Confession Thursday – Are You Insecure?

Goddess morning Royals ✌🏾. First give praise and worship to the all High.

I was told that women are the most insecure creatures on the planet! I can’t agree but I also can’t disagree. I’m neutral in this whole debate, but I have witnessed insecurities on both sides.

Men say they are secure but talk about their manhood and their walls go up as well as they hands. They are just as emotional as women but refuse to admit, reason most are depressed, confused, closet gays, childish, irresponsible, always defensive.

Yes, I know women are insecure and it’s lots of reasons why but some deal with it and others cover it up. You have women who haven’t accepted themselves for who they are and will never accept themselves unless it is spoken into existence. For example women wear makeup, weaves, wigs, tight revealing clothes, false nails and eyelashes, high heels (for most not all), etc, all to get a mans attention. Because, there are such slim choices to pick from, it becomes a competition. Men think it’s because of them but it’s because women are natural competitors. We are very territorial about what we believe is ours and will not allow another woman to play our role, even if we messed up. We will own up to our shit but with an excuse behind it to secure what dignity we have left.

This isn’t how men act or react when their manhood of being questioned. They will deny life until the end if they have to. They will not put themselves on the chopping block if they can help it. They confess to nothingbut rubber stamp what they believe is theirs. A boy will deny, question, or renounce his child before giving up his player’s card. He will take his truth to the grave but live in his lie just to stay face in his manhood. They too are insecure in their manhood, covering up being broke by breaking the bank to flash a car, wear the latest fashion, look like money when they don’t have any. They rather take from one another than to build up one another same thing for women. Why?

Insecurities! So don’t come tell me about someone else’s problems, tell me about yours then we can get somewhere. Tell me about your flaws, your self hate, your dislikes, gossip about yourself then we can have a discussion.

Know your insecurities before you put others down about theirs!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Published by missk22

I am a free spirit! Speak my mind a lot. Published author! Business & Psychology major! AA in Healthcare Administration; BBA in Accounting/Finance. Working on my masters in Psychology. Mother, hairstylist, nail technician and so much more.

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