Forgiveness Friday – Can You Or Is It Too Painful?

Goddess morning Royals đź‘‘. First give praise and worship to the all High.

Have you ever felt like life was more than you could bare?

You don’t have anyone to blame but yourself. We as people have the tendency to take on more than we can bare to please others or to look good to others, including whomever you worship. I believe people have eyes and can see for themselves all you do. You’ll mill yourself trying to be everything for everyone and nothing for yourself.

I can’t be your everything and you be your nothing!

Kenya D. Spann

If you give your all and no one commends you on it, don’t do more for recognition, actual do less. Then they will know you do a lot for them and realize you are the one. If that doesn’t work then you need to learn to forgive yourself and thank yourself.

Self praise is better for you anyway. You don’t need an audience to approve what you have done for them, you just need to know you done good and praise yourself for doing so. So what no one gave you a plaque for a job well done, but will you continue to do the work? So what no one saw you help save that child’s life and made a big deal about, but will you save the next one if needed?

We live in times where if there is no praise and glory from a public audience you feel worthless, but they don’t have to live with you, you do. Ask yourself do you really need recognition, glory, adoring fans, accolades, plagues, rewards to feel good about something you’ve done suddenly, successfully, accidentally, or professionally! If your answer is yes, then ask yourself this; will you feel the same if you wasn’t so successful in your attempt, feel the same way? If the little child you tried to save died, would you still need all that you want if you were successful?

You have to allow greatness to fall upon you because when you prey on it, so do others. Failure is not far in the distance when you look for accolades from others for something that was thrust upon you. Humble yourself for more will come and no one or nothing can take it from you!

Forgive yourself when you do glorify yourself in the recognition, praise, worship of others. You don’t need their approval to be great at being you!

How about when the shoe on the other foot? Someone is basking in the saving of your life. Someone is basking in the glory of giving you something or doing something for you. They are bragging about it so much it is driving you crazy. The public can’t help but give them praise for doing something humane! Every time you turned around people only recognized you for what that people did for you or what they gave you; how would that make you feel? Would you be so damned that you do or say something that makes you look unappreciative? Would you do something dishonorable to disgrace that person? Could you be forgiving of that person for wanting to bask in the glory, accolades for what they did for you or what the gave you or for saving your life? If not, then don’t do it to others, because they may feel the same way!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Published by missk22

I am a free spirit! Speak my mind a lot. Published author! Business & Psychology major! AA in Healthcare Administration; BBA in Accounting/Finance. Working on my masters in Psychology. Mother, hairstylist, nail technician and so much more.

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