Goddess Morning Royals
This is really hurting my heart to see, hear and be a part of; children of broken families.
Why are innocent children the pulley system between parents? Why must they be torn between mom and dad or mom’s side of the family and dad’s side of the family? This is why they are unhealthy and discombobulated. This is why they are uncertain of their status and who they can turn to when there is a crisis in their existence and they turn to the wrong people.
When mom and dad is beefing and there is turmoil in their hearts to one another in reference to their fail relationship, why are the children their leverage. That is not why children exist! When the mother cannot get her way she turns to the government to hurt the father and when the father can’t get his way he uses his absence to hurt the mother. When in fact the only person getting hurt in the whole situation is the child or children. When is this ever going to end? It takes place the whole time the children are growing and make matters harder when the children are adults. Why you ask?
When children grow to be adults and they lived through such hate they tend to think it is the way to get what you want and need for the child. They tend to do exactly what was done to them to their children. Thinking they were raised just fine and see no problem but there are a lot of hidden problems occurring and anger manifesting into stress and hatred. Then health issues occur and they swear they have no idea where it comes from or label it “hereditary”, when indeed it is just something learned and taught. Just like history bad habits repeats themselves over and over again until the cycle can be broken and if you aren’t one willing to break it then your children are just going to repeat history. So when you are preparing to be a grandparent and praying for your grandchild to live a healthy normal life but didn’t give your children one nor did you have one, just expect for the child or those children not to have one as well.
Come on break the cycle. Learn to love and live happily as a family even if it is separate. Yeah I know he did you wrong and she isn’t no good, but do the children have to know that. No they don’t. All they ever have to know is that Mom and Dad loves them and show them every day. Speak positivity where negativity manifest. Speak encouragement when your heart is discouraged. Speak truth where lies use to live and try to make a different life for your children so they will know only of love from Mom and Dad. When they are in need they know that they can turn to Mom and Dad not the unknown. Later that turmoil can be your worst enemy and manifest inward and your children end up hating just themselves and no other. Killing themselves so that they don’t have to worry about keep making their parents unhappy. Think about that they next time you want to argue with your children’s Mother or Father in front of them or even speak bad about them when the children are around. If you can’t be cordial to one another how can you all expect the children to behave in public when you all aren’t around. They will act as they have learned, disrepectful, ignorant, loud, argumentative, judgemental, disobedient, rude, and childish. We have to do better, no we will do better than what we have been doing for the children’s sake and future.
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove