Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.
How fucked up do we have to be to know there is a home for him and continue like it doesn’t matter. Our responsibilities to ourselves has be to in question at this point. Why are we allowing this to happen to us? What has gone so wrong in our life where we think this is a good idea? How many other women have he done this to since his relationship has soured? Are we this desperate for a companionship to allow this to go further? When are we going to step our lives up and be more than a side piece? How much do we really value our lives? Is this what we want for our children; our sons to dog women like so, or for our daughters to be dogged like so?
Once we can answer these questions honestly, then we are ready for the next step in our lives. Getting to know who we really are and what we want from our husbands could help us in choosing and making better decision about our relationships. We will no longer think on a scale of boyfriends, side men, lovers, one-night stands but as long-term life partners, husbands. For we are women who deserves to be treated like so by our married Kings; no not married to another Queen but to us.
Some people expectations are different and some have other Queens but the fact remains, just be the only one. If your man/woman isn’t loyal then dethrone them. Remember wait for your King because the Higher Power only really sends you one. All the others are imposters, playing a role, but you must be the writer, director, producer, and narrator of your story, if not then you yourself will just play a part in a role not fit for you. I guarantee you will not like the ending!
Look at it like this, life is a movie. You can make it short and sweet or you can make it long with twists and turns to keep the audience (on lookers) guessing. The cast is your choice but remember there is always a price for the more actors you put in place. Being the director of your life as well as the producer means when the movie isn’t cast as you want you can change the people. When it’s not written to your pleasure you can rewrite the script and when it’s not being played out in your favor redirect your characters. This mean that you will lose some friends and family, but remember it’s your life so plan it accordingly.
People you do have the power to change so do it, you do have the will to live differently and the strength to help change others. We know better so why don’t we as a black race do better. Our mental capacity is blocked by the world’s and “society’s” chaos. We give “society” to much credit for all their materialistic crap and then follow suit. What we haven’t figure out just yet is that “society” cannot survive without us.
All the money we spend and all the trouble our kind get into feeds “society,” putting food on their tables, and their children through those Ivy League schools. So technically we are their bread winners. We still make and take care of them and deny our own. The worst part is when one of us makes it we all are supposed to make it, but we don’t. The one’s who makes it give “society” all their praise but leave their own kind behind to starve. The one thing they do know is that without the less fortunate or the little people they wouldn’t have achieved anything, but we get stepped on.
We as women have been putting up with “society’s” and black men bull shit since the beginning. We know we are the back bone to the household without our strength the black man would fall. What we see today is a lack of black women standing behind the black man because they are fed up. We now stand in front or alone because the black man has fallen and felt hard. As a black woman, I cannot standby and allow any of my black men to continue to fall. If we as black women would learn to pick them up when they fall, they will be grateful but only if those single women stay out of your way. Single ladies be alert for their own King; everything will go accordingly. I must try to stand him up and uplift his spirits and motivate his mind, believe in his ability to do better than what he has shown me.
If I am of his “rib” then when he fails, I fail and I don’t believe in failure. No more, when he fails, I am to give him life and restore what has caused the failure. I shall not criticize nor ridicule him of his manhood or his mistakes.
C – Cast aside his strength, tries and abilities.
A – Abuse them mentally, and physically
S – Sexual denial of his woman from her man, please.
T – Testimony of his/her betrayal afterwards
R – Referencing negativity repeatedly.
A – Afraid of responsibilities for your actions.
T – Torment and taunt the soul when it’s fragile.
E – Embellish the truth to stay faced.
Now is the time to stand up and tell our men, son, brothers, and fathers, be a man and take your throne back. I will fight by your side but only for the right reason. I can no longer ride or die for you for negative or unproductive shit. Tell them you are going to die alone and for nothing because you have nothing, no morals, values, self-respect and now no life.
Sending you all kisses and love. #GoddessLove