Sunday – Let’s Talk Food With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

This is for thought not for eating. The consumption is to put a lot of thinking into this food for thought.

If you’ve been eating off someone else’s plate for a while or all your life, you can’t get upset when they don’t allow it anymore. This just mean that they can no longer starve trying to feed the both of you based on your consumption. That’s right you eat more than your share and it is weighing on them, mentally, financially, emotionally and spiritually.

They don’t want to cut you off but you leave them no other choice. You don’t have a fall back, you’re rude like it isn’t a blessing, but like it is mandatory. You don’t have a thank you bone in your body. When there’s no money 🤑, no couch 🛋 to lay on, no free meal 🍜 or no free ride 🛀🏎️✈️, you feel as though the love 💔 is gone. It’s not! It’s just that the person you’ve been using had finally seen or had their eyes opened to the truth.

Question is what the hell do you, as a user, do now? Get off your lazy ass and start to fend for yourself! Do you not feel less than when someone else does everything for you? Of course not, you feel privileged, like it’s owed to you. Even children grow up into their own and independence. They go from crawling, to waking, to running. When they fall they expect Mommy and Daddy to pick them up a few times, then after while they get up and try again, but not you. When a child is first learning separation they cry, well some and some can’t wait to get away from their parents at an early age, see independence; still not you. If a 5 years old certainly make change and accept it so can you.

No one was promised to take care of you your whole life, just in the beginning and at the end. Don’t make anyone regret their choice by exploiting them with guilt, just man up or woman up and take one for yourself! The team will be happy you did.

Don’t take people kindness for granted because that just pushes then away and when you need them most they won’t be there. Where will your reality be when it happens?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoodessLove

Black History Facts

John Henrik Clarke – January 1, 1915 – July 12, 1998.

  • Pan-Africanist writer, historian and professor.
  • Pioneer in the creation of Africana studies and professional institutions in academia starting in the late 1960s.
  • Founded the African Heritage Studies Association and the Black Caucus of the African Studies Association in 1968.
  • Challenged the views of academic historians and helped shift the way African history was studied and taught.
  • Actively deconstructed there lies, propaganda, and miseducation of white supremacy via lectures, debates, academics research, and books.
  • Met and mentored many of the great minds throughout the African diaspora.
  • One of his landmarks works is a documentary called “A Great and Mighty Walk”, about his life and the history of Africans throughout time and across the globe.

Dick Gregory – October 12, 1932 – August 19, 2017

Why isn’t any if this taught in school?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

  • Civil rights activist, social critic, writer, entrepreneur, conspiracy theorist, comedian and occasional actor.
  • Began studying African history after being told that Africans had no history before European colonization.
  • Took on a range of issues, including ending the Vietnam War, feminism, Native-American rights, and apartheid in South Africa.
  • Regularly fasted in protest of world events; was arrested dozens of times for his causes.
  • In 1961, joked in front of a white audience: Last time I was down South I walked into this restaurant and this white waitress came up to me and said, “We don’t serve colored people here.” I said, that’s all right, I don’t eat colored people. Bring me a whole fried chicken.”
  • Authored the controversial “Nigger: An Autobiography” in 1964.

Saturday, Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Ladies, ladies, ladies! Is it time to clean out the closet… literally and figuratively? Emotionally, we like to attach ourself to things we believe we can’t let go because of sentimental reasons but in reality we can’t let go of the person whether they hurt us or not. If we let go we let go; of what we think was a great memory, in fact turns if to be just a bag of lies. For some of us I will give it to you, when it’s over, baby girl it’s over. You don’t look back you don’t shed a tear. You don’t reminisce over it. You act like it didn’t even happen. After talking to you about somethings I see the pain, hurt and empty void, that is now your defense mechanism. You remind yourself never to trust, love, or lower your defense every again.

I get it and if that’s how it have to be then, I’m all for it, but in the same sense you are depriving yourself happiness, joy, love and peace. Your health isn’t right and you can’t understand why, it’s because you honest that bad energy in your closet of emotions. You rather chew live wire than to give yourself a second to think about what happened in that relationship. Clean it out, throw away that anger, hostility, misery and reclaim your ability to love, trust, and your health. It’s your closet only you can clean it out! No one else can get in there and clean out what you need to throw away. You can do it, I can see the pile of unnecessary, intoxicating, unessential things in the trash already.

Fellas, fellas, fellas! Did you all really think I was only talking to the ladies? You know if I have love for one I have love for all. You know your closet is just as dirty as the ladies and you need to clean it as well. It’s a different for you all because while you are a pile of mess, you still want to stay face around people. I wish it was only the fellas, but it’s the ladies as well. Fellas some women love a man who is able to express his emotions, feelings, and wants. We don’t have time to be guessing. Tell us like you want us to tell you. Don’t say men aren’t emotional because that’s a lie, reason most kill, hurt, punish, and fight others in a rage. Sometimes it’s not even jealousy it’s just a emotional state and they aren’t able to express themselves properly so they take it out on others. Instead of confronting the person in their life, who caused them hurt, pain, and mental anguish, with calm and rational thoughts.

Grab the broom, dust pan and trash can, because it is time to get rid of all the mistrust, infidelity, hostility, and pain. It is time to love, trust, compromise, and live again. If you are always angry, but at the wrong person, then you’re not living; you’re existing and that’s not healthy. Take it one step at a time so that you can be in a fidelity accountable relationship wherein you can honestly be happy, loved, and stable. Dead or in jail is no place to be when all you want is to be loved.

I know we can all do it… there’s hope for us all.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – Happy Valentine’s Day

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, praise and worship to the all High.

This is a special time of the year for a lot of people. Their hearts are filled with joy and excitement, not sure what their sweethearts are bringing home. Their anticipation is intoxicating and they are drunk with love. Women I hope that he isn’t the only one going out to get his love a gift. Ladies show your man you can be just as romantic as he can. Go out and buy him something that will light a smile in his face and joy in his heart. No a nice piece is lingerie isn’t what I’m talking about. That’s for you and for him to look at and take off. Would you like it if he came with a nice clothing item for him, for you to take off and admire? No, so do something nice for him like you expect him to do something nice for you.

How about this year you take him out for dinner? You buy him a nice time piece (watch), a pinky ring, necklace, hat, shoes, suit, sweatsuit, a coat or jacket since it is getting warm, something. Men want to feel appreciated as well. They want to know that you care for them like they care for you. It’s not hard to show your appreciation like you expect them to show you theirs. Ladies you got this, don’t let him down.

Fellas, do I really need to tell you that those tired ass flowers and chocolate isn’t going to cut it this year. Come on isn’t that quick stop at the corner getting to routine. The guy knows you by name. Put thought into it and mean it from the bottom of your heart. Now some ladies don’t mind money but it just says I don’t know you enough to know what you would like. Give her plane tickets to somewhere you two haven’t been. Make reservation at her favorite hotel and give her a weekend she’ll never forget. Jewelry is a great gift but if that’s what you always do then switch it up. Don’t let her think she knows you and that you are predictable.

Kings should sacrifice the kingdom for their Queens. Queens should move the castle for their Kings. Not only in Valentine’s day but everyday to ensure that they are appreciated, loved, wanted, and desired. No if’s ands or buts!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Dancing Around The Truth

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We’re doomed! I’m not going to sugar-coat it for you. We’re doomed! Ask yourself are you proud to be who you are as a person? If you can yes then you are ,dancing around the truth. We as human beings well most of us haven’t shown kindness to one another to be proud of anything. We fake like we like people so stay faced in the public eye, but in reality we hate and it’s deep. You may not have all people but it’s always a certain kind of person you hate or a certain race of people. Hate is hate! There’s no dancing around that.

When you say I hate someone that means you hate something within yourself 😡😠 that you aren’t aware of and it causes you to hate outward. Saying you dislike someone is different from saying you hate someone. You can’t say you like a certain person of a race but hate the rest of that race. If so, then you really hate the person you say you like. You just have learned to tolerate that person but still you hate them deep within, also meaning you hate yourself. It’s impossible to have love for the African, Caucasian, Asian, Haitian, Hispanic person within your community but then say I hate Africans, Caucasians, Asians, Haitians, Hispanics. Honestly, you tolerate the people of these ethnicities but you are racist.

It is people in this world who had been faking love, faking happiness, faking joy, faking life just so they can stay face and look like a human being. They have faked it for so long that it is deteriorating their health and no one, not even the doctors, can explain why. It’s hate tearing then up on the inside and killing them slowly.

It’s people like you that smiles in others face with a deep hatred for them and then try to turn others against them. Don’t spread your hate keep it to yourself because your hate is what’s wrong with the people on this Rock today and yesterday and tomorrow. There will always be hate taught, expressed, hidden, spread, but never really addressed. Stop dancing around the truth, you aren’t be better than the next person just because your situation or standards are different.

If you are cut, shot or stabbed, is your blood not the same color? Do you not bleed? Don’t even think about it if you need a blood transfusion and the only person that can safe you be one of those ethnicities you secretly hate, or a kidney, lung, liver or marrow. Then you are in trouble because what if they are just as racist as you but only because they know secretly you are. Doesn’t make it right but not everyone can put aside their discord for someone who had clearly shown then their colors.

When are we going to get it right? How can be make it better for all? Where do the hate end and the real love begin? Can we ever really get along? Will the past always keep us at a distance with one another? Will we always have to dance around the truth? I wonder????

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – Are You Everyone’s Everything?

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Are you that person everyone calls on for everything and anything? Are you the shoulder to cry on? Are you the bending ear? Are you the automatic teller machine? Are you the safe house? Are you the protector?

You do anything for the people you love. There’s nothing you haven’t done for them, but when it’s your needs that has to be meet, there’s no one around. There’s no one to turn to or call. You just know one will listen, help, be there because that’s who you are. Well that’s the problem that’s who you are, not who they are! They are the needy and you are the giver. How can they be there if they are always in need of you?

I know it’s a horrible feeling to always be the one needed and nevermind you when you are the one in need. Have you ever wondered what they would do it you stop being the one to give? Would they still love you the same? Would they still call you the same? Would they still converse with you or would they find another to use and abuse?

Most likely they would just find another! Say isn’t it, that you can go up and beyond yourself just to find out that your not worth anything to anyone when you are in need. That’s it a painful feeling, knowing you are all alone. It is a sickening feeling to find out that the people you love doesn’t love you back, they just love you when they are in need.

Change the cycle, give just enough for them to figure it out in their own. Don’t make it easy no one because when you need them they will not be there and this way you’ll have time for yourself, to do for and care for yourself.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Black History Facts

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Matthew Henson – August 8, 1866 – March 9, 1955

  • First African-American Artic explorer.
  • Recognized as the first person to reach the North Pole in 1909.
  • Recorded his Artic memoirs, A Negro Explorer at the North Pole, in 1912.
  • In 1937, became the first African-American accepted into, The Explorers Club, due to his Achievement.
  • Made six voyages and spent a total of 18 years in expeditions.
  • At the age of 70, received an award from U.S. Navy and gold medal from Chicago Geographic Society.

Marcus Garvey – August 17, 1887 – June 10, 1940

  • Jamaican political leaders, publisher, journalist, entrepreneur, orator, and proponent of the Pan-Africanism movement.
  • Founded the Universal Negro Improvement Association and African Communities League (UNIA-ACL) in 1914.
  • At its height, the organization has over 5 million paid members worldwide, the largest African diaspora organization of its time.
  • In 1919, established the Negro Factories Corporation and founded the Black Star Line, a shipping and passenger line which promoted the return of the African diaspora to their ancestral lands.
  • One of the most influential leaders of the 20th century in Jamaica.

Bob Marley – February 6, 1945 – May 11, 1981

  • Jamaican singer-songwriter, musician, guitarist and activist.
  • Music became closely associated with the movement towards Black political independence, prominent in America and several African and South American countries.
  • First global pop star to emerge from a developing nation.
  • Posthumously inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1994.
  • Although Marley never received a Grammy nomination, was recognized with the Lifetime Achievement Award in 2001.

It’s amazing how hard we fought, how much accomplished, achieved, recognized, but still isn’t a subject to be taught in the curriculums in schools for our children to learn, so they can improve on themselves.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove