The Family Bond! Chapter 9…Segment 6.

Goddess morning Royals. First, gie praise and worship to the all High.

I was down and out for the count last week. I do apologize for the delay and the lack of warning for the posts. Something nasty had came over me an had me in here feeling like a steam roller ran me over. I was sick beyond reason so I rested and now I am back and ready to finish our journey.

We as people must learn a different strategy to living in order to be a better nation of people.  Our strategy is to just fold and submit.  We can no longer submit to those who oppose us, enslave us, beat us, demoralize us, nor humiliate us.  We have to be smarter because we are smarter.  We are the race they fear, we are the creators and inventors of all things unearthly.  We believe in a higher being just not the one they want us to believe in.

For me the biggest part of slavery for slaves was;

F – Frightened of their surroundings and their captives.

E – Emotionally cried for familiarity.

A – Afraid for the life of their love one more than their own.

R – Run to where or whom? To have worst done than what is being done or have less than they were given.

Being force into a strange land and not knowing the outcome of where to go, what to do, or who to trust, created a safe haven in their master/captives.  Obedience became a necessity and submission became the only choice.  I believe this is the same reason our people live the way they do now.  Afraid of rocking the boat, afraid that their captive will no longer take care of them.  Afraid for their lives they rather hurt one another than to have the massive upset, but if your only fear the unknown, because who are the massive, then that make you just as stupid as you are afraid.  If you’re not sure of who you are, how can you be sure of who they are?  For all you know you could be the massive.

If you learn nothing else in this life learn how not to give your life to the system.  Once they have you, they will never want to let go.  They always will refer to that one incident or think nothing more for you than a criminal.  You may have some that understand that you were in the wrong place at the wrong time, but not very many.  Your past will come to haunt your life, your future is calling on it.

With all your wisdom, your ability to learn and grow, your desire of freedom, your pleasure of calling your own shots, your motivation for better; stay out of the system.  Do your part so that you can show our youngsters that being tough isn’t about going to jail, no that is easy, being tough is about staying out of trouble and out of jail!

Because as we all know it is easy to get into trouble but hard as hell to stay out of it or it’s way; not to mention get out of it once you’re in it.  Teaching and educating our children shouldn’t be a challenge it should be an everyday thing like feeding them, “a necessity.”

As a child growing up in Baltimore, crime was specific to men only, meaning no one killed women and children.  You had a curfew not by the city or state but by your parents.  Had to be on the steps by time the street lights came on or else.  You knew to respect your elders and mind your P’s and Q’s (your own business).  Stay out of grown folks faces and conversations.  Children should be seen and not heard unless spoken is a rule but not such a great rule any longer.  *This is how I see predators getting to the children without them being able to tell parents about it.  Learn something new every day.  Once on the block that’s where you stay until it was time to go in for bed.

Saturday morning chores was washing the house, clothes, mop the floors, doing the dishes and bathe.  Clean the steps, sweep the front, and windows.  Then you could go anywhere, if you said where and be back before night fall.  Sunday was church no, if, and or butts about it.  Monday – Friday was school or learning depending on the season.

Summers was extra fun, because as long as we were on the block and moms or dads of the village was out, we could be outside.  Once there were no adults you had to go in.  Now days all that’s out the window.  Children don’t want to learn, they don’t want to do chores, they don’t want to respect home so out in the street is out of the question.  They don’t play games because technology is killing their brain cells.  All they want is the latest technology and to share all their personal business on social media.  Then have the audacity to say someone is snitching on them. Child bye!  Hello!  Stupid social media is a tracking station for stupidity.  If you stop doing stupid and idiotic bullshit then you wouldn’t think that someone have time to snitch on you.  Then you know there are cameras everywhere you go and that “society” is watching everything you do.  So how can say someone is snitching, dummy you snitched on yourself.

Anyone who share stupid, illegal situations are being tracked straight to the front door. 

While we are on the subject of educating our children, how about we teach them manners and how to use them.  Respect could take them a long way and we all know that.  Teach them how to speak to people and that “huh”, or “sup” is not a proper way to speak to an adult who opens their mouth to speak to them. 

“Hello, Good Morning, Good Afternoon, Good Evening,” proper ways of addressing someone.  Also, teach them that when entering a room or walking pass someone that speaking will not hurt them at all.  The same way we are learning a new; our children should also be learning a new.  Teach our young men to pull up their pants and not advertise their home life to all.  If they need to vent then they should learn to vent to you or a family member and not complete strangers.  When children open this door, and allow strangers into their lives they become prey and all types of things starts to happen in which they are not equipped to handle.  Now if they are a part of that trusting village that you have built then yes, sure go right ahead and vent to the village but if not, then family it is.  Teach our young women to dress appropriate so they don’t have to worry about uninvited or unwarranted attention from predators or perverts. 

Remember child predators likes both sex and all ages and doesn’t really care who knows it. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Segment 1.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

The Bond of Mending a Broken Man/Woman/Child

Yes, I know we can be very arrogant at times but sometimes situations call for it.  Then it’s those times when, are you serious, please sit down.  You’re losing and don’t have room from arrogance.   I mean know when to be full of yourself and when to humble yourself.

Don’t allow your ego to have you on a high horse one day and the next on the side of the road begging for money or food.  When you feel like it is all coming together to fast, slow your pace, and find a balance before it falls apart. Remember the real village is still around.

This is what you don’t want to do though is be as disrespectful as possible.

A – Antagonize the people who always had your back.

R – Repudiate your family because of your social status.

R – Renounce your heritage, birth right, or home.

O – Overlook your people suffering around you.

G – Go against the grain

A – Annoy everyone on your way up to the top.

N – Neglect who you really are and your family.

C – Co-exist with “society” to puzzle yourself into their world

E – Endorse yourself by disowning all others.

Being a fraud is not really black people’s thing it is a “society” thing, trying so hard to make yourself believe that your worldly possession is what make you, will also be exactly what breaks you.  There’s no God in materialistic things, only evil!

Remember this even “society” knows you can’t get anywhere in life without other people.  Even if “society” only prey on other’s down fall so they can have something to step on besides the ground God made.  They understand that’s what they need but they know they cannot make it without it; even if it’s ugly and evil. 

To “society” you are still just a footstool.  You never really belong they play the role with you because they need something from you.  What you may ask?  Your wealth, because to them you belong in the same poor house your ancestors belong in.  Shinning their shoes, taking care of their children, washing their clothes, cleaning up after them, but most of all taking their shit right up the backside.  They love showing you that without them your nothing and with them you’re still nothing.  I guess this is their way of showing their superior but only to those who believe they are superior. 

This problem has led to people being depressed as well as oppressed.

D – Deeply disturbed by sense of less than.

E – Entertained by nothing or no one.

P – Polite because you feel pressured to be.

R – Repulse the demons that haunt your happiness.

E – Enclosed in your own thoughts.

S – Study by psychologist for what reason.

S – Sentenced to medication for a life time.

I – Imposed sadness on those around you.

O – Opposed treatment to regain natural order of one’s self.

N – Never want change just darkness.

Because the oppressors are always finding a way to oppress us.

O – Ostracized anyone who doesn’t fit in your “society”

P – Portray people by displaying their down falls.

P – Promote hate to increase violence.

R – Repeat history as much as possible, to prove a point.

E – Encased facts from people to cover up your hate.

S – Seduce them with materialistic items to blind them.

S – Sarcastically give them a nudge of hope.

I – Idiots we are for trusting “society”

O – Onto new ways of trickery and false promises.

N – Note the oppressed as a success for “society”

We as people need none of this in our lives for the Higher Power has blessed us with a brain.  So “society” take your foot off our necks for we are not your “dogs” any longer.  We are not our ancestors; our mentality is a lot different but the same.

The Family Bond! Chapter 6…Segment 6.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

As of this moment, stop enslaving your own self and your own people.  Stop, trying to make them work for pennies on a dollar, when you know you wouldn’t even work for pennies on a dollar.  Reason for you becoming an entrepreneur, but you didn’t get there without the black people in the neighborhood.  So, if you are going to higher them then do it with respect and not to show them that you are better than them.  If you cannot afford to pay them more then have incentives wherein you assist them with purchasing a home or fixing their credit scores so they can afford their own home.   Have a program in place to help them get further, don’t fuck them over.  If, you do then they will turn around and rob you or kill you to get your spot.  That is what they are fighting to get your spot.  If you’re a true person of color then you know their mentality is to do what they have to do to get better, even if that mean climbing over you to get it, by any means necessary.  That what it is all about.  Instead of you bringing them along to advance yourself, you try to keep them down and you know that not going to happen.

So, if “society” can do a pyramid scam why can’t people of “color.” You know the scams, that all you people of color jump in line for and still don’t get anywhere.  So, let’s start a pyramid and when you advance you bring up the next person so they can bring up the person trailing behind them.  Meaning when your level advances, so do theirs, when you grow, they grow, we all grow.  Let’s make that pyramid happen!  Other than that, they are going to keep clawing, pulling, killing, scratching to get to the top; not caring who they have to kill to get there.  When they fall prey to their murderer; the next man in line or two steps behind; taking the lead but there will always be others who will kill to get that space.  Because no one is bringing them along and wants growth. Everyone wants to keep the top spot while that underdog suffers.  No longer is that working for the black man, and they are killing even their own brothers to get to the top.   The HNIC should not have to watch his back if he is doing his business right, because he is making away for the next man to become the HNIC while he relaxes and count stacks. Hence forth the pyramid and how it works. But if you aren’t giving them nothing; they will fight and kill to get something, and the less you give the hungrier they are getting.  Meaning more people will die before a lot is fed.  They are definitely trying to eat on these streets and by any means necessary to do so.  They are no longer waiting for someone to feed them, now they are just taking food out of your mouth in a matter of speaking.  If they are killing your bread and butter then your ass has now become the same people you stepped over to get where you are. Now your climb is less than theirs because they are eating your meals right off your plate.  Just feed them, it’s better, safer and less painful to do so.  If, not just listen to how they are telling you in every song they make, every movie they make and every funeral you attend.

The streets will show you the truth while pertraying a lie.

Now we have learned to inflict more fear in the community by killing those who wants to help families of slayed sisters and brothers but we can’t because those who do the dirt has made snitching a the code of the streets.  Well I say if you don’t live in the streets then do exactly what you know is right and regain that fear.  Tell what you know so that the murderers who plague our communities will know that this isn’t acceptable and that we will not have this any longer as a way of living.  If we don’t say anything then we just as guilty of the crime ourselves.  I understand that most of us fear for our lives but even if we don’t snitch then we still have to fear for our lives because we aren’t sure when we are the next targets on these people crime spree.  How can we as a black community protect our children or our community if we live in fear of what our children or their friends are going to do to us.  We need to know how to take back what has been lost and that is dreams, hope, love, trust, and honesty. 

Stop walking around in fear with that same target on your back as that of those you know have targets on their backs.


They sold you coke and you brought it. Didn’t tell you what to do with it so you snorted it. 

They sold you pipe dreams and you fell for it.

They showed you how to cook it and you smoked it.

Now you hooked on it. 

They sold you dope; you went to sleep on it. Didn’t wake up now you’re in hell wishing heaven was your playground.

They sold you water and you drank it, now they have you hallucinating.

Thinking you are alone, making it hard for you to come back home.

Got you thinking family don’t like you, and everyone wants to fight you. 

They all lies, everyone loves you.

Get back to the bond, nothing else is this strong.

Family love can’t go wrong. 

They got you out here chasing. Taking lives, live or die are you debating. 

Go back to your family instead. They really got in your head.  Hours later someone finds you dead. 

With a gunshot to the head!

Why, for no damn reason?  Niggas just out her scheming.  Flash backs of you laying there bleeding.

Nightmare come true, your life is over and now I’m through.  When will this madness stop?  Seeking revenge isn’t an opt, but more bodies will drop.

All because of the fear and jealousy… all I’m trying to do is live and be me.

Don’t hate on what I have you don’t know my struggle or my path.

Walk a mile in my shoes.  Darkness is the path, no food, no clothes, no water, no bath. 

Flashing lights is the code.  Dead body what the mode.  No one knows, no one was there, but in reality, someone is always there. 

Eyes everywhere, but who really cares.  Someone does because they snitched on the low. 

Now their lives on the line and they must go. 

Can’t be a witness because it is confidential.

You must now I can’t remember it’s all messed up in my mental. 

Society is the assailant, and you still the target. 

We right back where we started. 

This is the same thing for addicts or those addicted to drugs.  I hope you didn’t think I was going to leave you all out, now did you?  You watched your parents, uncles, aunts, older cousins, or grandparents get high.  In your heart, you know it wrong but your mind is telling you, they are good.  Oh my, the mind is a tricky muscle.  It will play the weirdest games on you and control your movements, but it only does what the soul wants.  If you know drugs is bad but deep down your curiosity is hungry then you will try it.  Some say I tried it and it wasn’t for me, you are a strong will and minded person.  Others aren’t so lucky.  For those who have weak wills and minds they get hooks on the first try and become so addicted to it that they lose their minds, not getting it.  They swear that they aren’t addict to anything until the stealing and jail time become a factor.  They say one hit is all it takes.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 6…Segment 4.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.


So, you think you are sophisticated?  Your attitude can not be debated.

Your walk, speaks in volumes!  Your actions are something like Malcom.

Only time will tell!  This type of sophistication I know, oh so well.

Your talk is that of business.  Your movement is that to be witnessed.

Your nose up in the air, not a snob but then again, who cares.

Your sophistication is real.  So real other can deal.

You don’t dress to impress but you do your best.

You wear it so well, that your sophistication sells.

But it’s not on the market for sale to be sold, your sophistication story untold. 

Now that you are so high up, your soul they wish you will depart.

But you are not on their level, so to deal with them your surface.

Always a face-to-face, Goddess of sophistication take your place. 

Claim your throne, own your home, and continue to be the Goddess who is grown.

No one can stop you, no one can be you, for you are a sophisticated you, through and through.

You bleed honesty, you love directly, you talk properly, you hug gently, you show sophistication is you and this is true.

What the fuck have we become black people.  I would say excuse my language but it seems to be the only way to get through to some of you.  We have become the same savage’s “society” believed us to be.  We are the people “society” said we would be low selfish bottom feeders.  All they had to do is trick our minds and we fell for the bull shit.  But then we say, “oh that’s not me,” but in retrospect it is exactly you.  Well most of you!

We claim we won’t do this, we won’t do that, I don’t this or that, but turn right around and to find out you just did it, and still doing it, plus continue to do it, I know I am a product of this very act.  Here’s the catcher though; do you know you are doing it, and stop, or do someone have to call you out on your shit? 

On the real, sometimes I must be forced to see it, so yes someone calls me out on my shit.  Do I try to fight it, sometimes but then I realize I was wrong?  Other time I just apologize without delay because I was caught.  No need to further deny or perpetrate the fraud, I’ve been called out!  I’ve been corrected so many times in my life but I ahead to the correction.  Now I catch myself before I play myself. 

In other words, I do something about it, but most of all I wouldn’t be a woman, if I didn’t admit to the wrong and take the blame.  This is a statement and a confession of my mistakes, but you all will not admit or confess your sins.  All you want to do is point the finger.  Well if there is a mirror around stand in front of it and then point the finger.  Now you know exactly who to blame, Yourself! I’m calling you all out on your bull shit because some of you think your shit doesn’t stink, but it does, it really does.  It smells before you even start it, so please check yourself before you talk about others bull shit.  Your shit is so horrible it smells like a rotting corpse on the hottest day of the summer.  Smell your shit and stop smelling others.  You nor I are perfect but we could do so much better than what we have and are doing right now.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 5…Segment 3.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Child Support a black man’s nightmare.  What the fuck is that?  It is the devil and women know it but seriously guys, why do you have to be forced to do what you know you are supposed to do.  No one should be force as a man to take care of his own child/ren.  More importantly mothers should not use child support as a tool to hurt fathers.  Also, name calling doesn’t make it all better either.  Yes, I know she is a bitch and he is a dog, but neither one of you are either.  It is all hurt and frustration from the past, break up and lies from not getting to know one another.  In all fairness ladies, he wasn’t all that when he was giving you his love muscle.  He wasn’t a bad person when he was taking care of you.  Now for you so called men if you don’t want to be on child support then be the same man you were when you were laying pipe and take care of your responsibilities.  You shouldn’t have wanted to hit it and quit it, raw!  You should have used protection to protect your wallet, freedom, and most of all your dick.  Hello, you nor she had any idea what the other had if anything, but hopefully, nothing.    If your motive was to just get the pussy then you should have been the responsible one and protected your life from the drama you are going through now.  If you wanted the woman and the child/ren then do you part and keep that family happy, but if all you wanted was to keep it moving, now you must move that child or those children along with you. 

When you were bumping and grinding you wasn’t being responsible not wearing a jimmy hat.  I know it takes two but that’s more reason why it will take two to raise those children or child.  Don’t punk out now that there is a new life on the way to take care of or already here.  Punk asses!  You are just the bitch who decided not to step the fuck up and be a man and raise your child/ren.  When you don’t it’s like saying kill my bloodline or saying I’m not shit! 

Stop with “society’s” bull shit to force you to pay child support for a life you created.   “Society” say pay and you pay but that’s not supposed to be the reason.  “Society” say don’t pay then they will lock you up and take away a lot of your worldly possessions.  Take note stupid people there was no child support before black were freed.  It is because no one cared if “society” men didn’t care for their children or family.  Now that black is free, they decided we should be forced to pay to do exactly what we should do. 

Please, look at the jail systems all over the United States which is full of predominantly black people and mostly for ridiculous and senseless crimes or misdemeanors.  The prison systems are just as worse.  The federal prison systems are a joke.  They set you all up from the word go and then put you where they think you belong.  Even after all the kicking and screaming you did for help before the system failed you.  No matter how much you beg for help the system finds some way to ignore you until you have fallen prey to their power and they can finance off your down fall.   Which better way to do that then to imprison you and hope that you don’t get rehabilitated so they can have another swing at you, another go-round.  You are a commodity to them and everyone knows you make money off commodities.   Then they offer oh I mean, place you on probation, meaning you still are locked up but without the bars.  They mean they are just waiting for you to do something else so they can give more time on the time that you have left from a sentence you didn’t complete.  In other words, they still control your every movement.  They are still the “slave masters” they have always been just in another form.  Yes, I know that most of your P.O.’s is “black” but the system controls them as well.  See you can be doing good but if they think you are doing wrong, they run down that person’s back to find out what your every move was for the last week or 24 hours.  Why?  Well they don’t trust you nor the probational officer they hired.  They believe that all “black” people are in cahoots together.  So, believe you, me, they are watching them just as close as they are watching you.  What do you think all the cameras in the City is for, to watch you?

This system is designed to keep the black people imprisoned and unaccomplished.  Employers will not hire most people who have been imprisoned even if it was for a misdemeanor.  Let’s explore how “society” even foreigners try their best to bully black but call the police when we fight or strike back the law is always needed.  When we have the strength to stand up for ourselves but never called when we are being stepped on.  Usually, that’s when the “police” are the ones doing the stepping.  Don’t be afraid now that you have started something you cannot handle nor finish.  Stop starting wars you don’t want and making enemies of people you live amongst!  Damn what does it take to keep you off our damn backs! 

Especially, if you’re not sure you can win the war, or handle the consequences.  Most black people know when the battle isn’t theirs. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 5…Segment 1.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Chapter 5.  Reoccurring Cycles and Systems Put into Place to Keep the Family Apart

This isn’t hard for “society” because they aren’t as family oriented as most black families are, so, they designed several systems to keep the average black family apart. 

Child Protective Services Child Support
Jail Prison
Unemployment Abortion Clinics
Social Services Birth Control
Prescription Drugs Illegal Drugs
Government Agencies Taxes
Probation Pegan Holidays

I know you say these systems are for everyone, but understand they weren’t designed until after the freeing of black.  Once black was free, “society” decided as a unity we would be powerful and undefeated.  First, they designed the Constitution of America which isn’t for black people at all because we were slaves during this signing and believe you me, we weren’t in thought.  Secondly, those Amendments didn’t say anything about us specifically.  For us to benefit from them they would have to include us in their little circle and since that isn’t happening, they decided to come up with laws that defines us and prevent us from doing anything that might disrupt their lives.  We once again fell for the okey-doke.  See they can break laws but cannot violate the Constitution or they will be punished to the highest of the law, the Supreme Court.  This is when shit has hit the fan, but you must look at those who sit on the bench to know if there will be justice for you at all. 

Let’s start with CPS “Child Protective Services” as it is named and it’s speak for itself in the name.  As you consider this bull shit of a service there is always a loop hole for “society” but not for the less fortunate.  It was okay for you “society” to beat our children and murder them without cause, but it is wrong for the mother and fathers to discipline them?  Don’t as a parent discipline your child, we as “society” will be the ones to do that by making money off them, by once again selling them to the highest bidder.  How you ask?  They take your children from you to only give them to another family or person that can well let’s say “take care of them”.  Hello, you have a problem with how I raise my child/ren but don’t have a problem with how another person raises them.  How dare you?  The audacity of “society” to decide who shall raise people children, if money is involved, they can care less.  See the “Government” supposedly pay someone else to do exactly what you were already doing but with a price of imprisonment.  If the child misbehaves or gets into trouble, not the person they so thoroughly background checked, but your child goes to jail or is replaced with another child.  That isn’t how it works in the home of the parent so why does it work like that in Foster Care. Why is it a short term stay as well as a definite placement put in place but only a one page reunification contingency for parents. They weren’t never planning on reuniting you with your child/ren in the first place.

Come to find out your child has been placed in the home of a rich predator and the “Government” could care less.  Is there really a background check done on rich people like it is done on the working class?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

A Look Into A Woman’s Existence

Watch her eyes
“A little boy asked his mother, “Why are you crying?” “Because I’m a woman, ” she told him.
“I don’t understand, ” he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, “And you never will.”
Later the little boy asked his father, “Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?”
“All women cry for no reason, ” was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry…
Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked , “God , why do women cry so easily ?”
God said
“When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up , and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances , even when her child has hurt her very badly.
I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
And finally , I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.”
“You see my son , ” said God , “the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears , the figure that she carries , or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes , because that is the doorway to her heart – the place where love resides.”
Please send this to ten beautiful women you know today. If you do , – You will boost another woman’s self-esteem. I’m also waiting
Pass it on to men too – perhaps they will then understand “why women cry….
Dedicated to beautiful ladies.