Saturday, Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it sure makes the rest of you lonely. Charles M. Schulz

It’s an avenue for cheating. Absence makes the mind wander. Once the mind gets involved the heart starts to feel broken, misused, abandoned, ignored and mistrusting. Why do we require absence? If time is so precious why waste it trying to prove someone loves you by not being around. That has to be the dumbest thing ever. I love having my husband around and I never grow tired of him and vice versa.

Your communication has to be strong, and your bond have to be stronger. Your relationship cannot be rocky, a little bitter, in need of work or when that absence is present the thought of you won’t exist. The idea of what they don’t know, won’t hurt them will come into play. Also a misguided quote, because just because your don’t know cancer is killing you doesn’t mean it isn’t hurting you. But I do get it, it’s meant on a mental impact, still hurts either way. The mere thought of your absence lead most people with the idea that you are up to no good. They might not act on it but deep within they feel it, but without proof, they just shut down the thought.

Don’t allow the absence to tear your heart apart! Don’t have an inclination and not question it at least, or investigate it. Yeah you might find the truth but at least it will add closure to the feeling of what if, and mistrust you have when they are gone. It might be something or nothing at all, but you will be at ease more when they aren’t in your presence.

Give your heart relief and your mind peace.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Freaky Friday – Types Of Sexual Personalities

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

In male and female sexual relationships, each individual brings their emotional vocabulary. Emotions influence sexual likes and dislikes. Sexual likes and dislikes are determined by your genetic code, parents, sexual experienced, culture, emotional sexual wounds (hurts), spirituality, dysfunctions, physical structure and personality. Sex, just like foods, motor vehicles, races, planets, music, animals, languages, water (i.e., spring, ocean, distilled, and polluted) and seasons are classified. The classification of sex behaviors is called sexual personalities.

Is sex a big thing to you as well as your partner? Do you want to keep that spark, pizzazz, energy, connection, and desire from the first time? Having an understanding of your sexual personality and your partner’s sexual personality produces more harmony in the relationship. Understanding your partner’s sexual personality gives you the knowledge you need to sexually adapt. You are only sexually compatible or complimentary if you can adapt. Therefore, adapting, adjusting and being flexible use the key to sexual harmony. If you are not sexually compatible or complimentary, then adapting will make you have sexual harmony. Adapting is the key. Next up is some descriptions not precise of some personalities.

Type 1: Warrior (Challenger) Sexuality Birth Date between March 22, and May 12.

  • Warriors like sex to be a struggle, sport and/or a psychological game of chess (mind game). They tend to find sexual delight in a hunter and prey scenario or the now you can have sex and now you cannot have sex (mood game). Sexual reflection is a challenge to their romantic tactics and merely arouses them more. Warriors want to sexually out-perform their sex partner. They tend to want to have a better orgasms than their mate or their mate’s previous partner. They feel sex is enhanced is it is mixed with wit, sexy words, and flirtation. They get excited by dominating sex activities.
  • Female Warriors
    • These females are passionately sensual more than nurturing. They have a need for material security – the more security, the more sexy they are. They feel that the energy the males get from sex with them should contribute to his emotional and intellectual well being. They require emotional security and positive comments. They like their sexual abilities, positions, and foreplay praised or else they will criticize the male’s sexuality. Warriors do not like criticism about their eroticism. They like the male to perform sex in a nurturing manner.
  • Male Warriors
    • Warriors like to feel as if they are in control of the choices of sexual positions and petting. They tend to like females that have a passive outer sexual personality and an aggressive inner sexual personality. They are willing to let the female achieve an orgasm first only if they feel that the female is not their sexual equal. If the female presents too much of a sexual challenge to arouse to orgasmic levels than he may escalate his eroticism as a means to subdue her and be victorious. He tends to imagine himself as a sex idol that is too sexually complicated to be satisfied by any woman.

Join me next week on Freaky 😈 Friday to find out Type Two.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Does The Punishment Really Fit The Crime?

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

When delivering punishment, does it really fit the crime? I only ask because of how people act when repeating the crime again. Repeat offenders either doesn’t get it or the punishment doesn’t fit the crime!

Life can’t be that hard for you to want to be punished in order to get attention. I work with children and what I have learned is that, when children misbehave in school and is punished (suspended, placed in detention, expelled, in timeout, or sent to the principal’s office) for whatever reason they don’t care because they know at home it won’t be a follow-up. They will walk free on their crime (wrong doing, disruption of learning, stealing, fighting, cursing the teacher, spitting, disrespect, running the halls, throwing food, pushing, shoving, yelling and screaming, etc).

They know it is no repercussions for their actions. They understand that parents are scared to discipline because of Child Protective Services. What is so crazy to me is that while we as parents aren’t allow to correct, spank, discipline our birth children, the system is allowed to lock them up, torture, beat, work labor, and manipulate them into false hope. Why do you think that is? What do they think that what they are doing is so different from what we do? I tell you the difference is we discipline because we care. They do it to make them angry 😡😠 enough to stay longer for profit, return for profit, or do worst also for profit. It’s all about the dollar 🤑🏧💲. To us it’s about the upbringing, the morals and values, the embarrassment, the future and how to raise yours when it’s your turn, you know the learning experience.

It only take one thing to make a situation turn to horror. Things can spiral fast when no one wants what’s best for the victim or the culprit. When there is no conflict resolution then the situation haven’t been resolved. When the only result is jail, prison, or death; how can it be resolved. Someone is still hurting, suffering and violated. Why is it that these are the only three solutions to every problem? So do these three solutions really solves all the problems?

No they don’t! The conflict haven’t been resolved and most victims still feel some kind of way about not getting an apology, not getting their side heard, not speaking for themselves, having no say in the punishment or still feeling ashamed. It is a not always the solution to everything; it can’t be and if so that’s why people are the way they are today. They already know the outcome and know their crime has to be dramatic so it can fit the punishment. Perfect example: Eve bit the apple🍎 and her punishment for disobedience was to birth the world, suffer in silence with womanhood. Did the punishment really fit the crime?

All I know is that sometimes we have to stand together and other times we need to stand strong. The truth is we as a whole have to want better education, life, love, justice, peace for all, and future or we will remain in this state of abuse; all of us!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday – Getting Over Poverty

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Is there really a way to get over poverty? I believe so, just not with greed. If everyone only want for themselves then how can everyone profit? How can we feed everyone? How can we clothe everyone? We can’t! Everyone plays a part in someone’s wealth whether they want to believe it or not. The worst part is the poor, lower class is always where the most wealth comes from, only because they don’t want to feel, look, or believe that they are poor.

They want to believe they can afford things others can afford. They want to look just as good poor as those who are rich or well off. They refuse to understand that they are the reason those people are so wealthy. If you stop living beyond your means than you too will see the wealth you possess. You can’t see the wealth because you keep spending it trying to keep up.

It is hard to save when you don’t want your children to look like they are hungry. Even harder when you yourself have habits beyond your control. Saving sound like criticism, like a person down playing your finances when in fact you are. You have to learn to see the bigger picture! If everyone is buying the same thing then you all look alike so honestly no one is standing out to be recognized for who they are. They are just blending in or getting in where they fit in. Crazy part is what if they never fit in, then what?

Don’t try harder, step out and be counted as a person. Live within your means so that when things are really hard you won’t know because you have money, savings, and stability to stand on. You can proudly say, I’m not worried; I got this and mean it. We can all do it and watch what happens next. Watch what happens to those you looked up to. Now you’re able to look them in the eyes, because they’re profits fell and your poverty decreased. Meaning your wealth rose and theirs came down.

Now they have to market something else that will appeal to your inner craving but since your wealth increased you feel like you don’t need bling, fancy clothes, the latest tennis to feel rich, your bank accounts speaks in volume.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Don’t Waste A Moment Of It!

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

If you are still trying to live a bad boy or bad girl life, let it go. 🤔 One way or another you have to leave that life alone. You have to learn to grow up and be a man or woman. Trying to fight everyone or take on everyone’s shit isn’t working for you. You have to know when to allow people to clean up their own shit especially is they ate the bull.

In other words you need to allow people who go out and start trouble, fights, arguments, sell drugs, kill, steal, vandalize, etc., to figure shit out on their own. You can’t continue to be their fallback or their crutch when you know they are going to do the same shit over again. That’s when you are wasting your time, money, energy, mind, and hurting yourself. Have you ever noticed how tired, hurt, misguided, misunderstood, inhibited, unwanted, and disassembled you feel when you run behind someone else’s shit; constantly cleaning up after them because they are fuck ups? No, then you are a great person with no life of your own and this is the life you want because it makes you feel wanted. That’s fine we all have to have something, but have you ever stop to think the reason you don’t have a life is because you “chose” this person’s life as your own. Not that it was thrusted upon you, but that you chose it as your own. You are so bored in your life that you have to allow someone else’s misery to be your comfort. You literally love cleaning up after such a person that you make up excuses for them for why are the way they are.

Somewhere this has to STOP. You are the PROBLEM none of the SOLUTION. You think you are the answer but you are the question; the reason why they do what they do or why they are the way they are! It’s all because of you! You haven’t allowed them time to grow up. You are their savory when they’re playing devil’s advocate. They already know your “super” ass is going to jump in and save the day.

Here’s the crazy part about the whole ordeal, after a while you want a life of your own but can’t figure out how. Then your are blessed with one, but still think you can be Captain Save A Motherfucker, but that doesn’t fit your new life, so you feel torn between the two. Let go of the misery and love the joy. Believe it or not it’s just that damn simple. You can’t have it both ways because once envy sets in with your misery, then pain comes next, then the unimaginable. You don’t want to know how the outcome ends when you chose wrong. I know family over everything, but sometimes it’s family that destroys you from within, out. It’s family that plays on your heartstrings. It’s family that bring you down and never allow you to pick yourself up.

Family is everything but not over everything! You figure out from here, to make your time not wasted, but Timeless.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Manic Monday! Horrible Weekend

Goddess morning Royals 👑. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Responsibility seems to be to much for people to handle!!

I say this because my truck was involved in two hit and runs over the weekend. One thing I realized is it is too big for anyone driving, walking, riding a bike not to see. It’s a Chevy Suburban, so what’s not to see? Well this weekend it might as well have been a Fit because it definitely was a target or used for one.

I have this to say if you are a “social” drinker or an “alcoholic” then you should have a destinated drug-free, non-smoking, non-drinking friend who loves you enough to make sure you are safe getting home and sleeping it off. If they really loved you they would take you straight to rehabilitation, because clearly you need help.

Most people who are alcoholics aren’t aware of their consumption and believe that they can handle it until they wake up in a strange place, in jail, in the hospital, or doesn’t wake at all. Clearly, there is an underlined problem that isn’t being addressed and avoidance is the solution that keep leading you to a bar. Which mean it’s not the solution, but the handicap you use to make it seem better, even for only a few hours. That’s when everything wrong seems right! Wrong again, it’s just a blanket of shame but the cold will bring back the cold black darkness when you sober up.

Reality time! It’s time to get all the help required to make life easier. Obvious, you have no love for yourself and life of others is non-factual. In other words a drunk driver hit five (5) cars today’s totaled three; his own and two others. What make matters worst is the car he hit that is now submerged in my rear, the owner doesn’t want to give me their insurance information. They said because I wasn’t in the vehicle they shouldn’t have to give me their info. The nerve of people! Give up the info because it will be on the police report, dummy.

To the drunk driver who started this chain reaction, wake-up before your last drink be the one that closes your eyes for good!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove