Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.
How far do you get before it becomes intercourse cheating? We all flirt a little, but some of us takes it too far. Some go as far as giving out their contact information, acceptance on social media or lying about not being in a relationship at all. A second glance, a little smile, a wave, a wink, a soft spoken hello, is all the flirting most of us do. It’s all cheating if you are involved with someone.
Do you do it because you want to see if you still got it? Do you do it because you don’t know what your significant other is doing? Do you do it because you can? If so then they are all insecurities that you have within you.
No one makes you do it, sometimes it’s human nature. I know I have done it but not for the reasons listed. It’s just that I’m a flirt. I do it when I’m out with my husband but I know I’m going home with him and no I don’t give out my number or allow it to interfer with our relationship. He knows I do it and it doesn’t bother him because I catch him doing it as well. It’s just in us to do it so I know he does it when I’m not around. Does it bother me? No, I think because I do it I can’t be affected nor feel a certain way about it. I think I was the one who done it first.
One day we were out and a certain person caught my eye and I acted on it with a soft hello. My husband caught it and said something about it. I assured him it was innocent but then he did it and because it didn’t affect me, he felt some kind of way. Since then he’s been trying to make me jealous but I can’t be. I like men and women so I am not affected by his flirting. I even get him to look at some women that I flirt with. Now he just go with it and doesn’t allow it life because he knows it’s innocent. It took him a while to see it but he’s there now and that’s all that matters.
He knows our bond is unbreakable and so we move on. We don’t allow it to affect us in any way, shape or form. So if there is more than what is going on then he has to deal with that not me, because I’m solid where I stand. I tell you this though losing a good thing over something you could control only to realize how bad you messed up is all on you. When it’s gone is when it hits you that you should’ve paid more attention to what you had and not what could have been.
It’s always easy to get something it’s just hard keeping it, especially if you don’t deserve it.
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove