between right and wrong. If you yourself aren’t sure what they are please get them professional help now so that you won’t be responsible for your children’s downfall.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Revenge

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

To be vindictive to others just mean that you store hatred in your heart for something someone did to you or someone you love. In many ways revenge hurts you more than the person who you seek revenge on as well as for. I know sometimes we feel like we have to be their Noble warriors and safe the day, honestly that’s not true. Sometimes you have to sit back and watch mysteriously how the Lord works. It will amaze you and have you wondering if you done anything to make him mad or upset enough to bring this much vengeance upon you.

We don’t see it until it’s too late because we intervened where we should have prayed. The walk when we should have stayed still. The plot and preyed when we should have been educating and reaching. We get in the way and then ask, “Why God.” If only you could really hear because you were standing in the way and I didn’t want you to get hurt too. You would understand that every battle isn’t yours to fight and every war isn’t to be won. Sometimes you have to allow your heart to hurt and your mind to wonder in order for justice to take place.

Isn’t that what you do when you seek revenge, apply your justice where there was none? Of course we do, we know best or so we think, but aren’t really thinking at all. We think that if we take revenge for whomever or ourselves then we are fighting back. What happens when someone with the same mentality does the same thing? Continuous war, death, innocent lives lost, was that you plan? Is this what you really wanted? You must ask yourself will others seek their justice (revenge) after you implement yours.

Sure they are because they will be angry just like you are now, but that doesn’t matter at this time because all that matters is your pain. Do you know what caused their pain to start? Do you know what would have made them do what they did? How innocent is the person you seek revenge for? No one is worthy of hate or pain so think before you deliver what someone had already brought you.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Are We Supporting The Violence?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We are all guilty! We have all supported the violence in one form or another. Can’t say you haven’t, either you the cause or the enabler. I know you don’t see it or want to admit to it but we have all done it.

We either know of something that has happened or we have cause something that has happened. If you say no, then think back and see what you have said and who you have said it to. Something may have happened to you or someone you know and you told someone and they told someone and they told someone. Either way it got to the wrong or right person depending on how you see it, and they took care of the problem or situation. I know you don’t think that you have anything to do with it but you kind of did. Maybe it went another way, maybe someone couldn’t hold it in and told you of a situation wherein they did harm to someone. You hold this person in high regards so you just ignore and let it be in the pass. You look at them a little different but nevertheless you know what they told they did. Then somehow it is confirmed but you don’t say a word. See we all know of violence or violent offenders but we don’t say or do anything.

I am not tell you to snitch or to tell, I am simply pointing out the fact that we all know of violence and violent offenders so we all support it. If you didn’t say anything to them about turning themselves in or told not to do it then we enable them and allow them to do what they did or have to do in order to make themselves feel better. But in all retrospect do they feel better or just numb? Do they learn from it or fuel from it? Note: Did we just give them enough ammunition to go out and do it again or did they learn from it and now is so afraid they can’t look at themselves. Somewhere along the line we have to ask ourselves what kind of people are we really.

I know somewhere someone is thinking maybe the person deserved it. Are we now playing GOD and deciding who is worthy to die or what punishment they should receive? Ask yourself did you make the right decision or are you making the right decision? Did you enable the violence or did you encourage the violence? Know this we all do it either way! Question is what are we going to do about it now?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – Pray For A Peaceful Mid-week

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We have been through it already and the week just getting started. It have been one of those starts to a New Year that makes you not want to see what the rest of the year holds, but don’t fear yet. Just pray for better and get out of the way for the bullshit. This year we are going to try something a little different, if it doesn’t concern us and they haven’t asked for our help then we are minding our damn business. We have the audacity to ignore the cry for help and stick our nose where it doesn’t belong. I do believe it is because they cry isn’t as juicy as the gossip or the news that isn’t any of our business. What is more disturbing is that you all got the juice drink it and then find out it was the wrong flavor. Someone feed you the wrong drink just because they know you are going to spill the tea.

Well this Wednesday I want you all to pray for a better day today with hopes that the rest of the week gets better. Not everyone’s business is for everyone. That is what is wrong with the world today. So many people hands wants to be in the cookie jar but for all the wrong reason. Some just want to have their hands in there to say that they had their hands in. Some really want get the cookie and pass it on to another for them to eat. Other just want the cookie for themselves and they don’t care who doesn’t get one after them. So if you don’t get a cookie this time around doesn’t mean that there isn’t more baking. Stop trying to be in where everyone else is and try to figure out where you are and what is your next move to make it where you are suppose to be going.

We all are going to end up at the same place (death) eventually but we all have to take different paths to get there. Don’t be in such a rush to get there, I know I am taking my time, because I still have things to do before I go. So I will mind my business and pray for those who need me to and do for those who ask me to. Other than that I am staying in my lane and helping the Village from crying on as they ask me to.

Praying for you all.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday! Corruption

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I live in Baltimore City (Bodymore), Maryland (Murderland) where just two days ago we ended the year of 2019 with 344 murders; a corrupted Major going to jail for embezzlement, tax fraud, and using her position of power to do person underhanded business deals; a Gun Task Force of 6 or more being federally indicted on embezzlement, excessive force, murder, selling drug, illegal incarceration, false imprisonment, harassment, etc…lord you name it they done it, and two former Police Commissioner jailed for Tax fraud, amongst other things. A city where we in Baltimore have one of the country’s highest human sex trafficking rate, one of the highest opioid problem and a flew of corrupted councilmen, delegates, congress with people quitting the government everyday. Soon the city and it’s surrounding counties will be running themselves because all the people elected and those who will take their places will be in jail.

Is the Black market that serious, that these many people have to die or is it that the Klan doctors refuse to save those lives of the black men and women coming into the Emergency Room. I’m starting to think that Hippocratic Oath means nothing to them any longer. Well it does if you have money but if you are poor and black or poor and white you can hang it up. They have really no use for you in this city so why not allow you to die especially when they can harvest the good organs you haven’t destroyed or use you as a lab project to see how to make life more complicated for those living in these poverty stricken communities. It is a fact think about it, look around your community and then take a drive and look around their community, the proof is there. I know you say just move but if it is a struggle where they are now, how are they going to move to better. The help isn’t there and the drive is trickling down and withering away. This is what they planned for and we fall right in, taking the bait every time. They could stop sex trafficking vehicles (white and black work vans) like they stop any black man driving a nice car, but they don’t. They know who is where because we have cameras everywhere. They know who’s doing what and they prey on them. What they didn’t expect is that it would spread like a plague and now it is coming to close to home. They will protect theirs but allow you to go into battle without ammunition.

Just two days into 2020, a new decade, we have reports of 10 shootings, I am afraid to know if anyone has died from any of those shooting. I know you are saying well it is the people’s fault. I can agree with you somewhat on that but when you put guns, hunger, poverty and an unforeseen economy, plus a unoiled government with no concern for the people in place, of course you will see things that’s are of horror plaguing the communities. The corruption didn’t start in the streets, it started in the system and flowed into the streets. If you aren’t giving the people what they need to survive then you will get gun wars everyday, missing children and women from everywhere and going everywhere, deaths of unstaggering numbers and chaos plaguing your city. The people counts on the government, law enforcement, and people of power to do the right thing, don’t ask why they just do. But greed is a terrible thing when someone of power has a large appetite and a small stomach, they take more than is needed mostly from the wrong people.

This is when the people (constituents) of those places get hungry, but with only the intentions of feeding their families and keeping the bills paid. They do things that the greedy people think is crimes, but they already know that this will happened, but aren’t they doing the same thing, however only the voters are paying for it. They know exactly what they are doing before they do it, while they are doing, and after they have done it. They just sit back and watch the destruction because the more destruction the more federal money comes in and they can put their hands back in the cookie jar or eat better than before. So my people STOP because you are causing your own demise while feeding their needs and not your own. Yeah, you get to eat until either they find you and lock you away for your crimes, or worse retaliation happens for who you have wronged. Either way the greedy people wins, until they are caught then the next greedy person steps into play and promises you they won’t do those things but turn right around and do those things or worse. Who loses either way, the voters living in those poverty neighborhoods that is riddled with crimes, drugs, guns, and people who wants more but there is no sign of more.

There is no better coming unless you make it happen for you and those around you. If you are the people then make it about you all and not about them. Take away their power by stop making it easy for them to forget about you by throwing you all under the dirt and call you the scum of the city. Crime only fuel their pocket and take more away from your community not the other way around.

P.S. Let’s make this decade different for us then we have done for the past two. I know we can be better than this.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove