LOVE

Goddess morning Royals First, give praise and worship to the all High.

We are going to explore this word from so many perspectives and understand that without it that people would not exist. 

First, before you can love someone else you need to love yourself. Love yourself as if you are in love with yourself. Sounds conceited I know but hey if you don’t love yourself and mean it no one else will. You have to trust the process of loving yourself beyond others loving you or you will fall when you feel as though you aren’t being loved enough. You must first learn your self-worth before you can love or give “your love” to others. If you have no self-worth then you won’t recognize when the love received isn’t genuine. Let me clarify, what you think is love may only be lust, and then when it is gone or someone else comes along with genuine love for you, you will not recognize that either. Lust and love will be confusing to someone who doesn’t know their self-worth. Your emotions will be behooved because you have been bamboozled into believing you were being loved. This form of love starts in the home as a child and if it wasn’t received then there is no way you will understand real love. Which in turn means that you are unable to give love genuinely, none received none to give. Is this understood?

When giving love with conditions, there are consequences. You have to know that what you want is genuine then what you give has to be genuine as well. You can’t ride a horse backward in hopes that the horse knows where you want to go, that’s just ass backward, literally. You have to first verbalize your intentions and then act upon them so that the person receiving them understands what you want from them as well as aspects of them. Now here is the tricky part you now have to listen to them tell you the same thing. Remember love is a two-way street not one direction or dimension. To get what you need you first must know what that is. If all you need or think you need is money (financial support) then get yourself a better job and if that requires you to get and better education then reach your goals. Love isn’t about what purse he can afford it is about what bills he’ll pay without you asking because he see a need to do so. Love isn’t about how much sex she is willing to give you if you pay a bill, it’s about how much she cares for you to please you and keep you pleased. Love isn’t about how much sex is on the table but when to cuddle you in your time of need. Love isn’t about where you live, it is about if you all can live together as one anywhere. Love isn’t about the number of children you should have but whether or not you all are will to raise them as a whole family, forever. The love you display will determine if your children understand the love they’re going to receive. See it starts at home!

Love yourself enough that your joy and happiness don’t need a co-signer. I say this because if you love yourself unconditionally then when no one else does your happiness or joy isn’t bothered by the lack of. Don’t rely on someone making you happy to feel love or happiness, that will only lead to disappointment when the happiness is gone. Remember this happiness is within not outward. Once you understand this you will not be unhappy or bored with yourself when you are alone. You will be at peace with the reflection you see in the mirror and will make no changes. You will understand that their misery couldn’t break your joy nor did it come close. You will shut doors to uncertainty like the wind blowing hay. You know that kind of bull wasn’t of your character and so you will be happily missed by the bullshit. 

Once you love you beyond another depression and anxiety have no home in your presence for your life is grand and you are living the best you possible. I know most will say you are cocky but you simply tell them it isn’t cockiness it is confidence. Tell them unlike you I know my self-worth, I know what I bring to life and what I deserve from it. If you have no idea your status then I suggest you take this time and find out what you have for yourself not for others. 

If you have love for you then you will not settle for less. If you have financial stability then you are no one’s whore for money. If you have self control then you are no one puppet. If you have joy then no one can steal it unless you give it away. If you have confidence then no one can make you doubt yourself. If you have a home then no one will put you out on the streets unless you are stupid enough to surrender your everything for nothing. If you know who you are no one can tell you or call you less and you accept it. People it is just that simple. Low self-esteem comes from a lack of self-worth. Now don’t get too high you start looking down on others for the lack of, because that same horse you climb up on will buck and allow you to fall to the ground. Humble yourself accordingly, and know when to show your abilities and when to allow them to be discovered. 

Everyone needs love but no all are deserving of yours, remember that. 

Sending you all love and encouragement. #GoddessLove