Goddess morning Royals 👑. First give praise and worship to the all High.
Well ole buddy ole pal…friends to the end. Words a person with feelings for another never wants to hear, in fact dreads to hear.
How do you go from having feelings, wants, cravings, and desires from a person but end up in the FRIEND ZONE? 🤔 I wonder… I know how. Let’s start with the obvious, fear 😨. He/she will never go for a person like me. See right there you put yourself in the friend zone. You aimed for boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife but hit the bullseye 🎯 for friend. Where’s your confidence in yourself that you are the right person for her or him? Where’s that romance that is just enough for sweeping her or him off their feet? Have enough guts to shoot your shot even if you get turned down.
Now if that person is with someone else and there is uncertainty in their relationship or disappointed then you will know when it’s your time to shoot your shot. If that person and you are meant to be together the door of opportunity will open, just be brave enough to walk through it. But wait because you have some people who will stay in a loveless relationship just to belong. They will keep you in the friend zone on purpose just to know that there’s someone out there who will love them the way they should. Watch them because they are folks who will use and abuse your heart for their selfish benefits.
Then you have those who feel like they have been waiting for you for a lifetime you just never gave them what they were looking for in a mate. Someone with confidence, motivation, determination, courage, and self worth is who they are attracted to but you haven’t displayed any of that. They have been throwing you signals but you have been missing them because your shyness and lack of confidence has blinded you. He or she looks in your direction and you quickly freeze up. They speak even in the company of others. They help you when others find you stupid and clumsy. They smile when they think you’re looking. They always seem to be in the same places you are, but you chalk it up to coincidence.
This is where you come up with multiple excuses for yourself so you don’t have to feel less than. Then opportunity comes along and you miss your chance because you want to now play it cool. Aren’t you an adult; you can just say what the fuck you want to say? It kills me that men and women still wants to play teenage games and lose out on their once in a lifetime experience. They become so overly confident and insecure about past experiences that they put themselves in the FRIEND ZONE. Then say stupid shit like let’s be friends with benefits.
Duh stupid that’s what dildos and pocket pussies are for. Once you accept their stupid suggestion and move on then they want to hangout, get dinner, spend quality time and all types of relationships things with you. By then the door of opportunity has closed and you are in a comfortable place in your new relationship and they are back at trying to find a reason to be in your presence. This is what I hate though when they use family and friends to try to wiggle their way in! Well friend, pal, good buddy you screwed yourself out of a chance.
Know your worth from the beginning so you don’t end up in the friend zone with no real friends just ones that pity you. Timing is everything but time waits for no one. When you see opportunity go for it.
Sending you all hope and prayers. #GoddessLove
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