Manic Monday! See Me; See Me, Find Me!

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High. Saturday and Sunday post have finally been added, go and check them out. I apologize for the delay.

Have you ever gotten lost or found yourself lost? All you want is to be found. All you want is for someone to see you. All you want is someone to find you. No not hide and go seek but lost! I mean they see you but do they really see you. You don’t look lost to them but deep within yourself you are, lost. You can’t seem to get it right, together or understand life. You seem to do well, but it just doesn’t feel right. It feel inevitable but will never end, like it just keep starting over and over again. You just want answers but all you get is more questions. I get that!

The feeling of being lost is so real that you feel trapped when you are around people because they seem like they are clueless to what is going on around them. Like they all want to be found but no one is looking or them because they can’t see the real them. They only can see what facade they display, but you can see their pain, hurt, insecurities, and shame. You know because you are lost with them. You think that you have no shame, no hurt, no insecurities, but you definitely know of pain. You want to scream, SEE ME! SEE ME! SEE ME!, but you know no one will hear you. You know no one will see you. You just sit, wait and praise that someone will see you, to find you, and to help save you from you.

Find me, find me, find me, I am right here. I am here, please find me. I don’t want to be lost anymore. You can be right in the same house with someone, laying in the same bed, eating the same meal, but still they can’t see you nor find you. You want it to end but how? How can I end this feeling and find myself, because no else is looking? You want to be free, you want to be found, you want to be seen! Look in the mirror, see yourself for who you really are and who you can be. Don’t see yourself for who you think other will want to see or be around or noticed, really see yourself for you. You are the one that is lost so you must be the one to find yourself. You are the one that wants to be seen then finally see yourself, especially if you been seeing isn’t who you are.

Take time to look for you, look at you, love you, in order to see you, find you, and love who you are. People aren’t going to make you happy if you aren’t happy and pleased with yourself. SEE YOU! SEE YOU! SEE YOU! Because I do. FIND YOU! FIND YOU! FIND YOU! Because I found you. BE YOU! BE YOU! BE YOU! Because I see you!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday, Let's Talk Food With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High. Sorry for the delay, technical difficulties over the weekend.

Corn Soup

  • 1 onion
  • 2 cups cooked corn
    • Add 2 – 3 tbsp of water and blend
  • 1 cup diced cooked potatoes (combine and mix with onion)
  • 2 1/2 cups nut milk (almond, sesame, peanut, cashew)
    • Combine and mix with above
      • 1 tsp. salt
      • 2 tbsp parsley
  • Combine ingredients and bring to a boil. Garnish with parsley and chives.

Crispy Corn

  • 1 cup yellow organic cornmeal
  • fi cup pecan pieces
  • 1/4 cup coconut
  • 1 tsp sea salt
    • Combine ingredients. Add 2 cups of boiling water and stir well. Then spoon onto a flour and oiled cooke sheet. Bake at 400* for approximately 30 minutes or until crispy. Serve with soups or as a bread.

Banana Milk

  • 1/2 cup coconut
  • 3/4 – 1 cup warm water
  • 1/2 cup cooked millet
  • 2- 4 bananas
    • Pinch of salt and vanilla. Blend until smooth. Add an additional 1-2 cups of water, if to thick.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday, Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High. Second, experienced technical difficulty over the weekend so I am doing Saturday, Sunday and Monday posts today. Enjoy!

Leave People Alone! We all want to help but if they aren’t willing to accepted your assistance then we have to leave them alone. Be the villager that observe and ready to assist when needed but you have to allow people to go through something in order to know they need help. You can’t save them if they don’t want to be saved , or know that they are in need of saving. They have to want you to Captain Save them when they cry out.

What i have noticed is that allow of people suffer in silence and want to remain in silence. They aren’t seeking assistance for their misery because they have so much distrust in the world, for whatever reason. They want their misery to be left alone and for everyone around them to just leave them the hell alone. I get it! There is moments in our lives where we need to be left alone in order to know that we need not to be alone. We have to learn to want no need the help to be able to receive the help. This I can understand.

Its like this, a person who want to commit suicide will try and fail or try and succeed. They will either accept it when you intervene or they will be very upset that you saved them. Some people will cry out loud for help and those who do it in silence doesn’t really want your help. They prefer their silence and want it to stay that way. The world sometimes gets to loud for people and they need silence to hear themselves. They need silence to coop with the demons that keep knocking at their door. They need the Higher Power to hear their cry long before you can hear it and intervene. Some people wants death and prefer it over living because the world around them have gotten to be too big and to unfamiliar; to scary and to hard to handle. They aren’t able to continue on in this life so they just sit and wait for their time to end. We cannot make it less terrifying even though we try, but to them it is still just too much to bare.

I know that we shouldn’t just sit by and watch a love one or a friend deteriorate but we also can’t make them want life if all they seek is death. We can’t make them want light if all they seek is darkness. We can’t make them want to love it all the have is hate. We can’t make them want anything if all they want to be is left alone. it is them who have to want to and say so before we can intervene. I know it is horrible and terrifying to watch, but forcing them will only make them go into a deeper despair and the what, we may have lost them forever to the horror of nothingness.

Ask them if they need you; wait for them to need you and then be needed. Don’t find something that will keep you from them when they finally come around to knowing they need you. Don’t get lost in the crowd that they can’t see you and realize that they are now truly alone. Be their shadow, because unless you are dead that is always around, even when you don’t see it. I am not telling you not to have a life, I am telling don’t waste it trying so hard to fix a person who isn’t ready to be fixed, but to be there when the time is needed.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – Single sex vs married sex

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Ladies, is it better as a single woman or as a married woman? Of course this is for my ladies that are married now. Some of you single women can answer is it better with a single man or a married man? Either way who wins in the sack? Fellas same questions, is sex better being single or married? Is it better with a single woman or a married one? Who has more kink married or single? Who is more freaky single or married?

As for me the only difference was single is with whoever while married is with one person. My performance is the same so I guess married, because I get to try new things. If he’s down then add it to the list and if not delete it. My thing is to keep it interesting so neither one of us gets bored and want to explore. He brings new things to the table and at first ladies, I was like, “who you been sleeping with other than me?” Then I realize I do the same thing and haven’t been sleeping with no one. The highlight of his whole sexual experience is that no woman has ever allowed him to enter anally, because of his size. Me I’m that freak he needed because, “explore my body!” In my Aaliyah voice. Believe me he “Rocked the Boat.

So before you answer think about this when were you must satisfied and if never comes across your mind, then you haven’t met that person yet. Wait it’s coming and if it don’t then maybe you missed it, being that player, single or married. Can you honestly compare the two? If you haven’t figured it out yet it’s not about the other person, it’s about you! You have to know when your best performance took place. You have to know when you left the other person feeling like the world can end now and they would care because you sent them straight to the “Pearly Gates.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday! Are We Bad At Parenting Or Winging It?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We have allowed these children too much freedom of expression. They are now whipping parents asses, killing grandparents, murdering children, and all while being high. They know we’re not saying anything because we don’t want them upset. I know that’s shit is wrong, I could care less about them being upset. We are the parents and we need to be teaching, educating, and whipping asses and setting the boundaries.

What is going on? If you were raised correctly then you know what the rules are as well as what right and wrong. Why is it that parents now days try to be their children’s friend? Forget all that get your own damn friends your own damn age and raise you fucking children!

Here’s the thing girls are taught not to go off with men they don’t know but boys aren’t taught not to be the predators that wants to take girls off. If you are educating our daughters then we better be double educating our sons. We tell them not to me whores and not to give it up so early. Father’s get mad and want to grab the gun when they find it they are dating but no one does anything about these boys. We aren’t teaching them that no mean no. We aren’t teaching them that’s their hands belongs to themselves. We are teaching them how to wait. We aren’t teaching them safe sex. We are just hanging them condoms and telling them not to get the girls pregnant! We get happy when the son start dating when we should be getting upset as well. We should be grabbing the gun for his ass as well. Not to run off the gun but to let him know don’t be a sex offender, predator, creeper, pervert, or child molester. Where is their speech? Where is the concern that maybe you aren’t raising them correctly reason why they are out here doing more than society can handle?

As soon as they are dead, in prison or hurt then its free him or not him or he was a good boy. Maybe not! Maybe you just didn’t know your son as well as you thought. Remember we are the parents and we need to step up and be that even when they are grown because they are more confused then ever. Don’t just kick them out onto the world without guidance and tell them they can do it because if you weren’t that great of a teacher then they can’t do it. Yeah you did take care of the house, cook, clean, and keep a roof over their heads as well as for in their mouths but while you were doing it did you ever teach them? Or were you just hoping they were watching and learning on their own.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – The Millennials

Goddess afternoon Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

The run in that people are experiencing with these “Millennials” is ridiculous. The reports are astounding and I only can ask who is raising them.

I believe that the parents of these Millennials are those who got the short end of the stick. By the time they were having babies real Mothers and Fathers were not available they were to busy working. They forgot about helping as grandparents and so the millennials are not being taught respect, given proper love nor are they being educated by the system correctly. Technology is their babysitters, corner stores is their kitchen, the streets it’s where they live and sleep comfortable, peers are they guides and the Higher Power isn’t a factor.

They are in desperate need of assistance because they are becoming victims of their own self hate. Predators are walking them into sex trafficking situations. Parents are losing them by the dozen and they are dying faster than they are being born. Where and who can they turn to if Mommy and Daddy isn’t around, they only place no one told them about, the street and everything it has to offer. Drugs, sex, unsupervised nights, lack of school, diseases and murder is all they know because it’s all they are shown. No one cares anymore.

Let’s pray that the children of today see tomorrow because they don’t believe in tomorrow. They believe and live for the right now, the moment, the last day is today. They don’t have to though we are adults should be teaching them better ways, showing them better days, and giving them hope for tomorrow.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Changing For No One

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Have you ever went to sleep to the perfect song only to wake to a more perfect song? Well this morning I woke to the most perfect song that puts me in the best mood ever. I woke with happiness like the world could do no wrong. If you have ever woke to the happiest feeling that you have ever felt in all your days, hold onto that feeling and make this moment, “Timeless.”

Throughout the course of the day someone will try their best to steal that joy from you, but for me, not today. I am taking this happiness to the end of the week if possible. I will not allow anyone to have my misery because I don’t have any. The all High have blessed me with this great feeling and I intend on keeping with great faith that there is more to come.

So when you walk into that workplace don’t let it go. Be so contagious that your happiness spreads like the plague and infect everyone, even those who show their discord for you. Fuck them today because this feeling is priceless, timeless, and all yours. Be more infectious with your joy that it makes the people you walk pass feel like they have nothing to lose today.

I know that the haters will try and destroy it but block them and tell them not day! If work is your destination then make it a great workplace, if school is your destination tell them children that we are working from an A to whatever grade you think you deserve today but, I’m starting you off with an A. If construction is or a form of labor is your destination then make sure your co-worker feel the joy your are spreading today. So no matter what your destination is today just remember make that joyful feeling you woke up with today your Timeless Tuesday.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove