Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.
I wish I could say the older you get the less sex you want. I wish I could say that if you two have been together for a while then he/she will either gain this craving with you or lose it with you. I wish I could say that young mean more sex, but I can’t. I wish I could but in fact it all depends on the person.
I know that there is more things to do in a day than when you were young but sex is definitely one of those things. Now if you never had sex then I am not speaking to you specifically. If you are a veteran then you know exactly who I am referring to. I know that we are busy as hell and with children even more busy, but somewhere along that line of chaos we crave, think about, want, need sex. Am I right? If you are anything like me, I want it more than the average 46 years old woman. I stay busy all the time with writing, cleaning, cooking, working, designing, hair, nails, counseling, children, and my husband; that sometimes I forget to eat. No lie, I get so busy I forget to eat.
During the course of my day I think of sex though. I refuse to lie to you and it’s a good thing I have someone that is one my level. I know that is rare considering but it is true. He is awesome when it comes down to the time we have or make to give each other for that pleasurable moment. Our connection is worth the time we put in to make it happen. But I know for a fact because I hear it all the time that’s not always the care. “She isn’t on my sex level.” “He isn’t where I am sexually.” So yeah I get it but do you really need a level? Can you just compromise and meet on one level for the sake of your relationship?
I mean if it is more than sex that is keep you all apart and you all are using sex as the excuse then I get it, but if it is only sex, please get in where you fit in. Especially, if you are old enough not to make life about sex, then don’t lose someone over sex. If that is you only focus then it might be you and not the other person. You might think your level is way up there in your mind and they may have a different opinion base off the experience or there the lack of, you display.
If sex is what got this relationship start then yeah, you all missed the connection. It may be best to let this one go because there was no spark there from the beginning, just sex and if that is gone then so is the relationship. You have to get to know a person before sex. You cannot build a relationship around sex, because it will be your downfall every time.
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove