Confession Thursday – Is It Time To Stop Lying To Yourself?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Do you lie just to make yourself look good or better than those around you? Well it is time to stop because the only people believing you are you and those who don’t know you yet. No you don’t own the house you live in, it is your aunts and you are subletting it. No you are not a supervisor at your job, just because you help train one person who is making more money than you now. No she is not your girlfriend just someone you know that thinks you are entertaining. No he isn’t interested in you and yes he have a girlfriend already. No you never killed anyone. No you never been to the military. No you don’t have a car, but it is in the shop. No you can’t afford labels, reason why you stay broke. No you don’t own a business, but haven’t worked out the details. Who cares about all that but you? Stop trying to fit in where you don’t belong. It is better to be yourself then reinvent someone no one wants to be around.

People you have to stop lying to yourself about these things especially if you aren’t really pursuing them, you are just exaggerating about them. Stop dreaming and go after what you really want better yet what you need in your life. If he haven’t looked at you in that manner just yet, chances are he will never see you in that light, ever. If she still laughing at you and not with you then you are just a clown to her and not boyfriend material. If no one is eating your cooking then chances are you can’t really cook, even though you put your all into it. Take lessons on cooking so you can improve. Stop wanting her and look at the woman that is laughing with you and smiling at you. You know the one everyone in the office think is unattractive, but she alway pay you compliments. She might not be as attractive but she will be the one that will make you happy. He can’t notice you because he is waiting on the girl that is out of his league to make a move but she never will. Stop trying to gain his attention and allow him to find his own way. He might be bad news and you don’t want that in your life at all.

Yes, he/she is using you if he/she only comes around when it is pay day or check day. Yes, you are only making their status look good while you are looking like a fool for trying so hard to please. No you can’t fit those shoes, nor those pants and neither is flattering at all. Stop hurting your feet as well as having to pull and tug at your clothes trying to look good. Everyone’s watching but no one is impressed. Yes you can go out for a better job if you stop being so lazy and unreliable. You have the potential but you just want people to keep saying it so it look good to you but not doing anything about it really makes you look bad. You know your house is dirty, why keep trying to hide things, just clean up. It is better for you and the environment.

You have been lying to yourself for quite some time now. You have been lying so much you now think that it is true and that you are failing, but you aren’t. You keep reaching for nothing and so you get nothing. You keep saying bullshit and so you get bullshit. Please stop trying to impress when all you have to do is be you and live with that person so he/she can advance. Don’t force the lie because it only make things worse. I know you think that if you keep the lie going that it will eventually come true but that isn’t how it works. Especially if all you are doing is lying and not putting effort to it to make it reality.

You know you never been outside of your city or town why lie and post you are in Italy, Paris, The Islands, Miami, California when you are right in your living room and your neighbor can see you through the window. If you are on vacation then why are you constantly being spotted in your own neighborhood. People grow up and get a life. It is okay if it is bland, not everyone was meant to do great things. Some was meant to do good things and others bad things. Some were meant to do nothing at all. Some were meant to touch and change lives, while others were born to be the ones receiving the miracle not making the miracle happen.

Stay true to yourself and life will work itself out in your favor.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove


Published by missk22

I am a free spirit! Speak my mind a lot. Published author! Business & Psychology major! AA in Healthcare Administration; BBA in Accounting/Finance. Working on my masters in Psychology. Mother, hairstylist, nail technician and so much more.

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