The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Closing Argument

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

In the beginning of this book I asked three questions and they were as follows:

  1. If all men are created equally then why is it that Black Men are born with 2 strikes against then and others aren’t?
    • Because all men cannot be created equally for the simple fact we are Gods and Goddesses descended from our ancestors and because we have such they prefer we don’t know of it so they continue to try to brain wash us into believe we are less than, unworthy, even ape who have been evolved. 
    • Well that is all lies to keep us from taking our rightful places are the rulers of this planet.  Therefore, they keep us from growth and unity to prevent a natural takeover.
    • They will even have you believe it is just of this country but it is all over this world. 
    • They will make you believe that you aren’t worth the sweat that your ancestors bleed to build what is not their but rightfully yours.  
  2. If all men are created equally then why is it that only Black or black people walked around with a tree on their backs or died by the hands of society?
    • Because they couldn’t allow you all to find out the truth, of your natural birth rights.
    • This is why they beat their beliefs into your ancestors so they can spread their lies, and hate into your psyche as your history.
    • They refused to be lied to any longer and demanded the truth and freedom. 
      • If they all man are created equal then why were they slaves in the first place?  Because all man is not created equal it’s all lies to get you interested in their other lies, they have to tell you.  We are not their equal; we are their SUPERIORS and they know it so they have to create lies to embed into your psyche for you to continue to fall victim to their mayhem.
  3. If all men are created equally then tell me why all men weren’t chosen to rise after death?
    • Just more lies for you to listen and pay attention to them while they pull the rabbit out of the hat. 
    • They learn new tricks every day to confuses you and shield you from the truth, that you are the true Rulers of this planet.
    • Why would they tell you a story of Black men who made a comeback so you can have hope?
      • That would just make you strong so why not give it to one man and not all men. They needed you to praise then and worship them and so we all did.  When they already knew that we were the Gods and Goddesses. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Segment 5.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

F – Friendships are far and few

A – Alliances formed are forever.

C – Consequences are inevitable when you cross the line.

T – Teaching you what true friendship is will be my pleasure.

Don’t call yourself a friend and be the first person to talk behind my back.  Loyalty isn’t two-faced.  The person you put your trust in is, however you can always take back your trust.  Honesty, isn’t a word it is an action, committed by those who love you.  It honestly hurts when they are definitely doing it an injustice, if it doesn’t then truly you don’t know honesty.  Truth is most people can’t see the truth because they are blinded by lies.  They can’t see it because they want so bad to believe in the person lying directly to them.  People trust is far too generous for them to be strong enough to see lies when they are damn near hand written in black and white.  A façade is just that a lie.  By time the truth comes out you are so emotionally destroyed that you can’t distinguish the difference.  Now that’s a damn shame!

Life at this point is straight cruel and your soul is the punishment.

You will be more than happy to pay attention so you will not be punished.  You have to live with double the trouble if you decided to go against the hand of life.  This is why you are offered both hands and not one.  Like I said closed covered or dangerous.  The choice is yours.   While I’m on the subject of reconnecting the family bond in the household let’s get to an important matter that seem to be escaping some households. 

Let me add this because I know you all say that it is a phase that these children and all children go through but this should not be either.  Hygiene is so serious that it shouldn’t be taken lightly.  When black people don’t take care of their personal hygiene it starts to become routine and become performance habits.  So, if you start them off right as babies there is no way they are going to be argumentative when they know this is a daily routine. 

Ladies teach these young ladies that they inner is a trap for most diseases without sex.  It has a natural moisture to it so if it doesn’t breathe it will suffocate and bacteria will form within it.  Giving them yeast infections, bacterial infections, Chlamydia, and all sorts of things. Change those panties linings every time you go to the bathroom to reduce moisture on top of moisture.  Washing and keeping those parts that stay closed in all day is a necessity.  You know arm pits, vaginas, under the breast, and most of all brush your mouth.  I can’t express that enough.  A clean mouth is a healthy mouth.

As for you men, change those socks every day.  Wash those sweaty testicles, and arm pits.  Keep those feet clean and make sure that if you are not circumcised that you pull back that skin and clean that head fully, as well as rinse it thoroughly.  Black people we have to take care ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally, and hygienically.  The same goes for the males when it comes to the mouth, because no one wants to smell your breath.

Now back to the friendship!

In order for you to know of friendship you first, must find out what kind of friend you are willing to be to others. If you don’t know then you will take any kind of friend you can get. Now that isn’t good, because you could end up with a frienemies. Which is a friend and an enemy at the same time. You know people who talk about you to everyone behind your back. You know that one that tells all your business and none of theirs. The one who will fight you if you tell any of their business. The one who will stab you in your back or shot you while looking you straight in your face. See these aren’t friends and if you aren’t careful these are the people you will affiliate yourself with for life or death. These are they type of people without a soul for theirs was damaged already and they aren’t sure how to take it back.

They aren’t sure of their worth so they could care less about yours. They will console your mother at your funeral, knowing they were the one who took your life. They will raise your children to have hate for you knowing you were a good person. They will sleep with your baby mother or baby father just to say they did. They are the snakes that lies to your face all the times contemplating on taking your life and what you have.

So, I say know what kind of a friend you are and know what kind of a friend you want in your life. When choosing, choose wisely! Don’t go tossing that word around like it is trash because that is exactly what you will end up with. Remember they all can’t be your friend.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Segment 4.

The Family Bond!  Chapter 7…Segment 4.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Everyone that looks good on the outside but may be sour as shit on the inside!

The first impression could be a façade.  I don’t go on first impressions; I need details and time.   It could be well glued together on the outside and torn apart on the inside.  People wear mask all the time, it isn’t until the mask comes off, you find out she/he is a bundle of hell, nervous wrecks, or homicidal.  Take more than a year to know your significant other before you declare he/she is the one and let them into your safe world only to destroy it. 

Time really doesn’t heal all wounds that’s another lie.  It just covers them up with other shit until they are forced to be revealed.  Take responsibilities of your life and destiny so you have no one to blame but yourself.  When you don’t you develop a nasty tongue and we all know words hurt.  Don’t want to get to know who they are after the destruction and horror.  At that point, it is too late and the family is now destroyed and under scrutiny of all that views it, because you move faster than life itself.  Knowing yourself and what you can and cannot take will help you understand who you are willing to deal, settle and conceive with for a life time.  Knowledge of yourself and ancestors, and family will prevent family mistakes, because a cousin is a cousin whether he/she is first or last, unless he/she is married into the family. 

Regaining yourself worth is the first step in knowing who you are.  Without knowing your worth means you can be tricked into thinking and believing you aren’t worth nothing not even the dirt beneath your feet from the ground you walk upon, worthless.  Don’t get to arrogant and forget just why you had to find your self-worth in the beginning.  Being too arrogant can lead to your loneliness as well as your demise.  Not everyone is impressed about you, as you are about finding yourself so be humble, when you know, your not a fool.  To some they will pump your head up pass where you have it causing you more pain than pleasure.  It happens to the good ones some of the times. 

In this life, we are looking for quantity to have better quality.  Let me clarify so the more of our people pull together as a nation the better quality of life we shall and will have.  As a whole, we are mighty as I draw this hand…

Opened it is able to help all

Power
Love
Trust
Loyalty
Peace

Some need a slap with all the force created by this hand, to ensure they get the message clear.  As I hold it open, I can offer you all these things and more, but as soon as I close it.

Closed it is as strong as it is opened but deadly

Loyalty
Peace
Power
Trust
Love

I now cover my people in the palm of my hand with all that I offer I haven’t raised my hand in disrespect nor closed my hand in hate.  I give you my hand in friendship and closed it in a bond that can never be broken.  I place your life in my hand I conceal it to keep others from harming you while I’m around.  I now can carry you open or closed without any concern for your safety because I offered you this hand in honor of my faith in my people.  But stand in front of it and your life is no longer yours to worry about.  It’s mine to do something about it.  Punch!

Be more than a friend to someone, be a resource, a shoulder, a listening ear, a safe haven from themselves, not just a party friend, cuddle buddy, friends with benefits that only suits you.  None of that matters when he/she is hurt or is in intensive care fighting for their lives, on their death bed, down and out or just want to give up on life.

Where will your friendship lay when the true test is upon you?  Better yet where will you be when the hammer comes down and you are really needed?  Place yourself in their shoes and see what kind of a friend you would need and where you would want that friendship standard to be?

I feel like that your judgement day, the true test of your character.  Some of us will pass, but some of you are going to fail miserably, but then your day will come and guess what!  Because of your hand wasn’t there neither will anyone else’s.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Segment 3.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

If a woman is single and meet a man who is single then they must learn how to be each other’s support system but only if they have decided to title one another.  If it’s only pure sexually then so it shall be, but remember there’s no soul in that.  It can only lead to heart ache and loneliness.  Eventually you will want more for yourself and of your life. 

The phrase I was born alone I will die alone isn’t true.  You were born with your mother right there, the only thing is you were born single, not alone.  Now the choice to die alone is yours.  It’s up to you as a person to take a road of solitude.  There are plenty of options in life as you grow to ensure you don’t have to die alone.  Once the relationship has been proven then and only then can the real support begin.  Guys remember that women had a life before this commitment and ladies remember that men had one as well.  Now you must be reminded that you have to fill a void in one another’s life.  Just a reminder that she had her girls before you came along.  She was around her girls and had someone to vent to and cry to.  Always had a listening ear and someone to shop with so now you must be all that to and for her. 

Ladies just a reminder he had his boys and always had going out partners.  Someone to go to the gym with as well as men to talk out things with.  So now if you hold that title you will have to be all that and more to him.   You both have new roles to play in each other’s lives, if neither of you call fill the bill nor are willing to take on the challenge then leave each other alone.  It can only end in misery, hatred, and heart ache.  You should think and act how you want this person to treat you and tell them so they can know.  Honestly, no one is a mind reader, so no one really knows what you want until you say.  No one knows you but is taking the time to get to know you.  Please don’t do it the physical first, when the mental is unstable singing yours should’ve, could’ve, would’ve, when all you had to do is observe and ask questions in the first place.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Segment 2.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We know what we need to do but we aren’t sure on how to do it, since we are radical thinkers.  They know the family bond in our people isn’t strong anymore, so they use that against us.  They know that if they save us from us then we will turn on them.  Therefore “society” has no mean of saving black people.  They make too much money from our demise and self-destruction to want to save us.  In reality who are they saving us from but our own kind.  As a nation, we are strong and a force of determination, with the will to do anything and everything we put our minds to.  The only way to continue to keep us down is if they continue to beat us down.

They force us to feel guilty about not being able to support our families the way they think we should.  In reality, they are controlling our homes and family’s lives.  Let’s be honest here what is guilt; the fact or state of have committed an offense, crime, violation, or wrong especially against moral or penal law; culpability.

We have no reason to feel guilty because we committed none of these things.  We do more than our best on what we have to offer our families and if we come together as a community, “society know we would have more.  When your child doesn’t get all that they want, remember this, they still have a roof over their heads, clothes on their backs, shoes upon their feet, food for their hunger, water for their thirst, and a person to provide it all for them, you.  Take pride in knowing your best is good enough for now.  Never thirst after what the next man has because you never know their struggle to get it.   

Learn to be disciplined in your spending, living, learning, growing, and waiting because not all thing is for everyone.  Like the old saying goes be careful what you wish for because you never know the cost of their fortune.  Preying on what the next man have could leave you with a bad taste in your mouth, pain in your heart, misery in your life and death at your door.  Be careful what you are willing to give up just to get what you want.

For me I’ll stay with the necessities.  I’ll gladly move pass the basics when the Higher Power guide my footsteps.  Moving without him causes two spaces ahead then drops you five spaces back so you end up worse than before you started.  Learn to be patient in your walk, talk, drive and relationship for you could end with nothing which is less you may have started with, when starting this journey.  Reminder, the Higher Power does things in decency and order.  You can’t run before you learn to walk and can’t walk before you learn to stand and you can’t stand properly without balance and understanding.

You must understand the process before you do a job, or before you buy a car or before you move to a new home or buy a new home.  There is a systematic order to do these things, thinking you are getting ahead of the game when you’re not.  You are actually setting yourself up for failure.  You ruin your own chances of success by not taking the necessary precaution to prevent failure.  So anxious to make it you forget that not all things come together as planned but if you’re not prepared for obstacles then you already failed before you began.

Knowing your status, stance, and prospective on success as well lost will have prepared you for anything life throws at you.  Understanding your goals not just achieving them, but really know them makes for a better business, work environment, and boss, also a better person, mother, father, neighbor, and activist.  My goal is to help black families come together and stay together.  To learn to face trouble head on, to overcome obstacles that they come to, and jump hurdles they encounter.  To love, pass the physical and enjoy the mental, to join in the spiritual and touch the soul.  To reunite the village and communize the unreached the lonely souls.  To rejuvenate the weary and idolize the helpers.

We can only tolerate so much before our tolerance level have reach a level of no return but with God’s help, we can reach a level where we can tolerate anything as long as it’s for our people.  I mean why not, we’ve tolerated all “society” gives or shall I say throw at us.  We have endured their shit for over 400 plus years but have a level when it come to our own kind, please are we serious!

The only reason “society” have the power is because we give it to them, or so they think.  The real fact is we as black hold the real power.  The power of spending, building, giving, sharing, and taking.  We spend over fifteen billion dollars a year in this country and they get rich from it, so if we stop spending on what they have then they will feel the pain.  No more movies, no more cable, no more cell phones, no more crime, no more corner stores, no more name brand clothes, or tennis, no more cars, no more drugs, and no more dinning out/partying.  They will feel the pain and know of the struggle.  They would know of our pain and hurt.  They would have to work themselves.

If we built our own banks for just us, made our ow movies just for us, communicated face to face, designed our own clothes and shops just for us, cars and grow our own food.  We ourselves would feel better, think better, do better, and recycle our money through our communities.  We would stabilize our families and increase the power of black thus decreasing the crime rate and the power “society” has over us.  We would finally be able to stand as a nation; a very proud, productive, and creative nation.

Stability is what we don’t have even those who have jobs.  Those jobs aren’t secured, they think we are expendable.  Make sure we are irreplaceable by being our own bosses and creating job for our own kind.  What we know is that it won’t happen overnight but with everyone joining in and putting forth the effort this could happen within three to ten years?  We ourselves have a lot of work to do on us for us to make it happen.

It’s not a hard task if we revert to our natural roots!  Not physically but mentally to take pride in our color and what we have to offer as a proud race.  Yes, I know you aren’t giving up on your cell phones but we as black need black own and black operated businesses that feeds our needs.  Our communities have suffered long enough, I remember when all the corner stores in East Baltimore was black owned and operated.  There wasn’t another culture or race that own another store in East Baltimore.  Now that’s all that own the same stores I use to buy my family’s goods from.  However, the carryout was owned by the Asians but that was for those like myself, who ate Yakami, Lo Mein, Egg Foo Yung or other Chinese cuisine; even the bars were owned by black.  Where did our status go?  Why did we as black fall so hard?  Because, those who couldn’t do for themselves didn’t want for those who could to continue with their success and “society” helping hand didn’t help at all.  For a matter of fact, they hurt the most by forcing crack cocaine and heroin into the city and then started a campaign for the war on drugs.  Are you serious and black people fell for the hype?  While “society” was pulling the wool over our eyes and pushing their drugs harder in our communities, we decided that forcing them down our own people throats, shooting them in their veins, or shoving it in their noses to get rich was the best thing for the neighborhoods.  But in all honesty, where are those drug dealers now?  Oh, yes in jail, prison, dead, or users themselves.  Yes, “society” knew exactly what they were doing we just didn’t have a clue. 

It was fast money and that is the problem with black people.  We all wanted that fast money, the get rich quick scams, but at what cost it didn’t matter to us.  We were suffering and didn’t even know it.  We were infecting our own lives and didn’t care because the fast money made everything look different.  At least when the dealers ate, I can say the neighborhood ate as well.  We have the audacity to think fast money is the best money, but we are slowly learning it isn’t.  It’s all comes with a price and sometimes that price is worse than living, death is the not a reward that equals a come up.  It is a sentence that equals exactly what it is; death!  Now look at our communities in the worse conditions that have ever been in since I can remember. 

I see our young children no longer the pushers but as junkies buying prescription drugs from addicts. 

First, they gave you a taste then when your power got big, they pulled the plug away and threw you in their prisons.  Making more money off you and all the while this was their plans from the beginning.  Either way they made money off us whether it was selling it, buying it, or locking you up for it.  Until this day they still profit what they can from the black communities. 

We lost our way because everything flashy looks good.  Plus, it looked good against the poverty we were facing.  Somehow, when the flash come, we missed the picture behind the glitter and gold.  We couldn’t see the future for the present looked appealing.  Now look where we are still scrapping for scraps and begging for more.  Why when we had it all, by supporting the black businesses, that was already established?  We missed our boat but the one thing I do know is boats and ship must dock to load and unload.  When it our turn, remember our best features we have is communication.  If we band together verbally, then our psyche tells us to do it mentally, and then physically. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Segment 1.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

The Bond of Mending a Broken Man/Woman/Child

Yes, I know we can be very arrogant at times but sometimes situations call for it.  Then it’s those times when, are you serious, please sit down.  You’re losing and don’t have room from arrogance.   I mean know when to be full of yourself and when to humble yourself.

Don’t allow your ego to have you on a high horse one day and the next on the side of the road begging for money or food.  When you feel like it is all coming together to fast, slow your pace, and find a balance before it falls apart. Remember the real village is still around.

This is what you don’t want to do though is be as disrespectful as possible.

A – Antagonize the people who always had your back.

R – Repudiate your family because of your social status.

R – Renounce your heritage, birth right, or home.

O – Overlook your people suffering around you.

G – Go against the grain

A – Annoy everyone on your way up to the top.

N – Neglect who you really are and your family.

C – Co-exist with “society” to puzzle yourself into their world

E – Endorse yourself by disowning all others.

Being a fraud is not really black people’s thing it is a “society” thing, trying so hard to make yourself believe that your worldly possession is what make you, will also be exactly what breaks you.  There’s no God in materialistic things, only evil!

Remember this even “society” knows you can’t get anywhere in life without other people.  Even if “society” only prey on other’s down fall so they can have something to step on besides the ground God made.  They understand that’s what they need but they know they cannot make it without it; even if it’s ugly and evil. 

To “society” you are still just a footstool.  You never really belong they play the role with you because they need something from you.  What you may ask?  Your wealth, because to them you belong in the same poor house your ancestors belong in.  Shinning their shoes, taking care of their children, washing their clothes, cleaning up after them, but most of all taking their shit right up the backside.  They love showing you that without them your nothing and with them you’re still nothing.  I guess this is their way of showing their superior but only to those who believe they are superior. 

This problem has led to people being depressed as well as oppressed.

D – Deeply disturbed by sense of less than.

E – Entertained by nothing or no one.

P – Polite because you feel pressured to be.

R – Repulse the demons that haunt your happiness.

E – Enclosed in your own thoughts.

S – Study by psychologist for what reason.

S – Sentenced to medication for a life time.

I – Imposed sadness on those around you.

O – Opposed treatment to regain natural order of one’s self.

N – Never want change just darkness.

Because the oppressors are always finding a way to oppress us.

O – Ostracized anyone who doesn’t fit in your “society”

P – Portray people by displaying their down falls.

P – Promote hate to increase violence.

R – Repeat history as much as possible, to prove a point.

E – Encased facts from people to cover up your hate.

S – Seduce them with materialistic items to blind them.

S – Sarcastically give them a nudge of hope.

I – Idiots we are for trusting “society”

O – Onto new ways of trickery and false promises.

N – Note the oppressed as a success for “society”

We as people need none of this in our lives for the Higher Power has blessed us with a brain.  So “society” take your foot off our necks for we are not your “dogs” any longer.  We are not our ancestors; our mentality is a lot different but the same.

The Family Bond! Chapter 6…Segment 8.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

It’s time for you to start shitting for yourself.  If you can eat it then you should shit it.  If you can’t eat then it wasn’t for you.  If you can’t afford it then it’s not for you.  If you must steal to get it, it’s not for you.  If you must kill for it, then it definitely isn’t for you. 

 At this point your mind and body is telling you it’s not for you.  When death is knocking at your door and the good Higher Power says it’s not your time then guess what it’s time to walk away because it’s not for you.  So now we come to the negative rules of life. 

You live by the drug; you die by the drug!

You live by the sword; you die by the sword!

You live by the gun; you die by the gun!

You live by the sex; you die by the sex!

What they haven’t told you is that there are positive rules to life as well.

You live by the Higher Power, you live happy!

You live in an honor code; people will respect you for you!

You love in truth unconditionally, you will receive love unconditionally, trust.

Your wealth is that in which you give but your blessing is that in which you receive.

It’s right there in plain sight so if you survive any of the rules then the Higher Power have different plans for you.  Maybe and this just could be me, but just maybe you should no longer live by the rules of death but live by the rules of life.

You know non-believers think they are just bigger and better than the miracle, so they go at it again.  Honestly, how can you be bigger and better when the name you called was that of the Higher Powers and he answered?  Now it’s you turn to repay the miracle by blessing someone else’s life and saying enough is enough. 

Now let’s go back to these parents!

M – Monarch of the family, she rules with love.

O – Optimistic about the future for her flock.

M – Mysterious to those who choose not to know her.

S – Settling in her own way to produce results.

D – Dominating but unsure who to dominate.

A – Able to overcome most things by oneself.

D – Dense to the truth of being a man.

S – Submissive by default.

B – Born innocent and taught ignorance.

A – Abe to understand even when no one think you can.

B – Bubbled with joy until introduced to hurt.

I – Intelligent beyond what they believe and see.

E – Evolved mentally and emotionally.

S – Sensitive and trustworthy.

C – Charming infectiously without trying.

H – Hilarious and humored by everything.

I – Interceptive to all that around you.

L – Learn everything by observation.

D – Dream big before entering the world.

R – Regret nothing for you know nothing about anything.

E – Endure what’s in your life because your yet to know how to reject it.

N – Negotiator already.

P – Patriarch of his home but will abandon it.

A – Anxious and withered with worry.

R – Referee all interactions with others.

E – Enforcers of life until you get one of your own.

N – Notice all things evil even their own but won’t say so.

T – Teachers of all things good and bad.

S – Strangers to it all but learns until it feels right.

If we can sit around and talk about one another than surly we can help one another.  My problem is with these young mother’s/father’s today and some of your old ones thinking you got this, when in fact you don’t have it at all.  You all don’t want anyone disciplining your child/ren but don’t mind if someone else help take care of them.  Realistically, you aren’t making sense.  The way the “government” see it is if they are our providers in any form then they are your disciplinarians.

No lie I feel the same way.  If a man/woman is helping you to take care of your child/ren, that aren’t theirs, then they are allowed to discipline them.  No, I didn’t say abuse them, I said discipline.  If auntie, uncle, grandma, grandpa, cousin, niece, nephew, or whoever else you turn to in your time of need helps you then they should be at least able to say something authoritative to your child/ren when he/she/they are out of control or in the wrong.  Let’s be realistic here the government don’t even have to be taking care of your child/ren they will say, and do as they please anyway; so before they have to step in why not allow someone else to take a crack at the disciplinary process before they do. I have seen some of your children in the streets and I myself would have like to have slapped the shit out of some of them and that’s no lie.  In truth our children are out of control and we know it and some of us think that shit is funny and amazing until you can no longer yourself handle the madness then you want others to step in and take responsibility for your lack of parenting or lack of disciplinary actions. 

Learn to control your household from the beginning and no one will have to step in and be the “warden” over your household.  Stop being afraid of the little monsters you raise that are now able to be placed in jail or prison and you say they had a hard life.  Weren’t you the one that raised them or didn’t raise them, so why didn’t you ask for help when you thought it was a hard life. Instead of waiting until it was too damn late and now he is facing life, execution depending on the state in which you all live. Or worst, you are burning him, as a result of this so called hard life. 

Understand me when I say, your child/ren isn’t allowed to be disrespectful to me even if I’m not taking care of them. 
If you have children that are disrespectful to you, then accept the fact that they are disrespectful to others.  No child should ever be disrespectful to an adult, and no adult should ever be disrespectful to anyone else child/ren.  I will never be disrespectful to anyone’s child/ren unless he/she/they are disrespectful to me.  Please believe Child Protective Service will be needed, because I explained that I am the village and will whip your child/ren ass if necessary.  Please do not bring your child/ren around me if they have no respect for you because they will clearly have none for me. 

I promise you after they meet me, they will have the utmost respect for all adults.  I do not play with my 27, 25, nor 15 years old’s disrespecting me or other adults, so your child/ren will not disrespect me either.  Change people; has to begin somewhere and home is a great place to start.  Stop banking for Mother/Father of the year when you can’t even make Mother/Father of the hour.    If you know your child/ren are out of control then look at your life and find out where you went wrong.  They are a direct reflection of you.  Once again that mirror will not lie to you unless your brain is broken, in which case there is a serious underlined problem.  In which case, the village is seriously needed.  If you can turn up for everything that is negative then you should be able to turn up for your child/ren when you know they are in need of some serious help.  Some of you need to scream and shout for help because you child/ren is home whipping your ass instead of the other way around.  I think you may need Adult Protective Service.  Oh yeah, they have that it’s called the “police.”

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove