Welcome 2021 Happy New Year

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Let’s start by leaving 2020 in the rear view mirror, driving a far as we can into 2021. We’re not even going to talk about the horror of 2020; the lives loss, the battles, the ongoing lies, the manipulation, the deception, the secrets nor the hidden agendas we had to face as a world 🌎.

What we are going to talk about is how we’re not going for the same bullshit, debauchery, lies🤥 nor deception from last year. We are going to standup and be heard! You cannot put us in a trick bag twice and say we were just teasing you. Haha the joke is over! 😡 We are fed up with just being told what you want us to know we want the truth. Media stay the fuck out of it with the lies you help cover up! If you aren’t going to keep it real find another profession because we’re digging deep into the asses of those who make fools of voters, tax payers but need us.

We will no longer be with people who wants to be left the hell alone. Well be alone we have bigger fish 🐠 to catch and fry! Go ahead with all you whining but know this the boy who cried Wolf 🐺 only ended up being food. So sit around and allow yourself to be bait but the rest of us are becoming hunters. We want the truth, facts, evidence, and we want it now!

You say people can’t handle the truth well we say it’s because you only know how to lie! Elected officials, husbands, wives, children, cousins, uncles, aunts, etc., we aren’t going for it no more; either come clean or get the fuck out our way because we want the #Truth!

Happiness, better living, togetherness, better economy and life is the goal for 2021. Enough with the destruction, depopulation, dehumanization, the insanity, poverty, hatred, violence, racism, separation, etc., bull!

People today you have to think for yourselves! Today you have to find out if you are who you know you are or who they want you to be! 2021 Let’s be better than yesterday, literally! Praying for financial healing, growth, prosperity! Praying for those who suffer in depression, mental illness, depleting health, emotions distress, anxiety, heart ache, and loss of a love one. I pray your soul is healed by the #almighty and your faith is restored in humanity!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday Let’s Talk Life With Lady K

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Are you living the life you wanted or just surviving in the life you have?

I only ask because I see a lot of couples getting married 👰🏾‍♀️🤵🏾‍♂️ and congratulations 🎉 🍾 to you all for doing so! Marriage can be a wonderful union as well as life time of pain. Don’t get me wrong 😑 I believe in love, life, laughter, and togetherness, but we as people lose a part of who we are to become who someone wants.

We compromise our life instead of negotiating our terms. Yeah I know you have to give to get, but for most we give but never get. We give up dreams only to lose our way and become complaisant. All High forbids that something should happen and we need skills to continue on without that significant other, then what? I see it all the time where men and women compromise themselves right into hate, resentment and a demeaning life.

Then they throw children in the mix of uncertainty, misery, and hatred thinking 🤔, hoping it fixes the problem/situation. Praying 🙏🏾 it brings back the love but not realizing it will only make matters worst. Now the children suffers and believe they are to blame. Here is where you start to bargain more than negotiate!

First you play the victim, I gave up this and that for you. You start to realize that you compromised yourself into this situation. Now you have started the hate game. What use to be love ❤️ is pure hatred and you know that you are to blame but you rather point fingers. Then comes the begging. Can we just talk about it? We really need to sit down and talk this through, but talking turns into yelling, screaming and no one is listening to the other.

Then the lies appears and so do infidelity but not one sided. Here it goes both parties put others into the mix. The women tells all her girl friends of her problems, because that what “girl friends” are for, correct? Wrong, they are not therapist and you shouldn’t use them as so, because not all is for you and not come with loyalty and not all wishes you joy and fairness, nor happiness. Envy is a hidden talent that only shows up when your walls are down. Your married business is between you and your husband not your friends. Once you open that door 🚪 there’s no way to close it! Don’t do it to yourself. Even another married woman happy or not is a plan for making your situation worst.

Men aren’t any better running to his homeboys telling all he can about his problems at home. The same man you swear will do you no harm is the same homeboy that will be sleeping in your bed, single or not. Don’t add gasoline to the fire and expect for the flames to die down. That same girl friend or homeboy will be the one giving you the advice to either leave them or cheat. They are the ones moving in where you are moving out.

As trifling as it sounds, is more trifling that you made it happen. Stop 🛑 sit down and write out your terms. Negotiate your terms from this point on. Let your significant other know your feelings, wants, needs, and most of all don’t compromise them anymore. If you want a baby negotiate the deal, a better career or just a different career negotiate your terms, a better marriage negotiate your terms! Believe or not there is always someone who will better fit the Bill if you go in knowing what you won’t settle for and what you are worth.

Don’t live in misery because you believe it’s better than nothing. There is really no such thing as nothing! There’s always something but it is what you make it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

There You Go Again Thursday!

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Why are we always the last to know, but the first to be right? They say one thing but as people we understand when we’re being lied to and how much of a lie we’re going to take.

We are in a unwanted relationship with the people we don’t associate with like the government, Facebook/INSTAGRAM owner, Twitter, Amazon but we do have a communication with voluntarily. We invite these people into our lives everyday but don’t question their reason for being there. We don’t even question our reason for the invite and don’t care. But let a person we know in real life be in our lives/business without an invite, personal or otherwise, then we care.

We will excuse them for sticking their nose where it’s not needed or volunteering their opinion where it wasn’t asked! Then turn around and tell all our business to Facebook/Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat. WhatsApp, Tumblrs even WordPress and welcome those opinions, sometimes debate our point of view like we care, but curse the person we know personally for their input.

There we go again not knowing who to trust, who to converse with or who to care for!

So don’t sit there reading this and say not me! We all do it because we leave out certain aspects of the conversation on those social media sites that will make us look like villains but for the person who know it all we can’t hide but so much from them so we Bitch at them for knowing the truth.

Then have the audacity to block them when they comment on our post because we wanted to ignore them in real life. Stop 🛑 thinking 🤔 that there is going to be a different story just because you left out somethings in your post. A lot of your followers have come to know of you through your post and will lay you out where you think they won’t. There you go again, needing to block people or delete people because they don’t make you look good to the other readers. Get a life and learn to deal with your own bullshit and leave others to theirs. If you really need the opinions of others start with the ones who really know you. If they really care they will give it to you raw while letting you know the truth, if you just want to feel good about yourself no matter the truth or not, then keep falsely advertising yourself on social media.

Either way you are the only one who really have to deal with the issue/situation first hand. No matter what anyone thinks of you the only that matter is what you think of yourself and can you live with who you are, have become, or will be afterwards.

Don’t allow others to dictate who you are by way of their perception of you. If you know who you are then take their advice into consideration but not at heart. Don’t ask if you really don’t want the truth!

If all you want is lies then that’s the life you will live and who will be able to live with you in a lie? Think about it if it was the other shoe on the other foot would you live with someone who only lives in lies?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday Let’s Talk Rap With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First give praise and worship to the all High.

This is something I don’t usually share but I believe that Busta would be the winner in this battle.

https://youtu.be/Mukzdd7bcPM

https://youtu.be/tbqOduMuU6U

It’s no way TIP can win. Busta is a beast master at rap. I can’t take nothing from that man when it comes to rap. He is truly a lyrical genius. A lyricist in his thoughts and tongue process. TIP can rap don’t get me wrong but not on the level of Busta so I understand him not want to take the rap verzus challenge.

Now moving on with some other news about Jay Z and LL Cool J mix in with a little KRS One that been going on for years. This beef (problem) to me shouldn’t have never happened but it is what it is. Hope they can one day come to the table and destroy it.

Just like Busta this man right here is a MC LYRICIST and he kills in his words. KRS ONE will always be one of my top 10 favs but right now here explains his side of the story on the madness of “beefs.”

Fat Joe’s interview segments allow the artist to tell you from their own mouth what is real and what isn’t real. Leaving no doubt or disputes of fabrication or lies from he said/she said bullshit. Get it from the mouth of the person him/herself.

I love watching his show and support it hundred percent 💯. Keep #HipHop alive #JoeyCrack 🖤

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Thursday – Childhood Memories

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Growing up in a poverty stricken city with eight siblings and unlimited cousins was fun and depressing. Fun because there were unlimited people to play with, talk to, cry with, laugh with, be around to bond with; depressing because we were poor.

Somehow we didn’t let that stop us from growing up with love in our heart and determination in our drive. We were always a close bunch for most of us anyway. We did have a few who was distant mentally but not physically. In a three bedroom row home that is quite difficult, sometimes thinking was even crowded. Still we managed to have a childhood. We played in the streets like children were supposed to but with supervision. We played hopscotch, catch on catch all, hide and go seek, tag, freeze tag, double dutch, block ball and even played in the fire hydrant water on days it was extremely hot. But most of all we had a childhood, we were children at best.

For some of us we didn’t know where our next meal was coming from but with the friends we had we shared just because we didn’t. When someone has food we all had food, same for candy. We were a community before we knew what that really meant. We stay over one another homes, broke bread with each other’s families and when someone passed the whole neighborhood felt the loss. Still we had a childhood.

We loss childhood friend at young ages to violence, to fires, to lack of parenting, to missing and exploited children. We loss a lot but gain somethings as well. We learned to look out for one another more. We created without knowing the buddy system because we weren’t sure of individuals moving into the neighborhood. We fought together as well as amongst ourselves. We somehow manage to put petty things behind us and still have a childhood.

We danced and sung at block parties. We kept our neighborhood clean. We looked out for our younger siblings as well as our elderly. We ran errands for those who couldn’t as well as for those who shouldn’t. We were children preparing for adulthood without knowing that what we were doing.

We learned to make market early on in life. We learned to wash clothes before we could purchase them ourselves. We learned the value of a dollar as well as life from just being children growing up in our neighborhood together. We watched drugs come in and destroy lives unable to do anything about it. We watched families being torn apart from these drugs. We watched people lives being taken over these drugs. Our childhood was gone and adulthood moved in quickly and for some of us faster than we expected.

Now children these days have no idea what being a child is like because their childhood is taken early and too often. Parents allow your children a childhood don’t rush then they will get there when it’s their time!

Sending you all love and kisses. #Goddesslove

Timeless Tuesday! Oh The Smart Phone

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Experiencing some back problem even though you exercise all the time. Don’t know where it’s coming from, doctors a little clueless 🤷🏾‍♀️as well. I think I know the problem!

We all have smart phone and the majority of the time we are face deep in them but in what position? Head down sitting; on your side in bed curled up, back arched. Yeah that’s the problem we don’t realize that even though we exercise and do all we do, we spend most of our time with our heads down in arched positions, lingering off to the side, braced upon our hand, across a table, etc, so our bodies are confirming to those positions which they aren’t use to. Now we’re experiencing back and neck pains.

Well here’s the thing we are going to have to find something else to do instead of #Facebook, #Youtube #Instagram #Snapchat #Twitter #DatingWebsites or anything that keeps your head down even reading a book. If you read with your head down well you are going to need a new way to do it because you are not doing our bodies any good.

Chiropractors are in full business and we are their business. Physical therapist are in need of chiropractic care because they too are hunched over in their phones. We are bored and tired of being quarantined but we can’t damage ourselves to end up in a hospital 🏥 and willingly catch Covid.

Post and no matter how many likes you think you are going to get don’t sit there for hours to see. You got to find something else to do or spend hundreds of dollars to see a chiropractor 👨🏾‍⚕️. It’s going to be hard for the hardcore #texters as well as #posters but I think we can sit tall and stand straight again.

What do you say?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Now I’m sharing this but do you own research on it and know what is going on.

They will take it down so try to get as much from it as possible.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! A Hug 🤗

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

I remember back then, not so long ago when a hug 🫂 use to mean something. Now social distancing has made a hug 🤗 a scared affection (infection). This gesture was warming and welcoming, but now it’s a warning ⛔️ sign that you are too close.

I remember when an embrace made you feel loved, wanted, needed, and appreciative. When a hug was comforting to a broken heart, or lonely soul. When a touch could brighten anyone’s day, change someone’s feelings, console and help fight back those tears.

When a hug and a pat or rub on the back meant it’s going to be alright. Meant I’m here for you for whatever you need, I’m here. The cycle has been broken, the healing has gone, and people are in need of some healing, consoling, attention, and understanding, but they also live in fear of catching this man-made pandemic virus 🦠.

Children who are affectionate aren’t sure why they can’t hug their friends, be around other children like they use to be. They aren’t sure but they do know how to say Corona Virus, even though they don’t get it. They understand death to a point of the person not being around any longer but not the depth of the loss. For children and family who loss a love one to violence this mandemic is taking a larger toll on them because they need to be console, a hug, a pat on the back, closeness, comfort, and love.

I can’t tell you what to do but I can’t ask you what will you do? This world suffers in more than one way because of this pandemic 😷 man has caused. I just wish someone would have hugged the ones responsible and maybe, just maybe we all would have been in a better position to hug the world 🌍. Unity is broken 😡 so is humanity; spirit and love 💗. So today I am sending you all a huge virtual hug 🫂 because somewhere someone needs one or more. 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂. Send someone one to let the world know someone cares enough to say it’s going to be alright with love 🖤.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoodLove

Missing Monday! A Phone Call Or Something

Goddess morning Royals. First give praise and worship to the all High.

#COVID, #Life, #Protest, #Murder, #Ambush, #Health #Love

Just some of the reasons to check on love ones, friends, family, co-workers, neighbors. Not all is strong, not all is weak, some are very vulnerable, scared, unable to cope, miserable, and terrified. A lot of people live in fear everyday all before Covid hit. Most people have a nonchalant attitude about life and use it to create fear on those who believe in love, life, happiness and peace.

Why I’m not sure but it makes for a horrible time right now. Not saying it’s not always horrible to be nonchalant about life but in this crisis we as a nation is facing, it more despicable. We would like to think that people of all color, race, creed, nationality would be understanding, willing, reliable but they aren’t. A lot of people are selfish and the wicked we learn who they are they quicker we can avoid, remove and settle without them in our lives. You know the ones you comes to your house unannounced, without a mask on! Be the same people who comes to dinner without anything in the hands to offer and with a plus one or more. The same people who comes to the cookout to eat or any function and cause trouble, spread rumors, decrease peace and insert violence, then leave like a thief in the night.

The toxic people are the problem the ones that create hostility in your home and then expect you to kiss ass to make it better. Their misery is comfortable as long as there is chaos. Silence is too much for them to bare and hatred is the fruit of their labor. They only know joy when there is malice behavior in play.

We play into these people hands because we love and care for them. We want what’s best for them but in return they give us their ass to kiss. We stay focused on them so much that we ignored those who is in need of our attention. Those who is in fear of this pandemic. Those who live in hostile neighborhoods where racism, hatred, violence and gun play is a daily norm. Those who are elderly and isn’t sure if they are loved anymore. Those who want company but isn’t sure if it safe to even open a window to let in fresh air. Those at risk unhealthy people with underlined health problems who otherwise need care, but fear has taken over. Those who are frighten by medical care from jump who refuse to allow doctors to look them over for annual checkups.

Please take time to check on them because they might need something from the store, market, pharmacy; someone to just say “hello, I was thinking about you.” Offer them what you can and you might be surprised your phone call, FaceTime, DM, Inbox might have been enough hope for them to continue on.

None of us know how long this is going to last or when a real cure and not some depopulation shit will end but to know we reached out as well as someone reached out to us is more than a lot of us could ask for in this situation. Be a hero to someone!

Check on those who have been missing from your life whether it’s through a post, call, letter, quick glance, or hello; because the missing might be dead, then you will feel less than what we all already feel like, alone!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday Let’s Talk Life With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Our children are so brainwashed that they believe they are naturally bad, ugly, unkind, but they have no idea they aren’t either. They are beautiful and naturally kind but they are subjective to thinking they are not good enough to be a part of society. The Clark test is the perfect example of brainwashing. Teach your children to love themselves and those who look like them, not to praise others for what they believe is better.

My children know there’s no inferior race above them.

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Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! I Remember!

Goddess afternoon Royals. First give praise and worship to the all High.

  • I remember loving him
  • I remember cooking for him
  • I remember cleaning for him
  • I remember living for him
  • I remember eating with him
  • I remember making love to him
  • I remember joking with him
  • I remember playing with him
  • I remember struggling without him while with him
  • I remember losing two babies behind him
  • I remember losing a Fallopian tube because of him
  • I remember almost dying because of him
  • I remember being lied to by him
  • I remember him leaving me

What I remember most is that I’m surviving without him. I’m better off without him and that I’m not going back to him for a repeat of being single in a relationship. Now I can make better memories but these ones are the ones that will keep me from those mistakes again. Don’t allow anyone your joy that doesn’t deserve it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Montage Monday! Putting It Altogether!

Goddess morning Royals 👑✔️. First give praise and worship to the all High.

We all want the big picture but can we handle it!

The truth is that if you look at all the little pieces that’s being put together in your life; then and only them will you see the big picture. He says he needs a ride or die and she accepts the challenge (job) becoming his woman. Not know of his history can make this statement realistic as hell and vice versa.

Knowing who you are make you less vulnerable to bullshit. So many women and children are dying at the hands of men because they are broken. They can’t understand why they are broken and seriously afraid of finding out why! Even more scared of ways to get fixed because of their reputations. They don’t want to seem weak but killing your family is the lowest sign of weakness there is to have.

Putting your ancestors history with your parents history and the things you’re facing will help you understand why, what, who, how and when…

  • When did my family first face the demons or have they ever faced the demons?
  • What horrible things did my ancestors and grandparents and parents have to endure?
  • Why were they treated so cruel and why am I carrying this hate, anger, and behavior pattern still?
  • Who can I talk to or trust to help me through this horror?
  • How can I better myself so I can help the next person (family) understands don’t have to be angry with each other anymore?

Knowing where you start and what you want to accomplish can help end the terror that still have us believing we are our worst enemy when that isn’t that case! There’s better out there all we have to do is reach one to teach one and unified as a whole. We can do it!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday Let’s Talk Life Into Existing With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Where or when have it become okay for anyone to discard a person like trash?

https://www.baltimoresun.com/news/crime/bs-md-ci-cr-woman-railroad-20200607-6fgf4gmskfbbhe4sy7f7zvfs5y-story.html

A disrespect for life, is terrible. We can’t survive as people when people have no respect for life whether it’s theirs or yours!

https://www.baltimoresun.com/maryland/baltimore-county/towson/cng-co-to-white-marsh-woman-identified-20201013-743kimebj5h6thzlzkse4a3tty-story.html

No one should be treated like trash. It’s a shame when people think so less of you to put you out like garbage.

When someone is out here looking for you and you aren’t nowhere to be found. Then https://youtu.be/A6MPM219ZKA

https://youtu.be/TSJZ92UflRU mother are missing, fathers being killed and babies are left to fend for themselves. https://youtu.be/egSJX7rHGIw

Why are we so quick to destroy those who birth us? Why are they so scared to care for us? We as a whole, people are broken! We need healing! We need help! We need unity! We need commitment! We need love! We need laughter because all we know is pain, suffering, destruction and hurt.

Stop destroying families because yours is broken. Ask for help to mend the holes and stitch together the love! We are tired, we are worried, we are weary, we are overwhelmed, we are bothered and we all need help, unity, a strong front and focus so what we can all grow as a stronger nation!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday Sit Down With Lady K

Goddess morning Royals 🤔. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Look at the lie for yourself!

The Pledge of Allegiance was written in August 1892 by the socialist minister Francis Bellamy (1855-1931). It was originally published in The Youth’s Companion on September 8, 1892. Bellamy had hoped that the pledge would be used by citizens in any country.

In its original form it read:

“I pledge allegiance to my Flag and the Republic for which it stands, one nation, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”

In 1923, the words, “the Flag of the United States of America” were added. At this time it read:

“I pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America and to the Republic for which it stands, one nation, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”

In 1954, in response to the Communist threat of the times, President Eisenhower encouraged Congress to add the words “under God,” creating the 31-word pledge we say today. Bellamy’s daughter objected to this alteration. Today it reads:

“I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation under #God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”

Section 4 of the Flag Code states:

The Pledge of Allegiance to the Flag: “I pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic for which it stands, one Nation under #God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”, should be rendered by standing at attention facing the flag with the right hand over the heart. When not in uniform men should remove any non-religious headdress with their right hand and hold it at the left shoulder, the hand being over the heart. Persons in uniform should remain silent, face the flag, and render the military salute.”

The original Bellamy salute, first described in 1892 by Francis Bellamy, who authored the original Pledge, began with a military salute, and after reciting the words “to the flag,” the arm was extended toward the flag.

At a signal from the Principal the pupils, in ordered ranks, hands to the side, face the Flag. Another signal is given; every pupil gives the flag the military salute — right hand lifted, palm downward, to a line with the forehead and close to it. Standing thus, all repeat together, slowly, “I pledge allegiance to my Flag and the Republic for which it stands; one Nation indivisible, with Liberty and Justice for all.” At the words, “to my Flag,” the right hand is extended gracefully, palm upward, toward the Flag, and remains in this gesture till the end of the affirmation; whereupon all hands immediately drop to the side.

The Youth’s Companion, 1892

Shortly thereafter, the pledge was begun with the right hand over the heart, and after reciting “to the Flag,” the arm was extended toward the Flag, palm-down.

In World War II, the salute too much resembled the Nazi salute, so it was changed to keep the right hand over the heart throughout.

The court says Oath: I swear that the evidence that I shall give shall be the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, so help me #God. Affirmation: I solemnly affirm that the evidence that I shall give shall be the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

Tell me where church and State is separate! I highlighted sections to prove a point it’s never been justice for all; never been a nation under #God and liberty is a joke but they want you to tell the truth! Tell them as soon as you do, I will! Then find you guilty of perjury for their doing, because you don’t believe in their lie either! #GTFOH

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – Are You Daring Enough?

Goddess morning Royals 👍🏾👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

I challenge all the couples to do something bold and exciting. Break the norm and do something new. It doesn’t matter if it is a new position in sex or trying oral for the first time.

How about lunch date at a secluded place for a quickly to release your stress of work. Remember to bring along the feminine wipes, listerein strips, as well as a brush to fix the hair. Quickies can be quite messy, 😂.

Maybe a dinner wherein you are the food as well as the dessert. Add a little spice to your life by going with it and not against it.

A bubble bath with lavender sent calming your room and heart, but putting you in the mood. Don’t have any boundaries tonight just a great imagination.

Remember the possibilities are endless as long as you both agree and are on the same page with the understanding that limitations only hinder happiness.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove