I am in touch with myself all the way around and can identify with who I am. For some people that is a battle within itself. Life as they want it is a conflict of interest but not to him or herself but to others around them. Most people who live double lives are only trying to protect another’s feelings. Then there are people who live in secrecy to protect their lives and the lives of their love ones.
It is never fair for someone to have to live their live in the dark because society is unacceptable to who and how they want to live. The more society fights it the harder they push to live their secret life. Then when they are ready to live life as they think they should the bible comes into play. Honestly the bible should come into play because even that life style is in the bible. It may not be looked upon as right but nevertheless its there.
Contradicting as it is it is spoken in the bible. Just like it is a constitutional amendment #9 right to be gay. No one can stop you from being gay, bi-sexual, lesbian, or any other sexual origin you want to be, they just have to learn to accept you as a human being. Because at the end of the day you are still going to be whoever you wan to be and the only being you will need to justify yourself to is God almighty.
So live life as you should or as you desire as long as its not hurting anyone or causing anyone else physical harm, do you!