Wednesday – Get Through It

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

You don’t need to get over every hump sometimes you need to get through it. If every Wednesday you need to rush to get over it and when things happens on that day you can’t remember because all you wanted to do is get over it. Take some time and get through it and maybe something good will come out of getting through and not over. It isn’t always about getting to the end of the week as fast as you can. Sometimes it has to be about living in the best week of your life and if all you want to do is rush through it then you might just be missing out on life.

It doesn’t take much to want to know what the hell is going on in your own life. Not all of it can be bad! At least you have a job and a home to come to when your hump day is over. Think about this some people don’t have that and they wish they had what you have. So while you are rushing to over the hump some is wishing they had a hump to get over and for other that hump isn’t pleasant at all. Their complaints are yours, just not wanting to be at work, or can’t want to get home so you can rest. Some just want to be able to eat, and drink, a shower would be nice and be able to have a choice of where to order or eat from is a far fetched dream.

The roses will not always be there to smell so while you have the time you need to stop and just smell on them. It could be this Wednesday that you want to hurry up and leave so that you can get to Friday, which in fact could be a shitty day and you wish it was Wednesday so you can do it over again. So don’t just hump on this day make something of it and get through it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove.

Timeless Tuesday! Appreciating What You Have

Goddess evening Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Listen not all lost is bad as well as not all gain is good. People believe that if they lost something or someone that they are losing which isn’t true, but thing that if they have gain something that they are winning. I can tell you that isn’t always the case. Sometimes it is the opposite of what it is. Let’s see if I can help make a lost timeless as well as a gain the opposite.

Do you feel like a winner when you have lost your money to someone or an casino knowing that it was greatly needed? No you feel like an ass for losing and tell yourself that you aren’t going to do that again. Do you feel like a looser when you have lost a boyfriend/girlfriend that you found out was using you the whole time or that you were their side piece. No you feel like you won in a sense but lost because you wasted all that time on that person. Well, if you are no longer carrying the weigh of that person’s problems, bad habits or mess on your shoulders then I believe that is a win. Take the time that you lost on that person as a lesson that you had to learn becauses if you didn’t then you would still be in class getting played. Take that lesson of losing your money as a rehabilitation that gambling is not for you and you shouldn’t play with the money you already have. Not everyone was born to gamble and win, some was meant to gamble and lose so that they an learn the lesson of not gambling.

Honestly, you take a chance everyday with life and if they aren’t destroying you within or otherwise you have to learn to be grateful for them. You have to learn to appreciate what you have in order to get more of what you want or need. If your greed out weigh you knowledge and appreciation then you will lose every time. When learning lesson pay attention to the end results so that you will not repeat them if they are of lost and not of gain. If you gain something bad from it then maybe you shouldn’t tried to so hard to get it. It simply mean that it wasn’t meant for you from the start. Don’t worry we all have been there getting played for some of us it has been worse and for other just enough. it is nothing to be ashamed of, but if you are still doing it then you shouldn’t be ashamed because you have made getting played your way of living. You have learn to adapted to feeling like shit and worthless that you believe that it is how love is.

If while getting played you contracted a disease and you chose to still stay because it wasn’t as bad as it could have been then you will get worse. The mere fact that you accepted that as a gain mean you don’t know what a lost is. When you found out you should have questioned yourself and took the answer on you should have got the cure and then cancelled his/her ass. When you continued on you let them know it was okay to walk all over you and that you are willing to accept their bullshit. The cure was the gain the disease was the lost. Sometimes there is no cure so don’t go back just to find out if you can contract more disease your heart and body deserves more.

I know there are so many winning and losing situations in the world but you have to know what is a win for you and a lose. If you just accept life and move on as it is then you are losing because is so much out there to win then again there is so much out there to lose. When you do more for yourself and less for others you will find out how much you are winning and gaining and how much you have lost. They too will know how much the lost when they don’t have you to fall back on as well as take care of them. You need to learn what love really is and what is just lust.

Learning your worth for your and understand your worth to them is a timeless moment because find yourself and understand your purpose in your like as well as other’s life.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Manic Monday! Yes, It Showed Up Again

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

No matter how many times you get angry and or upset, it is going to keep coming. Every week it will come just like that Friday you can’t wait to come, or that Wednesday because they said you all were having a big meeting referencing “promotions.”

So saulk now, have fit, throw whatever you want, but deal with it. You have shit to do today. I have a great idea instead of hating Mondays how about accepting them because aren’t going away unless you perish before it arrived then you don’t have to do with them ever again. I just want you to know in your absence they are still coming for everyone else. Monday is just a way to let you know you made it through a crazy otherwise dangerous weekend. You know that give the second chance you may not have made it out of. You escaped death, jail or an accidental suicide that someone would have left your ass to your demise. So stop with the “I hate Mondays blues” and get the fuck out there and handle Monday like you handled that weekend.

Facts are that in six days if you survive them you will see it again. You can make Mondays exciting, a great start to an awesome week and a even better weekend. First, you have to get the fuck up and enjoy life because it is too short to keep hating it just because it is a Monday. I only call it manic because everyone hates it, even me sometimes, but I make it my Bitch and own it so that I can get through it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday, Let's Talk Food With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We all like sweets but sometimes sweets aren’t good for us. We need to allow our bodies to dispose of the junk and waste we put into out systems. We need to flush it out and I didn’t know that a lot of people didn’t like drinking water. That is amazing to me because our bodies need water. So I am going to share a snack or two with you all since we all like sweets.

Cake

  • 1 pkg. yeast
  • 1/4 cup honey
  • 1 cup water
    • To activate yeast, add the following combination of ingredients:
  • 1 cup whole wheat flour
  • 1/2 cup wheat germ
  • 2 tbsp almond butter
  • 3 tbsp water
  • 1/2 cup unbleached white flour
  • 1/2 tsp sea salt
  • 1 tbsp sesame butter
  • 1/4 cup honey
    • Combine ingredients and mix with honey and water then dissolve yeast in ingredients. Pour combined liquid into dry ingredients immediately and lightly mix. Pour into a greased and floured cake pan. Let stand in warm place for approximately 20 minutes. Balte at 400* for 10 minutes, then 350* for 15-20 minutes.

Granola Peanut Butter

  • 6 cups oats, cocoanut, flour, nuts seeds
  • 1/3 cup honey
  • 1/3 cup spring water
  • 1/4 cup peanut butter
  • 1 tsp vanilla
  • 1 tsp sea salt
  • 1/4 cup almond butter
    • Combine and blend liquids in blender. Mix with dry ingredients. Bake at 275* for 2 hours, stir occasionally to assist it being evenly toasted.

Play with the ingredients as you desire but remember to eat and enjoy a healthier lifestyle.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday – Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We all live in a community, but do we all live as a community. The answer will be no. We have to know our community leaders and what plans they have for our community and how they plan on help us improve our community.

Speak to your community leaders and ask them questions about events for the community, suggest events that you feel will better your community. Don’t just think that they have the answers. Attend community meetings and if you aren’t sure where they are held or who’s in charge, ask those questions first. Every community should have an association or leaders who assist with things needed in the community or assistance with people in the community. They should be able to provide you with assistance or give you information on where to go to get it if you they don’t provide a specific.

If there is none for your community go to your local church and ask questions of how they deal with the community. Go to local stores and ask them the same thing. Go to the city and find out how to get a community association going for your community. Remember though it isn’t just for your block, it is for your community. Find out the radius of your community and walk it, take notes of the things that you see that is wrong or need to change in your community. Get to know who lives in your community because you may have a great support system but them themselves may not have known how to get things going as well. We cannot rely on others to make our community a better place it starts with the people who live in those communities to help themselves and then others will show interest.

Get those unwanted intruders out of your community. Rid your community of infestation. Help your elderly live longer and teach the young manners and respect. Show the elected officials you care about your community even when they don’t. Revitalize your community and make jobs available where they weren’t before. Pay someone to keep grass cut; rake leaves; clean the sidewalks, back alleys; place trash cans on the corners for those passing through. If they see your neighborhood is clean they will try to keep it that way. Keep abandon houses up so vagrants believe someone live there and will not want to do more damage to them. A clean and beautiful neighborhood is a healthy and thriving neighborhood.

Better communities plus better communication equals better life for all who lives there. #GetInvolved #VillageCry

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – Is Your Sex Life Better Than Your Relationship?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I only asked because well some of you are living a lie. Some of you are living with someone and saying you love them based off of great sex but the relationship is hell. You fight constantly, arguing has become communication, cheating is a sign or avoidance, and sex is the apology. I mean if it wasn’t for the great sex you wouldn’t even consider giving this person a second look. You would treat her/him like a homeless person who you know isn’t homeless and pass them by. You would rather feed a stray dog then to share a meal with them. So is your sex life better than your relationship?

You want out so bad but you are afraid that someone else will get that good ass loving and you will end up with a good relationship but bad sex. I know you sound stupid. If you don’t get away from all that toxic bullshit and get into a better environment so you can live longer, and feel better about your mind, body, and spirit. You have been living in this toxic mess way too long, because you believe that this is love. I know you know better but your body is now in control of your mind. You have no feelings in your heart because your pussy/dick is now the brain of your vessel. You are loving from the wrong place and well that isn’t good at all. Stand up for yourself and allow yourself the life that is worthy of all of you. You don’t have to live like this just because, you are afraid. I think it is more so diseases and the fear of rejection than it is of great sex. I think you have made up in your mind that this person is safe and you know sexually this person in and out, but if you both are cheating then maybe you don’t. You are risking it all if you both are out exploring other people just to come back and give each other what you long for.

I see, if you both know it is bad sex out there then you must be made for one another because the sex between you two is great. Well I can tell you it is all in your head. It isn’t as great as you believe it is just you feel safe and comfortable with this person. You felt comfortable just a few hours, days, or weeks ago with someone else because if you didn’t then you wouldn’t have been able to have sex with someone else. What makes it even worse is that you did it raw! Now if that isn’t the scariest thing you ever done then I don’t what is!

Try this getting to know someone else and maybe just maybe you will find out that you have been living a lie and now you can be free and live better. First, get to know them and then have sex with them. I bet you will change your mind about going back to that toxic sexual mess.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove