Sex with the Ex

I know that sex with the ex sounds good because you are already familiar with each other but that can be a downside to it all.
First remember why he or she is your ex! Maybe because they wasn’t attentive to your needs, or were cheating on you, or abusive, a criminal, lazy, thief, liar, good for nothing, or whatever the case may be it is one to remember. Now I’m not saying it was all bad but it couldn’t’ve been all good or they would not be ex.
Secondly, if that all you want is sex then that not good and your self-esteem is low. You should be worth more than sex with someone who didn’t care enough to work it out with you when you all was together! So why set yourself up for more hurt? Because you aren’t really over them and the love you have for them will be substituted for sex, just as long as you can be near them. But what happens when sex is over then he or she is gone and you feel bad or even worst used? But you set yourself up for failure by trying to participate in an activity beyond your capabilities.
You weren’t able to handle such a situation but still you chose to do so. Now let’s what happens when the shoe is on the other foot. When the ex is so much in love or obsessed that they want to have sex with you to be in your presence! This can be just as bad because if your in another relationship and the ex is so willing to do what it takes to be back with you they can make themselves think they have change into the person that you need or is the right person for you. They haven’t grasp the concept of the word ex. So they are into reinventing their way of thinking trying to change your mind into believing your are making the wrong decision! Again unable to grasp the concept of ex. You have to be firm and stand in your convictions with people because if not you find yourself making the same mistakes over again. Life have a way of repeating itself so if your not careful those ideas they planted in your head starts to look real and feel real when its just your ex playing games with your mind. The worst mistake you can ever make is to go back and have sex with this person! All types of diseases can occur or even worst a unloved child can be produced that will further hurt the situation. What if neither wants the child then both shall suffer from either having it or the after effects of an abortion. All I say is think before making your life a living hell! If you do decide to get involve then remember you make your life complicated not others.
But if you trust in yourself you will find your life is just fined without that person.  


Published by missk22

I am a free spirit! Speak my mind a lot. Published author! Business & Psychology major! AA in Healthcare Administration; BBA in Accounting/Finance. Working on my masters in Psychology. Mother, hairstylist, nail technician and so much more.

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