The Family Bond! Chapter 7…Segment 3.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

If a woman is single and meet a man who is single then they must learn how to be each other’s support system but only if they have decided to title one another.  If it’s only pure sexually then so it shall be, but remember there’s no soul in that.  It can only lead to heart ache and loneliness.  Eventually you will want more for yourself and of your life. 

The phrase I was born alone I will die alone isn’t true.  You were born with your mother right there, the only thing is you were born single, not alone.  Now the choice to die alone is yours.  It’s up to you as a person to take a road of solitude.  There are plenty of options in life as you grow to ensure you don’t have to die alone.  Once the relationship has been proven then and only then can the real support begin.  Guys remember that women had a life before this commitment and ladies remember that men had one as well.  Now you must be reminded that you have to fill a void in one another’s life.  Just a reminder that she had her girls before you came along.  She was around her girls and had someone to vent to and cry to.  Always had a listening ear and someone to shop with so now you must be all that to and for her. 

Ladies just a reminder he had his boys and always had going out partners.  Someone to go to the gym with as well as men to talk out things with.  So now if you hold that title you will have to be all that and more to him.   You both have new roles to play in each other’s lives, if neither of you call fill the bill nor are willing to take on the challenge then leave each other alone.  It can only end in misery, hatred, and heart ache.  You should think and act how you want this person to treat you and tell them so they can know.  Honestly, no one is a mind reader, so no one really knows what you want until you say.  No one knows you but is taking the time to get to know you.  Please don’t do it the physical first, when the mental is unstable singing yours should’ve, could’ve, would’ve, when all you had to do is observe and ask questions in the first place.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove


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I am a free spirit! Speak my mind a lot. Published author! Business & Psychology major! AA in Healthcare Administration; BBA in Accounting/Finance. Working on my masters in Psychology. Mother, hairstylist, nail technician and so much more.

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