Timeless Tuesday! Aging

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship tot he all High.

I feel like getting up in age makes me better with everything.

My patience is better now. When I was younger, I had no time for anything or anyone. It was all about me and I focused on me and what I wanted to do. As time when on I noticed that my siblings were falling behind in life so I had to find time to give them to make sure they got the proper quality time they needed to make them better in life. Then my parents started moving out of their lives and so I moved right in. I can’t say it was for the best though, but I did what I could and some times it was hard. Now that we are older they tell me that I was mean but they get it now. They told me as children they wish that our parents were better at taking care of them because I was a dictator. I told them that I was a child raising children. I only knew what I knew and that was how my parents treated me. They said that now that they have children they get it now. They can sympathize and empathize with me. Then they reminded me that I told them that when they were little. “Wait until you have children you will see why my patients is none existing.” Well they had to find out the hard way and now they can relate. Children will try your patience if they try noting else.

Then having your own life is a hard thing to do when you have children or assisting someone else with raising their children. After while it seems to weigh heavy on you, like you don’t want to or can’t do it anymore. You learn things about yourself that you never knew as well as don’t like. You even find ways to like yourself after you found out you don’t like something about your actions. Anything and everything helps when dealing with children. You definitely need to know how to divide yourself so that giving your all won’t overwhelm you at all. I know first hand that you need time for yourself. I know that isn’t a realistic thing but find it, even if it is a few minutes out of a day, wherein, you can just take a deep breath and breathe in the silence. Allow your body to become relaxed as well as your mind. For a few minutes a day, clear your mind of all thoughts and just relax. Don’t worry or stress about what needs to be done, just smile on the things that have already been done. Then let it all go. when you are relax, it will all come to you in a manner of order and not of chaos. It will show up where in you can accomplish it step by step. We are getting old not young people and our bodies will show if it doesn’t tell us.

Now that I am well in my 40’s my days are less stressful because I take a few minutes a day to think about me, not about everyone else and what everyone else needs, just me. I focus on me and what I need and what I want. I just take a moment to collect my thoughts on me. Did I eat today? Did I do all I wanted to do today for me? Do I have anything else I need to do for me before I get started on finishing what everyone else need? If no is my answer then I find time to do what I need for me. Then I proceed to carry out the mission of those who I love but I do remember me in the course of my day.

Remember without you there is no us. There is only them. So make time for yourself and enjoy life, you only get one.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

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