No Family Bond Post Today

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I’m up in my feelings today. Listening to love songs, eating chocolate, sounding quality time with myself before I explode. Why do people play with your mental knowing at any moment you can snap?

I’m going to do this motherfucker a favor and stay to myself today. He is ruining my chances for a “Timeless Tuesday” with all his bull shit. I’m going to have to take a couple of days to get back to myself.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 6…Segment 9.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

To you men, who will only date, or lay down with a bad bitch; you know the sister with either the fake breast or ass.  The ones who is a dime piece, remember you aren’t the only one trying or pulling this “bad bitch” or “dime piece.”  Now pay attention if she ever goes shopping on her dime and only date players, ballers, shot callers, pimps, or pushers, then your “bad bitch” or “dime piece” is a whore or in ghetto slang a “hoe.”  You might want to reevaluate your definition of a wife or baby mother, because she is the same woman that you will be talking about when you are at Child Support and can’t afford it.  If she only shops on your dime, she could be broke, as hell and you know she cannot be faithful to a broke as man once it’s all gone.  She will always be the next man’s woman for her come-up!  If you out here living in your false when you are truly broke and living on the streets my brothers then reality will have you living in your truth soon enough.

Ladies stop trying to be more than what is intended for you to be.  If you can’t take care of yourself then don’t want more than you can afford for yourself.  Let me see you don’t work, look good and can’t afford to live the rich and famous life unless someone is paying for it.  You sell yourself short of knowledge and work with just your looks.  When that’s gone and there’s no one to take care of you, how will be survive then?  Your self-worth has to be more than just looks because there will always be a woman that some man will think is much prettier, sexier, and more attractive than you.  No, I’m not saying don’t take pride in your looks, what I am saying is not to allow that to be the only thing you can bring to the table, just in case the table gets empty. 

Then you ladies say you will only date players, ballers, shot callers, pimps, or pushers, guys with money in their pockets.  Best believe if you are in his pockets so is the next woman.  At this point you are sacrificing love, and happiness for money but you really don’t care just as long as he can afford you.  Then be upset when he can afford six or seven women just like you.  Why are you upset you are only in it for the money and he is only in it for sex?  Wow, how we have fallen so low to achieve nothing?  What is the goal here?  To drain each other of one another’s personality or life until there is nothing left for anyone else.  To abuse their talent because you do not have one.  Get a hobby and learn something other than what the next man has I want. 

We judge but let no one judge us.  You are not perfect and stop thinking you are.  We are people trying to make life different just like everyone else, but we only should judge if we are personally aiding whomever you are judging, if not keep your opinions to yourself.  No excuse me unless they are helpful then by all mean speak, if not then shut up! To them we only just a number 123-45-6789 = your social security number.  We as black people will never be more than that to people who believe we are worthless and demonized.  If you didn’t know you know now that your social security numbers are money and pays for the government.  It is also how the Federal Government borrow money for the “United States,” with your social.    

Just to be clear, I didn’t write this to down play anyone or to make anyone feel like they are less than. I am writing this to open your minds and eye to the truth. To let you know that you aren’t alone and that they hear you but they are afraid to acknowledge you. They know they an help but they are afraid that helping mean that they lose on what they have. In reality I believe it increases what you have unless you give more than you can or should. Then yes it will take away from what you have. Give and do what you can is all I’m asking.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove.

Timeless Tuesday

Timeless Tuesday

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

There is no morning like a refreshed morning. When you wake from a good nights rest and the day seems like it will head in the right direction. There is no pain, aches or feeling of worries. You rise and thank the Lord for your life. Then from nowhere a smile comes across your face. You don’t wonder you just embrace it. There is a good feeling coursing through your body and you have an urge to move, whether it is to dance or just get out and explore. There is a little tune playing in your head and you aren’t sure what it is but it got you moving, while make the best of time.

You already can feel that it is going to be a great day. You eat breakfast and for once it is what your taste buds wanted. How satisfying. You are out the door early and it is not bothering you at all. Your on your way to your destination being work, school, market or whatever; traffic is light and the street aren’t crowded nor noisy. You pinch yourself to make sure your not dreaming. The pedestrians aren’t rude and the other drivers are cooperating. This morning is the best in a long time.

Your confidence is up and your motivation is through the roof. The sense of accomplishment is in the air and you are breathing it all in. When you finally arrive to your destination and no one is cranky, irritating, annoying, ignorant or pestering, so at that moment you know it is going to be a great day. Everyone is in a good mood and you are in achievement mode. You are going to waste this day for nothing. The sky is clear with no chance of rain in the forecast. You think to yourself whatever can I ask for, nothing. It is turning out to be a perfect day.

During lunch no one is hovering over your shoulder asking are you finish with assignment or did you get a specific assignment. You eat in peace while reading that book you have been dying to finish. Your meal isn’t horrible and yes you finish it all this time around. You don’t have to rush through it and as you look around everyone is smiling and getting along. There is no sign of hate or dislike anywhere. After lunch you manage to finish your project you been working on for a while. The supervisor or teacher notice you and congratulate you for your accomplishment. The feeling is awesome and no one is hating on you for getting praise for a job well done. They too are acknowledging your work with great accolade.

Work is done and now it is time to head home and once again the traffic is on your side. How accommodating, but you wouldn’t be upset if it wasn’t your day went well and nothing is going to change that. Home without delays or accidents, now a quick dinner and some television. A call come in for a invite out for two hours with some friends. You feel as though you deserve it no you earned it, so why not. A quick shower, yes the water is hot, and you didn’t have to wait for it; dress and out the door for a night out. A few laughs, a mention of your accomplishment at work, lots of congratulations in your honor. A smile from an admirer and then the exchange of your number for continuous communication, which turns into a relationship. All because you had a great morning.

What a Tuesday to remember? No what a timeless Tuesday to add to the record books.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

I’m Back

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Welcome back, I hope all is well. I want to congratulate all who have children who have returned to school this year and wish them a happy and safe return. It has been a great couple of weeks for my family even with the bumps in the road.

My truck is out of the shop and operating well for us. My daughter is networking and making real business moves. My oldest son is going to start a team for Tuberous Sclerosis walk in April 2020. I will keep you updated so you all can join and support the cause. My youngest is taking all sophomore classes in his first year of high school. My granddaughter is taking kindergarten like a champ and making new friends. We are all motivated for the upcoming year and making moves to ensure a happy 2020.

What have you all been up to lately?

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 3…Segment 2.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

How fucked up do we have to be to know there is a home for him and continue like it doesn’t matter.  Our responsibilities to ourselves has be to in question at this point.  Why are we allowing this to happen to us?  What has gone so wrong in our life where we think this is a good idea?  How many other women have he done this to since his relationship has soured?  Are we this desperate for a companionship to allow this to go further?  When are we going to step our lives up and be more than a side piece?  How much do we really value our lives?  Is this what we want for our children; our sons to dog women like so, or for our daughters to be dogged like so?

Once we can answer these questions honestly, then we are ready for the next step in our lives.  Getting to know who we really are and what we want from our husbands could help us in choosing and making better decision about our relationships.  We will no longer think on a scale of boyfriends, side men, lovers, one-night stands but as long-term life partners, husbands.  For we are women who deserves to be treated like so by our married Kings; no not married to another Queen but to us.

Some people expectations are different and some have other Queens but the fact remains, just be the only one.  If your man/woman isn’t loyal then dethrone them.  Remember wait for your King because the Higher Power only really sends you one.  All the others are imposters, playing a role, but you must be the writer, director, producer, and narrator of your story, if not then you yourself will just play a part in a role not fit for you.  I guarantee you will not like the ending!

Look at it like this, life is a movie.  You can make it short and sweet or you can make it long with twists and turns to keep the audience (on lookers) guessing.  The cast is your choice but remember there is always a price for the more actors you put in place.  Being the director of your life as well as the producer means when the movie isn’t cast as you want you can change the people.  When it’s not written to your pleasure you can rewrite the script and when it’s not being played out in your favor redirect your characters.  This mean that you will lose some friends and family, but remember it’s your life so plan it accordingly.

People you do have the power to change so do it, you do have the will to live differently and the strength to help change others.  We know better so why don’t we as a black race do better.  Our mental capacity is blocked by the world’s and “society’s” chaos.  We give “society” to much credit for all their materialistic crap and then follow suit.  What we haven’t figure out just yet is that “society” cannot survive without us.

All the money we spend and all the trouble our kind get into feeds “society,” putting food on their tables, and their children through those Ivy League schools.  So technically we are their bread winners.  We still make and take care of them and deny our own.  The worst part is when one of us makes it we all are supposed to make it, but we don’t.  The one’s who makes it give “society” all their praise but leave their own kind behind to starve.  The one thing they do know is that without the less fortunate or the little people they wouldn’t have achieved anything, but we get stepped on. 

We as women have been putting up with “society’s” and black men bull shit since the beginning.  We know we are the back bone to the household without our strength the black man would fall.  What we see today is a lack of black women standing behind the black man because they are fed up.  We now stand in front or alone because the black man has fallen and felt hard.  As a black woman, I cannot standby and allow any of my black men to continue to fall.  If we as black women would learn to pick them up when they fall, they will be grateful but only if those single women stay out of your way.  Single ladies be alert for their own King; everything will go accordingly.  I must try to stand him up and uplift his spirits and motivate his mind, believe in his ability to do better than what he has shown me.

If I am of his “rib” then when he fails, I fail and I don’t believe in failure.  No more, when he fails, I am to give him life and restore what has caused the failure.  I shall not criticize nor ridicule him of his manhood or his mistakes.

C – Cast aside his strength, tries and abilities.

A – Abuse them mentally, and physically

S – Sexual denial of his woman from her man, please.

T – Testimony of his/her betrayal afterwards

R – Referencing negativity repeatedly.

A – Afraid of responsibilities for your actions.

T – Torment and taunt the soul when it’s fragile.

E – Embellish the truth to stay faced.

Now is the time to stand up and tell our men, son, brothers, and fathers, be a man and take your throne back.  I will fight by your side but only for the right reason.  I can no longer ride or die for you for negative or unproductive shit.  Tell them you are going to die alone and for nothing because you have nothing, no morals, values, self-respect and now no life.

Sending you all kisses and love. #GoddessLove