Goddess morning Royals đ. First give praise and worship to the all High.
I GET IT! I DO, I GET IT! You tried loved and your heart got broken. You still want love but arenât sure if you can do it again and go back through heartache and pain. You shield yourself from love while trying to find it. Honestly, that isnât right and is going to keep you from love. Itâs like trying to look for something in the dark with your eyes closed. Doesnât make sense right? Right!
But I get it, I swear I do! NO ONE WILL EVER PENETRATE YOUR HEART AGAIN ONLY TO BREAK IT AGAIN! Then Iâm sorry to say your not looking for love; youâre looking for sympathy, empathy, and lust but not love. Sure everyone who had their hearts broken could use some sympathy, lots of empathy and a good fuck to get over the ex. Are you really getting over them or just getting through the idea of them.
I mean you canât go looking for love with a closed heart and expect to find true love. First youâre not being true to yourself. A closed heart will find a lot of things but love isnât one of them. I GET IT. Shield your heart until I see that the other person cares (not love) for you and then open your heart. See there lies the problem, you canât want something that you arenât will to give. Sorry you are going to just have to take that chance and lead with an open heart so that love can find you. I know you donât want to get hurt but chances are you could be hurting yourself.
Faking a likeness to see if itâs love isnât finding love is finding lies, hurt, mistrust, empathy, unhappiness, and lust. Well youâre still getting laid and thatâs about it. Yeah you talk about your feeling and what your last relationship meant to you and how that person destroyed you but you arenât listening to your heart which is telling you to shut up! If you already out to scare away prospects then you will end up telling that story to a lot of people who can either empathize with you but doesnât want crazy already or those who could careless they just want the sex.
If sex leads the way to the heart then you will only have sex. Communication will be lost and so will the relationship then youâre right back where you started; broken hearted and hating life. Why is it that when our heart get broken the first thing out our mouths is how much we hate life? Life isnât the one who did something to us. We did! First we hear everything with our hearts and not with our ears. Then we stop listening altogether and just hear what we want and but is being said. Leading to poor communication, lack of attention, uncertainty, and worst of all pain.
If youâre not listening then youâll never know when youâre relationship ended and when that person walked out of your love, life, and happiness. All you will remember is that it was good to you, but never know how it was to the other person. You have to be conscientious about everything so you will know when something is gone wrong. If all you want is the idea of belonging in a relationship then thatâs what you will get, the idea. Relationships and love take time, work, communication, give as well as take but most of all listening. You talk but you donât listen and when you do hear you donât comprehend because you arenât listening.
So before you go out looking for love, know your worth; be ready to listen and communicate effectively. Know what you want and not what you see others with, because everything isnât for everyone. All attention isnât good attention with the best intentions. Stay positive but mostly open your mind, spirit and heart to new possibilities. The same way you donât want to be hurt no one else wants to be broken-hearted either.
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove