Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.
We take things that we have so easily for granted. We taking knowing that a person loves us unconditionally for granted. We believe that if they love us they will never leave us. We believe that if we are married and they chose us then we are set for life. We think that if they haven’t cheated by now we are safe.
That isn’t true! If you appreciate having someone to come home to will make you safe then you haven’t lived until you don’t have someone to come home to. You learn to appreciate not only have someone to come home to but someone who wants you to come home to them. It isn’t all about what you want and need it is also about what that person want and needs from you. If they have no desire to see you they will not be there when you get there nor will the rush to get there knowing you are there.
If you appreciate having someone to eat with makes cooking worth the time then keep doing that. It is when you cook and they never come to eat it, or when you cook and they have already eaten someone else’s dinner. When you appreciate them they will not only be home for dinner but they will be there to help or have already made you dinner. It’s the little things like, you cook and they wash that lets you know you are appreciated. Not you cook and they put their dish in the sink and leave it for you to wash.
If you appreciate your significant other and they appreciate you the same. You adore the little things and be humble to the bigger things that they do for you, because they know that it goes without saying. They can see the love in your eyes, smile, face, and actions; your words aren’t needed.
So how much do you appreciate your significant other?
It’s when you have a bad day and they can see it so they make it all go away without you even saying a word. It’s when you come home tired and they have done everything you would have done for them. It’s when you need a break and they offer it without you asking or without them saying. It’s when you are tense and they make you feel relaxed. It’s when you crying and they console you or cry with you. It’s when you laugh and they are so happy they laugh with you. It’s when you are blessed and they know they are as well. It’s when you are filled with joy and somehow they know it is because of them and they feel the same because they know it’s because of you.
So how much do you appreciate you significant other?
When you use the car and fill it up afterwards. It’s when you give them money for lunch knowing they have their own. Better yet its when you got up and make them breakfast and lunch, just because. It’s when you get new tires for their vehicle because he saw the other ones losing tread. It’s when you kiss them on the forehead and say thank you for no reason at all you are just happy to have them in your life. It’s when you initiate sex and they have no idea it was coming. It’s when you get tickets to their favorite show, musical, play or concert. It’s when you in the car and you play their favorite music to put a smile on their face. It’s when you wear their favorite perfume/cologne. It’s when you notice the little things, changes, and the big life changes as well. It’s when you are there when they feel no one else will be there. It’s when death is knocking and you are standing blocking the front door.
Appreciation goes a long way.
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove