‘Goddess afternoon Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.
A break up is hard. What is more difficult is when you had no idea it was coming. People tend to break up at inappropriate times to make themselves look good and be the ones that goes through it the most. I know that old saying “The best way to get over an ex is to get under and new,” but that is far from true.
The best way to get over an ex is to take time for yourself. Heal from within out and learn who you are as a person by yourself. Then remember who you are as a person with someone in your life. If you aren’t the same person then you need to take time to evaluate why you are two different people. Are you someone who just adapt or convert yourself to fit in someone else’s life or are you someone who try their best to change so you can look like you belongs in that person life? If and when you look in the mirror do you recognize yourself? When your friends and family look at you can they see the change and is it good or bad? Do they say things like who are you? Why are you acting so different? If so, then you haven’t made a good change for you but you changed for that person.
Find out what you like, who you are and what you are will to sacrifice to get it will tell you who you are. If you are willing to give everything up to get the man/woman you want better make sure they are willing to do the same. If not then you are in for a shit load of unwanted hurt. You will find yourself doing things that you normally wouldn’t do otherwise, to please this person. The whole time this person will find someone who is willing to standby him/her but with heart and confidence in themself. You know that thing called self-esteem. You have to stay away from them and allow them to live the life that they want to live without you. You have to know you are better than what they are offering you as a relationship goal. Believe me after you have learn what you are willing to do and what you aren’t willing to do in a relationship then you will know what shit you just won’t take at all from no one.
Last but not least, you need to do things that make you comfortable with being yourself. You know take yourself out to dinner and enjoy being alone for a while so you can appreciate being with someone and know that they should be appreciative of you as well. By the time you are ready for a new you will have forgotten about your ex. Fact is if you are bored with yourself then there is no way you are going to be able to be excited or interested with someone else.
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove