Saturday, Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Ladies, ladies, ladies! Is it time to clean out the closet… literally and figuratively? Emotionally, we like to attach ourself to things we believe we can’t let go because of sentimental reasons but in reality we can’t let go of the person whether they hurt us or not. If we let go we let go; of what we think was a great memory, in fact turns if to be just a bag of lies. For some of us I will give it to you, when it’s over, baby girl it’s over. You don’t look back you don’t shed a tear. You don’t reminisce over it. You act like it didn’t even happen. After talking to you about somethings I see the pain, hurt and empty void, that is now your defense mechanism. You remind yourself never to trust, love, or lower your defense every again.

I get it and if that’s how it have to be then, I’m all for it, but in the same sense you are depriving yourself happiness, joy, love and peace. Your health isn’t right and you can’t understand why, it’s because you honest that bad energy in your closet of emotions. You rather chew live wire than to give yourself a second to think about what happened in that relationship. Clean it out, throw away that anger, hostility, misery and reclaim your ability to love, trust, and your health. It’s your closet only you can clean it out! No one else can get in there and clean out what you need to throw away. You can do it, I can see the pile of unnecessary, intoxicating, unessential things in the trash already.

Fellas, fellas, fellas! Did you all really think I was only talking to the ladies? You know if I have love for one I have love for all. You know your closet is just as dirty as the ladies and you need to clean it as well. It’s a different for you all because while you are a pile of mess, you still want to stay face around people. I wish it was only the fellas, but it’s the ladies as well. Fellas some women love a man who is able to express his emotions, feelings, and wants. We don’t have time to be guessing. Tell us like you want us to tell you. Don’t say men aren’t emotional because that’s a lie, reason most kill, hurt, punish, and fight others in a rage. Sometimes it’s not even jealousy it’s just a emotional state and they aren’t able to express themselves properly so they take it out on others. Instead of confronting the person in their life, who caused them hurt, pain, and mental anguish, with calm and rational thoughts.

Grab the broom, dust pan and trash can, because it is time to get rid of all the mistrust, infidelity, hostility, and pain. It is time to love, trust, compromise, and live again. If you are always angry, but at the wrong person, then you’re not living; you’re existing and that’s not healthy. Take it one step at a time so that you can be in a fidelity accountable relationship wherein you can honestly be happy, loved, and stable. Dead or in jail is no place to be when all you want is to be loved.

I know we can all do it… there’s hope for us all.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – Happy Valentine’s Day

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, praise and worship to the all High.

This is a special time of the year for a lot of people. Their hearts are filled with joy and excitement, not sure what their sweethearts are bringing home. Their anticipation is intoxicating and they are drunk with love. Women I hope that he isn’t the only one going out to get his love a gift. Ladies show your man you can be just as romantic as he can. Go out and buy him something that will light a smile in his face and joy in his heart. No a nice piece is lingerie isn’t what I’m talking about. That’s for you and for him to look at and take off. Would you like it if he came with a nice clothing item for him, for you to take off and admire? No, so do something nice for him like you expect him to do something nice for you.

How about this year you take him out for dinner? You buy him a nice time piece (watch), a pinky ring, necklace, hat, shoes, suit, sweatsuit, a coat or jacket since it is getting warm, something. Men want to feel appreciated as well. They want to know that you care for them like they care for you. It’s not hard to show your appreciation like you expect them to show you theirs. Ladies you got this, don’t let him down.

Fellas, do I really need to tell you that those tired ass flowers and chocolate isn’t going to cut it this year. Come on isn’t that quick stop at the corner getting to routine. The guy knows you by name. Put thought into it and mean it from the bottom of your heart. Now some ladies don’t mind money but it just says I don’t know you enough to know what you would like. Give her plane tickets to somewhere you two haven’t been. Make reservation at her favorite hotel and give her a weekend she’ll never forget. Jewelry is a great gift but if that’s what you always do then switch it up. Don’t let her think she knows you and that you are predictable.

Kings should sacrifice the kingdom for their Queens. Queens should move the castle for their Kings. Not only in Valentine’s day but everyday to ensure that they are appreciated, loved, wanted, and desired. No if’s ands or buts!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Dancing Around The Truth

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We’re doomed! I’m not going to sugar-coat it for you. We’re doomed! Ask yourself are you proud to be who you are as a person? If you can yes then you are ,dancing around the truth. We as human beings well most of us haven’t shown kindness to one another to be proud of anything. We fake like we like people so stay faced in the public eye, but in reality we hate and it’s deep. You may not have all people but it’s always a certain kind of person you hate or a certain race of people. Hate is hate! There’s no dancing around that.

When you say I hate someone that means you hate something within yourself 😡😠 that you aren’t aware of and it causes you to hate outward. Saying you dislike someone is different from saying you hate someone. You can’t say you like a certain person of a race but hate the rest of that race. If so, then you really hate the person you say you like. You just have learned to tolerate that person but still you hate them deep within, also meaning you hate yourself. It’s impossible to have love for the African, Caucasian, Asian, Haitian, Hispanic person within your community but then say I hate Africans, Caucasians, Asians, Haitians, Hispanics. Honestly, you tolerate the people of these ethnicities but you are racist.

It is people in this world who had been faking love, faking happiness, faking joy, faking life just so they can stay face and look like a human being. They have faked it for so long that it is deteriorating their health and no one, not even the doctors, can explain why. It’s hate tearing then up on the inside and killing them slowly.

It’s people like you that smiles in others face with a deep hatred for them and then try to turn others against them. Don’t spread your hate keep it to yourself because your hate is what’s wrong with the people on this Rock today and yesterday and tomorrow. There will always be hate taught, expressed, hidden, spread, but never really addressed. Stop dancing around the truth, you aren’t be better than the next person just because your situation or standards are different.

If you are cut, shot or stabbed, is your blood not the same color? Do you not bleed? Don’t even think about it if you need a blood transfusion and the only person that can safe you be one of those ethnicities you secretly hate, or a kidney, lung, liver or marrow. Then you are in trouble because what if they are just as racist as you but only because they know secretly you are. Doesn’t make it right but not everyone can put aside their discord for someone who had clearly shown then their colors.

When are we going to get it right? How can be make it better for all? Where do the hate end and the real love begin? Can we ever really get along? Will the past always keep us at a distance with one another? Will we always have to dance around the truth? I wonder????

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – Are You Everyone’s Everything?

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Are you that person everyone calls on for everything and anything? Are you the shoulder to cry on? Are you the bending ear? Are you the automatic teller machine? Are you the safe house? Are you the protector?

You do anything for the people you love. There’s nothing you haven’t done for them, but when it’s your needs that has to be meet, there’s no one around. There’s no one to turn to or call. You just know one will listen, help, be there because that’s who you are. Well that’s the problem that’s who you are, not who they are! They are the needy and you are the giver. How can they be there if they are always in need of you?

I know it’s a horrible feeling to always be the one needed and nevermind you when you are the one in need. Have you ever wondered what they would do it you stop being the one to give? Would they still love you the same? Would they still call you the same? Would they still converse with you or would they find another to use and abuse?

Most likely they would just find another! Say isn’t it, that you can go up and beyond yourself just to find out that your not worth anything to anyone when you are in need. That’s it a painful feeling, knowing you are all alone. It is a sickening feeling to find out that the people you love doesn’t love you back, they just love you when they are in need.

Change the cycle, give just enough for them to figure it out in their own. Don’t make it easy no one because when you need them they will not be there and this way you’ll have time for yourself, to do for and care for yourself.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Black History Facts

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Matthew Henson – August 8, 1866 – March 9, 1955

  • First African-American Artic explorer.
  • Recognized as the first person to reach the North Pole in 1909.
  • Recorded his Artic memoirs, A Negro Explorer at the North Pole, in 1912.
  • In 1937, became the first African-American accepted into, The Explorers Club, due to his Achievement.
  • Made six voyages and spent a total of 18 years in expeditions.
  • At the age of 70, received an award from U.S. Navy and gold medal from Chicago Geographic Society.

Marcus Garvey – August 17, 1887 – June 10, 1940

  • Jamaican political leaders, publisher, journalist, entrepreneur, orator, and proponent of the Pan-Africanism movement.
  • Founded the Universal Negro Improvement Association and African Communities League (UNIA-ACL) in 1914.
  • At its height, the organization has over 5 million paid members worldwide, the largest African diaspora organization of its time.
  • In 1919, established the Negro Factories Corporation and founded the Black Star Line, a shipping and passenger line which promoted the return of the African diaspora to their ancestral lands.
  • One of the most influential leaders of the 20th century in Jamaica.

Bob Marley – February 6, 1945 – May 11, 1981

  • Jamaican singer-songwriter, musician, guitarist and activist.
  • Music became closely associated with the movement towards Black political independence, prominent in America and several African and South American countries.
  • First global pop star to emerge from a developing nation.
  • Posthumously inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1994.
  • Although Marley never received a Grammy nomination, was recognized with the Lifetime Achievement Award in 2001.

It’s amazing how hard we fought, how much accomplished, achieved, recognized, but still isn’t a subject to be taught in the curriculums in schools for our children to learn, so they can improve on themselves.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Black History Facts

Goddess evening Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Jomo Kenyatta – October 20, 1891 – August 22, 1978

  • Kenyan politician; became Kenya’s first president and considered finding father of the Kenyan nation.
  • Led Kenya African National Union (KANU) delegation to the first and second Lancaster Conference in London where Kenya’s Independence Constitution was negotiated in 1960 and 1962.
  • Supported reconciliation and consistently asked white settlers not to leave Kenya.
  • His policy was that of continuity and gradual Africanisation of the government, keeping many colonial civil servants in their old jobs as gradually replaced by Kenyans.
  • Oversaw peaceful land reform process, Kenya’s admission into the United Nations, and established institutions of independent Kenya.

Kwame Nkrumah – September 21, 1909 – April 27, 1972

  • Prime Minister of Ghana between 1957 and 1960.
  • President of Ghana from 1960 – 1966.
  • Helped organized the Fifth Pan-African Congress in Manchester, England in 1945.
  • Declared the Independence of Ghana from the United Kingdom in 1957.
  • Announced plans for a new constitution, which made Ghana a republic, in 1960.
  • Was awarded the Lenin Peace Prize by the Soviet Union.
  • Ghana became a founding member of the Organization of African Unity in 1963.
  • In 2000, he was elected the greatest African of the millennium, by a vote in Africa.

Dr. Yosef Ben-Jochannan – December 31, 1918 – March 19, 2015

  • African-American writer and historian.
  • Considered to be one of the most prominent Afrocentric scholars by some in Black Nationalist community.
  • Authored 49 books, primarily on ancient Nile Valley v civilizations and its influence on Western cultures.
  • In 1945, received doctoral degrees in cultural anthropology and Moorish history from the University of Havana and the University of Barcelona, Spain.
  • Appointed chairman of the African Studies Committee of the newly-founded United Nations Educational, Scientific, and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) in 1945.

Patrice Lumumba – July 2,1925 – January 17, 1961

  • Congolese independence leader and first democratically-elected leader of Congo, as prime minister, at the age of 35.
  • Founder and leader of mainstream Mouvement National Congolais.
  • Had an integral role in the campaign for Independence from Belgium.
  • He Co-established the Mouvement National Congolais in 1958, to call for countrywide unity and freedom from colonial atrocities.
  • He was assassinated in 1961.
  • In 2013, the United States of America admitted President Eisenhower authorized his assassination.
  • In 1964, Malcolm X and Lumumba was “the greatest Black man who ever walked the African continent…”

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Relive Your Greatest Moments.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

When you have nothing else to hold onto or feel like there’s nothing to love for, relive your greatest moments. Life gets hard sometimes and we all have those moments when we don’t want to live anymore. When life has us by the throat and is choking it right out of us but there’s a shimmer of light just in our grasp. Hold onto it and don’t let it go for it is your life line and it is your salvation.

Don’t tell me you never been here before even if it was for a millisecond, you’ve been here. We all have and for some they are still here, but hope isn’t lost so don’t give up. Find that moment when you were at your greatest; when you had life where you wanted it. Pull that memory out of your soul and find that happiness you once had. You don’t have to relive it you just have to remember it, if afterwards there was tragedy. If not relive it! Find that spark and make love worth living again. Play it over and over again in your head until your heart is content with joy. So much joy you cannot contain it and you must share it with someone who deserves it.

A Timeless Tuesday doesn’t always have to be what you can do it can be what you already did. It can be what you haven’t done and lived to tell about it. It could even be what someone else done that brought you happiness, joy and peace. It can be what you want of or for others. A Timeless Tuesday, can happen any day of the week as long as it’s a memory that you will never forget and could never forget that made you happy, joyful, and love.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove