Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.
Happy Thanksgiving Eve. Hope all is well and preparing those dinners for you family and friends gatherings.
Did you job only give you tomorrow off for the holidays? Are they always on your back about something that isn’t in your job description to do? Are they always asking of you but not making financial decision that you make you more than happy to do what they ask of you? Are you thinking of quitting? Are you thinking of causing harm? Are you thinking of going off on someone?
STOP! Think about it, is it really worth it? Is throwing your life away for someone else’s pathetic life worth your freedom, your dignity, or self worth. No it isn’t! Is this really want they wanted, to see you fired instead. Do you think they wanted to make life so hard for you that you can’t find another job. When in reality if they need that much from you all you have to do is walk away. I mean just give them two weeks notice if it is getting to be too hard and it isn’t work related. Walk away with your dignity and pride in tact. Don’t give anyone the satisfaction of firing you and making life more difficult for you. When giving your two weeks notice, just tell them it is personal and you rather not discuss it with anyone. Work through some things and then go find you another job and use them as a reference because they have no idea why you left to begin with. So in reality all they have on you is that you a hard worker with great work ethics.
Friends on the job. Why? If you didn’t grow with them or know them before starting that job then just call them associates. I say this because if there is rumors, lies, buzzing, or any other side business coming your way and you don’t know where it came from. Look at the person or people you call friends. For me personally, my home life is just that. My work life is just that and I don’t mix the two. Meaning if you don’t know me outside of the workplace then you have no business knowing of my home life. If you do then, please keep my business out of everyone’s ears, so it won’t have to come out of their mouth incorrect. The thing is I see people just starting jobs and already they have best friends with people they just met. Then when things aren’t going their way or things are looking a little different, they act like they don’t know who to blame. No not the people or person you claimed as your friend but yourself! You have to stop wanting friends so bad that you give your whole life story to people and think that they are your friends, when they are only associates. You think just because they know of your status or situation and can relate that you need to tell them everything. You don’t because it becomes work business and the two just don’t mix.
Growth! It you are planning on growing within your workplace. Don’t tell everyone your business. It becomes more of a competition and that wasn’t the plan. You tell your “friend” who now wants the position as well. They think if you can do it they know they can do it as well. They then start to tell people of your problems and now you aren’t looking like a strong candidate for the position. Not every move you make is for everyone. Sometimes you just have to keep it to yourself and move in silence. Think about it, when you move up you really get to see who your friends are and how much you really know the people you call “friends.” When you do grow, I just want you to step on people. I want you to recognize people for who they are and what they are worth. Elevation is for everyone at some point, so don’t climb that ladder and step on other because you could slip and fall, seeing those same people on you slide down.
Positivity! On the other hand if you are more than excite to be on your job then let the company know. Don’t be afraid to send a thank you note to the supervisor or the CEO or President of the company for your opportunity to prove yourself. Getting recognized for you talent isn’t a bad thing at all. In fact it is what most employer are looking for; people who stand out and make a difference for their company. Now, I didn’t say overstep your boundaries and go to the Director or CEO for a promotion but I mean send them a thank you gift when you get hired will make them remember your name. If you are always being awarded at your job then you are being recognized for your worth. They see you and noticed that you stay out of trouble and don’t bring the drama to the workplace. Meaning you stay to yourself and do your job. Keep up the good work. #Proud
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove