Loving Yourself

Goddess morning Royals. First give praise and worship to the all High.

I know I’ve touched on this issue before but I don’t think that most are getting it. It is a know fact that you can’t love someone and not love yourself. Without self love there cannot be any love for another. That just doesn’t make any sense at all.

Tell me how can you love someone and hate yourself or not know how to love yourself? The problem is I don’t think people really hate themselves, I think they haven’t experienced true love not even from their parents which in tells makes it harder to experience true love from another. They try but it falls short because they can’t tell if it’s real because they have no clue what love is.

Some gets a glimpse of love and then try to enhance that feeling into what they believe is true love. They think money makes it better when it seems like it is failing. Not so, for a matter of fact it makes it worse. Then you think that they don’t love you because they won’t accept your token of affection when in fact it is just the opposite.

When it comes to loving yourself, that means your self respect is in tact. That mean that you care about you and all that entails. That means that you don’t allow people to feed you bullshit and tell you that it is food. That means that you nurture and nourish yourself from head to toe and within, out. You believe in your abilities to do what you want and need for you. When responsibilities comes along you take care of them. You are in touch with who you are and know that know one needs to tell you who you are. Not where you come from but who you are within yourself. You go the distance for you and not limit yourself despite with others think about you. You challenge yourself for yourself and not for the like of others. You feel when you are hurt and laugh when you are joyful. Smile when you are happy and cry when there is a reason to do so. Knowing who you are and what you are capable of allows you to know love someone who will fit well with you and you with them. Like puzzle piece you all will fit well and not force it just because it looks like it belongs there. Once all the pieces are in their rightful place, then and only then will you be able to see the whole picture.

So love you and understand you don’t need to play nor fool anyone with love. You have to love within before you can love without.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove


Published by missk22

I am a free spirit! Speak my mind a lot. Published author! Business & Psychology major! AA in Healthcare Administration; BBA in Accounting/Finance. Working on my masters in Psychology. Mother, hairstylist, nail technician and so much more.

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