Goddess morning Royals.
I will be the first to tell you that I know I am not perfect! I will scream it from the mountain top and from across the ocean, I have flaws and I am not afraid of them. I don’t even care if they show or not. All that matters to me is that I am comfortable in my skin and in my life. I don’t live to please no one but myself. Sounds selfish I know but if I live to please others then I will be miserable and I am not planning my life like that.
I will not work my life around other people ideas about how I should live, love and enjoy life. I do take into accountability people opinions but I don’t live to please them on what they believe to be facts, no I don’t do that. To me everything is negotiable and debateable. Reason I was given a brain and best believe I use it to the fullest of my capabilities. Make no mistake about me I do value people but not always their opinions. Some people make no sense when giving advice on things that themselves need help with. You would think they would be an expert on it if they are going through it successfully but if they are failing then why offer anyone advice.
I am also the type of person who will ask for help and listen to you if you have some good advice to give me. I am not going to ask and then tell you what advice you should give me because that just isn’t asking for advice that is just indulging in conversation with yourself while someone is standing there. Case in point I will not ask you about something you are good in and I have no clue about it just to turn around and tell you what you need to be telling me. That make no damn sense at all. I will however, get a second opinion or even a third opinion from someone who is either in that field or know of the information that I seek. Then I will evaluate the pros and cons of the three and then form my opinion, next step or a decision based off the information provided.
Believe me I have made a lot of bad decision based off my own assumptions in matters I have no knowledge in because there were no one around for me to ask for advice, but that is how I’ve learned what not to do again. It is called life’s lesson learned. I know that a lot of things I have learned is from a lot of things I have failed at because of my lack of knowledge as well as know how but there is a flip side to it all. I also have gain a lot of wisdom from those mistakes and then went back and corrected my mistakes, failures and faults. I have learned how to be humble from these mistakes, faults, and failures. So perfect I am not but a observer I am, as well as a great listener. I am also very capable of following direction that is giving to me clear and concise. I do understand right from wrong, up from down, and left from right, so if you give me something and it doesn’t sound right I will not take that advice and move on thanking you for your time.
I tell you all this because my promise to myself was to work on me more and more; little by little until I was the best me I could be for me.
Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove