Goddess morning Royals 🤔. First give praise and worship to the all High. Happy King’s Day to my oldest King Ryheem. 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 for life.
Can you teach someone how to love you?
I pose this question, because everyone wants to be loved and for those who don’t, their soul is lost! *That’s a whole other topic to be discussed later! If one sole reason one this rock is to give love as well as receive it; then why is it so hard to accomplish? I have seen both sides give while their significant other, family/love ones take and take but refuse to give back.
When they do give back it’s only to get more, if there is more to get. I have seen the well run dry and takers move on to the next without even blinking in remorse.
We all know we will never get the same love given in return! Why not? An ounce of what we give can feel like a pound to the person receiving it. If given properly and from the heart not from the thought. It’s not the thought of loving someone that counts, it’s the actual love from the heart that does count.
People show interest in what you dislike, like, want but hardly in what you need. It’s in the need where the love is shown and given. Govern your heart like they govern their wallet and see the change in people. It’s possible to teach someone to love you but do they really wants to learn! Do they really want to love you, be in love with you or just feel a sense of want to show others someone cares for them.
I’ve seen that as well, I call it showcase love. When a person only want people to see that someone loves them even though they know as well as those around them know they don’t deserve it. Love is to great for some people because the only person they care for is themselves and most of the time they don’t really like spending time alone because they disgust themselves. You know the ones too! They always need to be seen because they are always bored and nothing pleases them really unless they get validation in their life from others.
Imagine that someone has to validate them for them to realize they are someone. Self worth is far fetched and nowhere in reach mentally, physically, or emotionally. It’s just not possible and so they bring your spirits down as well as your self-esteem because of their insecurities.
So yes it is possible to teach someone but it shouldn’t be that hard if they love themselves even to share it. If not, move on because someone will without you teaching them!
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove