Throwback Thursday – Can You Remember When America Was Great?

Goddess morning Royals 🤔🗣. First give praise and worship to the all High.

🤔🤔 I’m trying to remember a time in American His-Story where it was great!

Twenty-first century – now what?

  • Education and Jobs The transition from an industrial to a postindustrial economy is difficult in any society. Factory jobs are now being replaced by jobs in the knowledge industry and service sector. A few decades ago, many young boys followed in the footsteps of their fathers and worked at the local factory. Jobs there did not necessarily require that you were a skilled worker. It was possible for young people to find good jobs that actually paid well, even for those who did not have higher education. Many of these jobs have disappeared, partly due to outsourcing and globalization. Young people with grades below average may have difficulties completing degrees at universities and colleges, and this will strongly affect their lifetime earnings. Americans without higher education earn relatively little compared to Norwegian workers without higher education. Many of these workers earn only about $20,000 in a full-time job. Therefore, they often have a hard time makings ends meet due to rising costs of healthcare and housing. Furthermore, rising tuition costs at universities have recently made it increasingly more important that parents start early saving money for their children’s higher education. In light of these interlinked challenges regarding jobs and education, it is important for the United States to improve the skills and competence of the workforce to qualify for demanding jobs in the 21st century. There is a strong competition between countries in our globalized economy. In some Asian countries, the competence in math and other hard sciences is higher than in the United States and other Western nations, and the United States must try to bridge this gap.
  • Economic Inequality The decline of well-paid manufacturing jobs and the rise of low-paid jobs in the service sector, such as jobs in Wal-Mart and McDonald’s, have contributed to increasing economic inequality. During the last thirty years, the richest one percent of Americans have increased their share of the economic pie considerably compared to the rest of society. Today, the richest one percent controls about 23 percent of all income and about 40 percent of all wealth. Meanwhile, the average American has seen stagnating real wages since the 1970s. The economic crisis of 2008, due to irresponsible behavior by banks, affected both the rich and the poor and average Americans. Partly because of falling housing prices, there has been a dramatic decline in average family wealth in the United States. There was a reduction from $126,400 in 2007 to $77,300 in 2010. This is a 39 percent drop in only three years. The decline in wealth has disproportionately affected African Americans and Hispanics, but many whites also suffer. When people have less money to spend, there is too little demand in the economy, and many companies cannot sell enough of their products. Many people have compensated by using several credit cards; but it is not smart to spend more money than you have, and the interest rate on credit card debt is very high.
  • Senior citizens/Baby Boomers Large groups of people in the United States, like in Norway, were born in the post-war period. People were happy then that the war was over, and celebrated this by having kids. These people are now in their mid-60s and have begun retiring. There are now significantly fewer workers per retiree than a few decades ago, and this poses economic challenges for the United States. This means that relatively fewer workers pay into the Social Security “pie” that more and more retirees will share. Consequently, people are encouraged to save money in their own pension plans so they can receive extra money in addition to what they get from Social Security when they retire. It is positive that many people live longer, but a rising number of elderly people leads to more need for health care. The current Medicare program that covers people above 65 will be difficult to maintain, because it will be very expensive in the years to come. Also health costs in general will grow partly because of lifestyle problems, including inactivity and obesity.
  • Climate change The weather has always caused many problems all around the world, but the weather and the problems it causes have become more extreme in recent years. New York Times reporter Thomas Friedman has referred to this as “global weirding.” We see extreme heat and drought in some areas, whereas elsewhere heavy rainfall and flooding is destroying crops. In the coming decades, the world will witness intensive struggles for resources in order to meet an increasing demand for energy. Access to clean water may become a challenge in new places. Having the largest economy in the world, the United States has a great responsibility in the global fight against dangerous climate change. However, President Barack Obama has not succeeded in passing a major climate bill. He faces considerable opposition from members of both parties, but mainly from the Republican Party. Since 2010, there has been a sharp decline among conservatives who accept climate change, and the coal and oil industries have strong lobbying groups that work against stricter environmental regulations. Among the big players in this game to prevent more effective regulations are Exxon Mobil, which is the largest oil company in the world, and Koch Industries, an energy company that is led by two of the richest Americans, Charles and David Koch. There are strong connections between the energy industry and the Republican Party, and it may be impossible to pass a landmark bill soon that would significantly curb emission of CO2. Rich companies have too much political power in the U.S. today. There is a debate as to whether economic problems may lead to a decline in American global power. Large empires have collapsed before, as Yale historian Paul Kennedy pointed out in his book The Rise and Fall of the Great Powers in the late 1980s. The U.S. budget deficit is very high, and the public debt has increased to about a hundred percent of the Gross Domestic Product. The American infrastructure – roads, bridges, railways, schools, etc. – desperately needs modernization. Some people argue that the so-called BRIC-countries – Brazil, Russia, India, and China – will become more dominant in the future. China now has the world’s second largest economy after the United States and has a modern infrastructure. Unlike the European nations that are members of the Euro-zone, the United States has its own currency, and this is an advantage because it is possible to devaluate – make money worth less – to help the export industry. The United States is not as economically powerful now compared to the rest of the world as it was right after World War II. Still, it is arguably important for the world that the United States remains powerful. Few people in the Western world want China or Russia to replace the United States as the dominant world power, and there are no other nations in the Western world that can take over the role of the United States as the defender of the ideas of freedom, democracy, and human rights. Therefore, it is crucial that the U.S. deals with the challenges that are discussed in this article, and that the U.S. succeeds as a nation.
  • Right now COVID has the world in a paralyzed choke-hold. We’re held hostage because of bad decisions from the people we elect to run this country. Each time they manage to make no efforts in disappointing us with their continuous failure.

Twentieth century- well that will be a no!

  • The war to end all wars”: World War I (1914–1918)
  • Economic depression.
  • The rise of dictatorship.
  • The war in the Pacific.
  • The Nuclear Age begins.
  • The Triangle Shirtwaist Factory Catches Fire (Mar. 25, 1911)
  • The Great Migration Begins (1915)
  • The Prophet Is Published (Sept. 23, 1923)
  • The KKK Marches in Washington (Aug. 8, 1925)
  • Thomas Dorsey Invents the Gospel Blues (1932)
  • Harry Hopkins Starts Work (May 22, 1933)
  • FDR Accepts the 1936 Democratic Presidential Nomination (June 27, 1936)
  • Hugo Black Is Appointed to the Supreme Court (Aug. 19, 1937)
  • Truman Replaces Wallace (July 21, 1944)
  • The North Atlantic Treaty Is Signed (April 4, 1949)
  • Barbara Johns Walks Out (April 23, 1951)
  • Emmett Till Is Murdered (Aug. 28, 1955)
  • The Children March in Birmingham (May 2, 1963)
  • Thich Quang Duc’s Self-Immolation Is Broadcast (June 11, 1963)
  • Howard Smith Amends the Civil Rights Act (Feb. 8, 1964)
  • Ronald Reagan Speaks to Conservatives (Oct. 27, 1964)
  • The Immigration and Nationality Act Is Signed (Oct. 3, 1965)
  • Alcatraz Is Occupied (Nov. 20, 1969)
  • Affirmative Action Goes Unchallenged (Oct. 12, 1971)
  • California Passes Proposition 13 (June 6, 1978)
  • The Pneumocystis Pneumonia Report (June 5, 1981)
  • The Americans With Disabilities Act Is Signed (July 26, 1990)

I can go on and on but I digress; where and when have America been great. As for my people of color it had and never will be if everyone keep seeing us as slaves. We are people always have been always will be! I have a question; What does the future hold for any and all of us?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wise Up Wednesday – Stop Living In A Lie

Goddess morning Royals 🌑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Can you tell the truth? Will you tell the truth? Do you tell the truth? If so then why accept a lie?!

Everything you think you know question it, then question it again! After you question it, question it again. If something feels out of place or doesn’t sit right with you then you’re probably right!

Everything you’re taught, learned or told should always be questioned, unless you witnessed first hand; and even still question it. Don’t take nothing at face value! Facts check it all, because if you dig deep enough the truth shall be revealed.

Trust nothing or no one when they say believe me! Question them and their statement, answer, or reason right off the back. If it didn’t sound right, question it! If it don’t sit right, question it! If it doesn’t look right, question it! If it doesn’t feel right, question it!

Once you got the truth, share that knowledge with someone to open their eyes to the truth and not just your truth but the truth! Can you do that? Can you be the truth teller? Will you do that? Will you be the truth teller? Do that, be that, the truth teller!

STOP THE LIES BEFORE THEY SPREAD OUT OF CONTROL! We already live in a world filled with lies, when can we live in the truth! They say people can’t handle the truth but it’s the lies they aren’t handling well at all. Tell the people of the world that those in power is greedy and that the world has become over populated; and there isn’t enough resources for everyone. Tell them that the nations came together and decided that 5 million people need to die in order to provide for the world while continuing to stay face. Tell them that the rich will remain rich while everyone else suffer and is expected to die. Sorry guys but the truth is the truth! Welcome COVID-19 aka Corona aka the widow maker bka the solution.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove #AllLifeMatter


Goddess morning Royals 👏🏾💯✅✔️☑️. First give praise and worship to the all High.

All across the US I hear, see, and read “vote”. Some are even saying vote like your life depends on it! Here’s my questions:

  • Who is revamping the laws that oppress my people?
  • Will there be tougher laws in place for those who violate women and children; sexually?
  • Who is returning all the missing and exploited children?
  • Who is slashing taxes? Considering the IRS is a fake entity of government anyway!
  • Who’s curing COVID-19? That seem to be going nowhere but increasing daily!
  • Who is going to tell the people the truth about COVID-19?
  • Who is dethroning the police departments from their brutal reign on the black people of “America”?
  • Who stands for equality?
  • Who can’t be brought?
  • Who understand the word “United”?
  • Who will be an individual separate from the bonds that holds them hostage that keeps America going in the same direction it’s been going for over 400 years or so?
  • Who will not give us 4 years of false promises?
  • Who doesn’t look the other way when America is under attack on US soil by US citizens?
  • Who will write into law that black people are US citizens? Not Slaves!
  • Who is making healthcare affordable?
  • Who is putting jobs back in the US?
  • Who unwilling to get in bed with crooks?
  • Who wash their hands to dirty politics?
  • Who stands for justice for all?
  • Who wants one nation?
  • Who will not spend frivolously and help us in debt?

If no takers then I vote for myself! Hello America I am Kenya and I elected myself as President of the UNITED STATES! Just get out there and vote, your life may very well depend on it!

Here’s a question: if church and State is separate; why do you say God in the pledge of allegiance as well place your hand on a bible in court to tell the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth? Especially when both is a lie!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Monday Madness! What Happens Next?

Goddess morning Royals 🤔🤔. First give praise and worship to the all High.

So Tuesday is the big day! Tuesday determines what is going to happen in the US! Will this be a repeat of the #CivilWar or will 45 go quietly into the night? If he wins what happens next? Do they believe that the US will be the same again? Even if he lose, it will never be the same again!

We have suffered more poverty, distraction, chaos, racism, inequality, hatred, unlawful violence, brutality and death than I have ever seen since the emancipation. It’s sad because all we want is to be left the hell alone. They knew exactly what they put in place for us when the proclamation was being signed. Those who opposed it already started putting laws and people in place to keep us as slaves but in secrecy.

Look we still work for the #man for pennies on the dollar, which we believe is more than nothing. Our bodies still endure the same abuse but with less financial hardship or so we think. Our families still suffer from the oppressed because at any given moment they can accuse you of anything and incarcerate you for their gain. Wherein they get free labor, but plenty of money for you capture. Then the press up on your family, through the job, financial institutions, doctors, schools, and courts. So that the remaining family members can fall victim to their prey. Turning to a life of crime, hardship, government assistance, and poverty, which means you never leave from under the white man’s thumb.

This is why the burned down #BlackWallStreet because they knew that without them black folks would thrive past them! We got the answer and we need is the unity to complete it.

Sending you all love and kisses.


Sunday Let’s Talk With Lady K

Goddess morning Royals 🗣👂🤔. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Right now across “America” because it’s definitely never been United, people are showing their true colors. Well they showed them always but recently since the Presidential election is upon us.

Women and children of all races are being attacked if they even show a hint of free expression. This isn’t about BLM it’s about, #lives at this point. There are numerous video of women being attacked by cowards for their expression of the #FirstAmendment.

This country fail to realize people are tired 💤, fed up with all the politics of racism from people who suppose to protect them. I said it once and I’ll say it again; the same people who swear to save your life, protect and serve, judge not unfairly, operate your government are the same people that hunted your ancestors down, tied them up, hung them, and burned them. The system is rigged and stacked against us from the beginning to the end.

We will never win because it’s not designed for us to win. Every time we as colored people do something a new law is signed to prevent us from doing it again. Then once it’s done again we have broken the law. This have been going on since slavery.

Now this modern day slavery just make it look justified so others don’t feel like the country is unfair. I call #bullshit! Right now there is a police shooting a black man, a doctor or team refusing to save his life, a district attorney already writing his justification, a prosecutor already being paid, a jury pre-selected and a judge who agrees with the process! #Facts

Say what you want but this is the same way it’s always been, but people wonder why black folks have a #IDGAF mentality. This is why because they still see us as slaves, even with the Proclamation. We weren’t never Emancipated, just removed from our captive homes only to be prisoners in their system of unfair practice, web of lies and their laws of hate. Which means we are still prisoners whether behind a brick wall or roaming freely.

There’s no justice, peace, fair practice, equality or freedom for those once enslaved or their future families. But believe this our ancestors didn’t go without a fight and neither will we! 45 has to go! The system has you go!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday Halloween Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 😱👿👺😺🎃🤖👾. First give praise and worship to the all High. HAPPY HALLOWEEN 🎃 TO ALL WHO PARTICIPATE.

I, myself don’t deal with holidays. They are so commercialized and founded to end your funds. On the other hand I don’t ruin anyone else’s fun or pleasure when it comes to “Holidays”. I do however try to keep it out of my home. Now that my children are older as well as grown it is not practiced in my home.

Still I don’t discourage them if they want to spend their money on such things. My granddaughter and daughter, does it everyone year, since my granddaughter was born. I don’t lie to her either and she asks all the time, “Grandma, why don’t you celebrate holidays?” And I tell her its because Grandma grew up. Then she ask, “When I grow up am I going to stop celebrating them too?” I tell her you do as you like when you grow up concerning holidays. You have to find your own way, just like grandma. Then she smile and ask to help me do whatever it is I’m doing at the time.

I don’t lie I just don’t destroy what fun as a children she can have during these difficult times. She’s always cautious about COVID and that’s a blessing as well as a curse. She’s staying safe but not enjoying being a child, so I make the days look greater. We do so much as these terrible times are upon us. We paint, color, draw, play hide and seek, pick fruit from the garden, watch cartoons together, do each other’s nails and toes, do each other’s hair, read books to one another, tell stories and share dreams. I’m teaching her how to cook as well as clean, sew and use the cash register. She learns quickly.

So just because you are stuck inside doesn’t mean there isn’t anything to do. I also go out back with my son and help him with his karate, teaching him how to cook and prepare for a woman. My oldest is a continuous commitment on learning daily. I stay repetitious with him because of his condition.

Stay safe people, stay blessed and stay healthy to see what the future holds for you.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday! Do It Because You Can

Goddess morning Royals 💋🥰. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Well Halloween is upon us and if you think the thinks in the past was freaky; think about this. Your children out here trick or treating in the middle of the second wave of COVID!

That’s not only freaky but scary as hell. Not knowing if the person who is giving your children candy clean, washes their hands or sanitizes at all. Praying they don’t have COVID and have been tested, as well as quarantined. What’s even freakier is the person opening the door doesn’t know their fate either. They don’t know if the parent or child knocking is positive or even sanitized before, or during their outing. Walked past someone out there coughing all over the place. Just be careful is all I can say, because this virus is happening!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Thinking Thursday! Really Put Some Thought In This!

Goddess morning Royals 🤔. First give praise and worship to the all High. Happy King’s Day to my oldest King Ryheem. 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 for life.

Can you teach someone how to love you?

I pose this question, because everyone wants to be loved and for those who don’t, their soul is lost! *That’s a whole other topic to be discussed later! If one sole reason one this rock is to give love as well as receive it; then why is it so hard to accomplish? I have seen both sides give while their significant other, family/love ones take and take but refuse to give back.

When they do give back it’s only to get more, if there is more to get. I have seen the well run dry and takers move on to the next without even blinking in remorse.

We all know we will never get the same love given in return! Why not? An ounce of what we give can feel like a pound to the person receiving it. If given properly and from the heart not from the thought. It’s not the thought of loving someone that counts, it’s the actual love from the heart that does count.

People show interest in what you dislike, like, want but hardly in what you need. It’s in the need where the love is shown and given. Govern your heart like they govern their wallet and see the change in people. It’s possible to teach someone to love you but do they really wants to learn! Do they really want to love you, be in love with you or just feel a sense of want to show others someone cares for them.

I’ve seen that as well, I call it showcase love. When a person only want people to see that someone loves them even though they know as well as those around them know they don’t deserve it. Love is to great for some people because the only person they care for is themselves and most of the time they don’t really like spending time alone because they disgust themselves. You know the ones too! They always need to be seen because they are always bored and nothing pleases them really unless they get validation in their life from others.

Imagine that someone has to validate them for them to realize they are someone. Self worth is far fetched and nowhere in reach mentally, physically, or emotionally. It’s just not possible and so they bring your spirits down as well as your self-esteem because of their insecurities.

So yes it is possible to teach someone but it shouldn’t be that hard if they love themselves even to share it. If not, move on because someone will without you teaching them!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wicked Wednesday! Is He/She Really Your Friend?

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

What we understand about friendship, it is supposed to be give and take. A connection; a bond that can’t be broken because of the hurtles leap, the boundaries crossed, the paths taken, the tears shed, the blood infused, time spent and the lives birth and loss!

What we have learned is those same reasons that makes the friendship can be the same reasons to break a friendship! When it feels or becomes one-sided, the trust is challenged. Communication becomes threats; hurtles look like hate; boundaries are double crossed; paths become rage, tears are signs of jealousy and pain; blood is then shed and lives are really loss! A war has started because of miscommunication, writing on the walls are from enemies and not friends, whispers are from the devils working hard to break the bond.

It becomes a battle no one wants to lose but no one will ever win. What was once a loving heart is now a wicked, deceptive thought and the heart is no longer at play. The mind is a terrifying place to be when you lose your heart.

Remember everyone who started this race with you aren’t for you and everyone joining isn’t your friend. Choose wisely when using that word #Friend. It’s powerful and wicked at the same time.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Mundane Monday! Wake It and Shake It Up!

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

The dreaded Monday has arrived! For some that means returning to work but for others that means a dull boring week shall fall upon them. Children are waking up with the blues because school is back in session, but most is excited it’s not in person only virtual.

Wake Monday up and shake it up like it is a Thursday and weekend is coming. Dreading Monday is a mental state of mind only because you plan for the weekend but never for Monday.

Make a list of great things that can happen on Monday and each Monday try one not all because you will bore again with Monday’s, then do it and find Monday’s can be just exciting as Friday’s and Saturday’s.

Enjoy your new Monday and remember it’s what you make it, mentally.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday Let’s Talk Life With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Let peace fall upon you in this life where it seem there is none. As we approach the dawn of a new year we find ourselves upon the upcoming holidays. This year has been a historical year to remember, with COVID claiming so many lives, the world closing down, people fighting and marching for peace ☮️. The discovery of missing children to turn around to more children missing from across the globe 🌍. Jobs lost and others prosperities gained for people not sure where their next meal was coming from. Stimulus and unemployment fraud to new business thriving sociably online because there is money to be made.

Business closing their door for good because of the economic crisis, sacrifices has to be made. The Government in charge making rude comments and putting people lives in danger. To the death of so many colored people and families in ruining. Elections in turmoil and people uncertainty of how it will turn out. The outpouring of tears for love one’s loss to violence, the COVID virus, police (SARS) (Gangs) and vigilante rogue police departments to the march of Nation of Islam in Atlanta. Arm forces being placed on U.S soil to the racial division in full circulation and the leader of the free world leading the charge.

The debate on who should be in charge and the pointing of the fingers but no one taking the blame crisis we are in to the one heading this way. Blood shed, more life’s loss, more division, less unity, death on both sides, and for what? Because everyone wants to be in charge but no one knows how to lead. What a world we live in only to be a prisoner of the “so called leaders” who places our lives in danger everyday because of their selfishness. Wars of territories and once won, leave that place, those people to fend for themselves but tax them into poverty.

We as people have to live better, want better, be better or we shall all perish from the hatred we place on one another for power and control over someone else life. Raise the children you bring into this world and stop worrying about the ones you haven’t birth unless you are asked to help. Cleaning someone else’s house when yours is filthy is stupid, overbearing, overwhelming, disrespectful, disgusting, and immoral.

I have a feeling that one day but hopefully soon we’ll all get it. Until then live your life because we don’t know when yours will end trying to run and take on someone else’s.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Catch Up

Goddess morning Royals 👑. Give praise and worship to the all High.

Let’s see, my granddaughter (the Princess) was super star 🌟 two weeks in a row in school. My young King is thriving in French Parlay Vu français), English II, and Algebra II. My elder King is making great stride in all he is doing, painting, drawing, drumming, keyboarding. My Queen was giving a promotion and a raise; brought a new house and car. As for me learning new things, single (husband and I are through), still trying to finish my degree. Yeah, I know it’s taking a while but when you’re paying out of pocket, taking your time is all you can do. Plus, I thought my marriage was going to last forever, but forever was short lived. You know my motto: I can’t be your everything and you be your nothing! It’s just that simple! I can’t love a man for the both of us, because I’ll fall short every time on loving me.

Well that’s our update, what’s yours?

On to everything else; Baltimore has 43 new cases of COVID-19 reported. Until it’s none is when I believe we are doing better but until then, I’m OK if I don’t interact. More children, children and men are missing from here as well as getting killed. Violence is still up with no signs of coming down unless poverty sees to exists, violence will still be a factor. Drugs are still being pushed as well as gambling with the lies that’s funding for schools is there.

The presidential election is bullshit as well as both candidates. While 45 claims COVID, rednecks are threatening black America again. Lawd when will there ever learn we just want equality, we don’t care who’s there to give it to us! We do want them to know we’re not our ancestors though. #Facts

They are the updates I have for now! If I remember more I’ll post more, but will return to my regular schedule posts Sunday. Stay blessed

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday Let’s Talk Life With Lady K

Goddess afternoon Royals 🤷🏾‍♀️🙏🏾. First give praise and worship to the all High.

When you down play yourself as well as your people, how can anyone take you serious?

If you don’t believe in the cause, then you have to believe in the people. If not then you cannot believe there is a cause. This is why the people won’t support you nor your cause because you don’t believe in the movement. In order to move forward we have to connect, believe, unite, and grow as one. If not we fail as a whole. Don’t believe just because I’ve makes it we all made it. That’s not true, especially if that person doesn’t believe in #unity!

Without the people their no growth.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Have you ever had a dream so vivid you thought it was real? When you woke from it, you were filled with so much fear you didn’t know what to do?

I have them all the time. I avoid the actions by not doing anything in the dream. Sometimes in my dreams they are nightmares that shakes me from my slumber with bruises. Those are the worst but they aren’t usually about me but family and friends. I immediately check on them because of how vivid the nightmare was and the end results aren’t always good. Some want me to go into details and others tell me not to tell them a thing, they rather be surprise, even if it is death.

This morning I was shaken from a nightmare of me, my son and my two dogs. So I guess we won’t be taking no trips together anytime soon.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Forgiving Friday – Can You Forgive?

Goddess morning Royals 👍🏾. First give praise and worship to the all High.

As people we have done some cruel, hateful, misguided, uncertain, disgusting things to one another, but the question is can you forgive! More importantly can you move on from the pain, hurt, mental anguish, misleading behavior, that you suffered through or unleashed on someone?

It is hard but until there is at an ounce of forgiveness, you still suffer. If it is in the past leave it there because it can and will destroy your future. If that isn’t who you want to be, then self heal like you allow the hate to manifest. Start to recover for you and only you. Trust me, you are the one that is suffering the most! That person(s) might feel guilty or not but you are the one suffering by holding onto it.

Give that negative energy away and move on. Send it away from you so you can start to heal. It is a process and will take time but little by little get rid of it until it’s no longer controlling you. It’s no longer hindering you from doing positive things, until it’s no longer your burden to bare. Let it go so you can no longer be anyone’s hostage or captive for what they done to you. Move on!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Are You Insecure?

Goddess morning Royals ✌🏾. First give praise and worship to the all High.

I was told that women are the most insecure creatures on the planet! I can’t agree but I also can’t disagree. I’m neutral in this whole debate, but I have witnessed insecurities on both sides.

Men say they are secure but talk about their manhood and their walls go up as well as they hands. They are just as emotional as women but refuse to admit, reason most are depressed, confused, closet gays, childish, irresponsible, always defensive.

Yes, I know women are insecure and it’s lots of reasons why but some deal with it and others cover it up. You have women who haven’t accepted themselves for who they are and will never accept themselves unless it is spoken into existence. For example women wear makeup, weaves, wigs, tight revealing clothes, false nails and eyelashes, high heels (for most not all), etc, all to get a mans attention. Because, there are such slim choices to pick from, it becomes a competition. Men think it’s because of them but it’s because women are natural competitors. We are very territorial about what we believe is ours and will not allow another woman to play our role, even if we messed up. We will own up to our shit but with an excuse behind it to secure what dignity we have left.

This isn’t how men act or react when their manhood of being questioned. They will deny life until the end if they have to. They will not put themselves on the chopping block if they can help it. They confess to nothingbut rubber stamp what they believe is theirs. A boy will deny, question, or renounce his child before giving up his player’s card. He will take his truth to the grave but live in his lie just to stay face in his manhood. They too are insecure in their manhood, covering up being broke by breaking the bank to flash a car, wear the latest fashion, look like money when they don’t have any. They rather take from one another than to build up one another same thing for women. Why?

Insecurities! So don’t come tell me about someone else’s problems, tell me about yours then we can get somewhere. Tell me about your flaws, your self hate, your dislikes, gossip about yourself then we can have a discussion.

Know your insecurities before you put others down about theirs!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove