Timeless Tuesday! When Your Love Ones Are Bored

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Kane after Dre and London pronounced him the winner of the wrestling match.

This is what happened when boredom has set in completely. We are coping but it’s getting weird and the children are making the animals weird right along with them.

Classic moments is when we as a family can still deal so we’ll find new things to do.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Manic Monday! Violence With Pandemic Doesn’t Mix Well

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First give praise and worship to the all High.

The streets of Baltimore has once again proven to be suffering, relentless, withered with death, and hungry from poverty.

A weekend of beautiful skies, warm weather, and of course violence has filled Baltimore streets. The stay at home order doesn’t seem to work for the people of Baltimore or Maryland for no reason. I wish I could say it was just my people but it isn’t. I drove to the store to get my necessities and to my surprise people of all nationalities were roaming, gathering, and taking part in all sorts of activities. Yes the police was present, but not bothered.

A lot of people were out and about without mask, no social distancing practices were in place, sporting events were happening in the park. Cookouts was going on, funerals was happening as normal but most importantly, shootings and stabbings also was happening.

It’s was a violent weekend, everywhere I turned I saw police with tape up because of shootings, stabbings, car accidents, hit and runs. It was a weekend of hell because people were still dying of COVID-19 Coronavirus. I’m not sure about the rest of the world but Maryland is doomed if we don’t get ourselves together.

In my area zone 18 alone it was reported 20 shootings and stabbings back to back. If this is how the rest of the life I have is going to be I rather live in seclusion until my last breath. People aren’t thinking, they just know they are hungry, struggling, and need to feed their family. We get it but you’re not the only one. Of course you can only think about you and yours but killing someone’s family member isn’t going to make your home no better.

I get it, times are the hardest they ever been, but stealing a life isn’t the way. When you take a life, you take away their support, love, happiness, make a void, supply then with anger, and so the process starts. For your act against their family now someone must retaliate for their loss one and so the genocide never ends. The violence continues and the innocent people pay the price; cost of funerals, loss of life, pain and suffering, hate, restless night, terrifying days, deteriorating health and thoughts of revenge.

Please people help one another stop destroying each other for pennies they throw at us. If I have two dollars you are welcome to one. Now we both have shared wealth! You don’t have to kill me for it all, because if it’s that important you can have them both for my life. It means more than money!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday Sit Down With Lady K

Goddess evening Royals πŸ‘‘. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Tonight is family night, wherein we played games, ate homemade pizza, spaghetti, turkey burgers, chicken salad, fried cabbage, potato salad, baked fish, and lots more. Celebrated life and honored the deceased. We watched movies, played cards, told the children of their past and asked them about their presence and future.

It wasn’t as many siblings as I have but who could come is who we have fun with. I know these times are scary and so I respect their decision. When we were finished we made plans to meet again within a month.

We sanitized the house, took showers, brushed and rinsed our mouths and went bed with smiles on our faces. #QualityTimeNeeded

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – Grievance

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

They say in order to grieve you must have to things, a heart and love. Just because you have a heart doesn’t mean you love; and just because you love doesn’t mean you have a heart!

Don’t mistake one for the other and don’t think that everyone can be both. Some people love from the head and not from the heart; it’s called obsession. Wherein they only think they are in love and become possessive of you. Then those who have a heart may love but not sure how to express it.

People with hearts feel and grieve because they have love within them. The grieving process is different for everyone and what’s weird and very disturbing is a person who loves from the mind grieve but with anger as their hurt and revenge as their healing process. If you’re suffering who make another suffer more. You know the feeling and wish that upon someone, then yes you are a monster. The grief period is where comfort is needed not hurt and revenge for more pain and suffering.

I’m hurting, grieve, mourning, suffering, restless, fatigue, slowly dying inside but I don’t wish this on anyone. This demon I will face with my family behind me but I will face it head-on. I will not cover it up, bury it, block out out, pretend I’m not hurting, not will I reduce myself to death. I will cry, laugh, engage with others, remember them, love them continuously, speak of them aloud, dance to their favorite songs, sing their praises, reminisce on the life they lived for they were a part of my life and I am grateful to have loved and known them.

Thank you for sharing in a part of my grieving process.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Mine Is; Is Yours?

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Mother’s Day turned out good for me. I spend most needed quality time with my children and we spoke on our loss as well as our feelings. I smiled and cried, laughed and sat in silence. I listened as well as poured out my heart and soul. We ate seafood, pasta, chicken, spaghetti and drunk wine. We came together and we all needed it.

Today I wake from a long over due night of blissful sleep. My heart is still heavy but hurt less. My mind calm but worry like a matriarch is supposed to. My emotions are at easy with patience and understanding. Not fully transformed but at least it’s a start. Dealing with the issue instead of covering it up keeps me from becoming a patient at the nearest hospital.

Thankful for the family I have even if we all don’t see eye to eye but at least we do take into consideration feelings and opinions. We are outside ourselves that we are above the love and live given to us. I love my family; they are my timeless memories and moments.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Manic Monday! A Catch-22 “Damned If They Do & Damned If They Don’t

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Where do you stand in it all? Where are your morals and values on these facts?

Parents are held responsible for the action of their children. Those who teach morals and values as well as those who doesn’t teach at all. When they are punished; then the parents are wrong but as soon as they aren’t, the parents should have done better. The system gets them and the parents are looked upon as bad parents, but as soon as the parents are whopping (whipping) ass then they are condemned as child abusers. Make up your mind do you want parents to do their job or not. Damned if their do; damned if they don’t! A catch-22

I’m bias and neutral when it comes to police only because some aren’t there at all to protect and serve; but to inflict racism, pain, suffering and misery on others. Still when they do their job then they are recognize as heros and good service men and women. W

hen it is malicious they should be punished, correct? Well they aren’t they are still recognize as good service men and women unless they are black. Talk about unfair practices! A justifiable shooting is doing their job but is it always justifiable? They are taught to taser a person to subdue them and bring them to justice, correct? Malice police aren’t doing that they are making it bad for those who really protect and serve. So now everyone who is black looks at the police as racist or uncle Tom’s. No one is certain of anyone’s motives any longer nor their mentality when they put on that uniform and badge. The life of any service person is a catch-22 and yes they are damned for their actions, choices, decisions and those who they work for and with; based on creed, nationality, and race.

We all know it and we all survive it, but not all hate living it. Discrimination is real and the reality of it all is we all are capable of it; living in it and surviving it everyday. This is the way of the World, deal with it or do something about it!

Sending you all love and kisses. # GoddessLove

Sunday Let’s Talk Food With Lady K

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First give praise and worship to the all High.

TO ALL MY BEAUTIFUL, SASSY, SEDUCTIVE, CLASSY, STRONG, INDEPENDENT, HARD WORKING, SPANNTASTIC, EDUCATED MOTHERS. HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY FOR 365 DAYS THIS YEAR. . BECAUSE 1 DAY DOESN’T DEFINE WHAT WE REAL MOTHERS DO. SO KEEP DOING A GREAT JOB AND IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO IS OR HAS FALLING WASTESIDE PICK HER UP AND SHOW HER A DIFFERENT WAY… BECAUSE WE ARE AND NEED TO CONTINUE TO BE THE VILLAGE. .. AMEN
LOVE YALL ALL… ENJOY YOUR YEAR!!

Cook all your favorites or allow your family and love ones to cook you dinner. Allow others to treat you the way you have treated them all these years.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove