Getting into Love with a closed Heart 🙄

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.

I GET IT! I DO, I GET IT! You tried loved and your heart got broken. You still want love but aren’t sure if you can do it again and go back through heartache and pain. You shield yourself from love while trying to find it. Honestly, that isn’t right and is going to keep you from love. It’s like trying to look for something in the dark with your eyes closed. Doesn’t make sense right? Right!

But I get it, I swear I do! NO ONE WILL EVER PENETRATE YOUR HEART AGAIN ONLY TO BREAK IT AGAIN! Then I’m sorry to say your not looking for love; you’re looking for sympathy, empathy, and lust but not love. Sure everyone who had their hearts broken could use some sympathy, lots of empathy and a good fuck to get over the ex. Are you really getting over them or just getting through the idea of them.

I mean you can’t go looking for love with a closed heart and expect to find true love. First you’re not being true to yourself. A closed heart will find a lot of things but love isn’t one of them. I GET IT. Shield your heart until I see that the other person cares (not love) for you and then open your heart. See there lies the problem, you can’t want something that you aren’t will to give. Sorry you are going to just have to take that chance and lead with an open heart so that love can find you. I know you don’t want to get hurt but chances are you could be hurting yourself.

Faking a likeness to see if it’s love isn’t finding love is finding lies, hurt, mistrust, empathy, unhappiness, and lust. Well you’re still getting laid and that’s about it. Yeah you talk about your feeling and what your last relationship meant to you and how that person destroyed you but you aren’t listening to your heart which is telling you to shut up! If you already out to scare away prospects then you will end up telling that story to a lot of people who can either empathize with you but doesn’t want crazy already or those who could careless they just want the sex.

If sex leads the way to the heart then you will only have sex. Communication will be lost and so will the relationship then you’re right back where you started; broken hearted and hating life. Why is it that when our heart get broken the first thing out our mouths is how much we hate life? Life isn’t the one who did something to us. We did! First we hear everything with our hearts and not with our ears. Then we stop listening altogether and just hear what we want and but is being said. Leading to poor communication, lack of attention, uncertainty, and worst of all pain.

If you’re not listening then you’ll never know when you’re relationship ended and when that person walked out of your love, life, and happiness. All you will remember is that it was good to you, but never know how it was to the other person. You have to be conscientious about everything so you will know when something is gone wrong. If all you want is the idea of belonging in a relationship then that’s what you will get, the idea. Relationships and love take time, work, communication, give as well as take but most of all listening. You talk but you don’t listen and when you do hear you don’t comprehend because you aren’t listening.

So before you go out looking for love, know your worth; be ready to listen and communicate effectively. Know what you want and not what you see others with, because everything isn’t for everyone. All attention isn’t good attention with the best intentions. Stay positive but mostly open your mind, spirit and heart to new possibilities. The same way you don’t want to be hurt no one else wants to be broken-hearted either.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove