Freaky Friday – Watch For Snakes In Your Own Yard

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Trust is just a hard issue for me. It doesn’t come easily as it doesn’t for others. It has to be earned in order for me to give it.

I trust no one who smiles in my face, while talking about another behind their back. I always ask, “did you tell them that?” If the answer is no I shit it down because you say the same shit about me when I’m not around. What I have learned is that people will play both sides to see which one have the most dirt to give on one another. The one with the most juicy dirt is the side the choose until the way begin and then it’s like they aren’t involved. That’s when they want to be a mutual party.

If you’re not careful about who you talk to and what you talk about; you could be going to war with someone you know nothing about. What’s worst is you never said half the things this person said you said. Just learn not to get involved in bullshit.

With that being said:

And I will witness the end of the current national nightmare!

β€œIn my life, I have watched John Kennedy talk on television about missiles in Cuba. I saw Lyndon Johnson look Richard Russell squarely in the eye and say, “And we shall overcome.” I saw Richard Nixon resign and Gerald Ford tell the Congress that our long national nightmare was over. I saw Jimmy Carter talk about malaise and Ronald Reagan talk about a shining city on a hill. I saw George H.W. Bush deliver the eulogy for the Soviet bloc, and Bill Clinton comfort the survivors of Timothy McVeigh’s madness in Oklahoma City. I saw George W. Bush struggle to make sense of it all on September 11, 2001, and I saw Barack Obama sing ‘Amazing Grace’ in the wounded sanctuary of Mother Emanuel Church in Charleston, South Carolina.

“These were the presidents of my lifetime. These were not perfect men. They were not perfect presidents, god knows. Not one of them was that. But they approached the job, and they took to the podium, with all the gravitas they could muster as appropriate to the job. They tried, at least, to reach for something in the presidency that was beyond their grasp as ordinary human beings. They were not all ennobled by the attempt, but they tried nonetheless.

“And comes now this hopeless, vicious buffoon, and the audience of equally hopeless and vicious buffoons who laughed and cheered when he made sport of a woman whose lasting memory of the trauma she suffered is the laughter of the perpetrators. Now he comes, a man swathed in scandal, with no interest beyond what he can put in his pocket and what he can put over on a universe of suckers, and he does something like this while occupying an office that we gave him, and while endowed with a public trust that he dishonors every day he wakes up in the White House.

“The scion of a multigenerational criminal enterprise, the parameters of which we are only now beginning to comprehend. A vessel for all the worst elements of the American condition. And a cheap, soulless bully besides. We never have had such a cheap counterfeit of a president* as currently occupies the office. We never have had a president* so completely deserving of scorn and yet so small in the office that it almost seems a waste of time and energy to summon up the requisite contempt.

“Watch how a republic dies in the empty eyes of an empty man who feels nothing but his own imaginary greatness, and who cannot find in himself the decency simply to shut up even when it is in his best interest to do so. Presidents don’t have to be heroes to be good presidents. They just have to realize that their humanity is our common humanity, and that their political commonwealth is our political commonwealth, too. Watch him behind the seal of the President of the United States. Isn’t he a funny man? Isn’t what happened to that lady hilarious? Watch the assembled morons cheer. This is the only story now.”


Sending love and kisses to you all. #GoddessLove

Confession Thursday – Are You As Faithful As You Want Your Mate To Believe?

Confession Thursday – Are You As Faithful As You Want Your Mate To Believe?

Goddess morning Royals πŸ‘‘. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

How far do you get before it becomes intercourse cheating? We all flirt a little, but some of us takes it too far. Some go as far as giving out their contact information, acceptance on social media or lying about not being in a relationship at all. A second glance, a little smile, a wave, a wink, a soft spoken hello, is all the flirting most of us do. It’s all cheating if you are involved with someone.

Do you do it because you want to see if you still got it? Do you do it because you don’t know what your significant other is doing? Do you do it because you can? If so then they are all insecurities that you have within you.

No one makes you do it, sometimes it’s human nature. I know I have done it but not for the reasons listed. It’s just that I’m a flirt. I do it when I’m out with my husband but I know I’m going home with him and no I don’t give out my number or allow it to interfer with our relationship. He knows I do it and it doesn’t bother him because I catch him doing it as well. It’s just in us to do it so I know he does it when I’m not around. Does it bother me? No, I think because I do it I can’t be affected nor feel a certain way about it. I think I was the one who done it first.

One day we were out and a certain person caught my eye and I acted on it with a soft hello. My husband caught it and said something about it. I assured him it was innocent but then he did it and because it didn’t affect me, he felt some kind of way. Since then he’s been trying to make me jealous but I can’t be. I like men and women so I am not affected by his flirting. I even get him to look at some women that I flirt with. Now he just go with it and doesn’t allow it life because he knows it’s innocent. It took him a while to see it but he’s there now and that’s all that matters.

He knows our bond is unbreakable and so we move on. We don’t allow it to affect us in any way, shape or form. So if there is more than what is going on then he has to deal with that not me, because I’m solid where I stand. I tell you this though losing a good thing over something you could control only to realize how bad you messed up is all on you. When it’s gone is when it hits you that you should’ve paid more attention to what you had and not what could have been.

It’s always easy to get something it’s just hard keeping it, especially if you don’t deserve it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Wednesday! Hospital Horror

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Well I’m up in this hospital this hump day wishing it would end for sure. I woke in the worst pain possible and couldn’t take it any longer. I got myself together and drove to the hospital. Now I didn’t have to wait long in the emergency waiting room but the experience after I got called was horrible.

After my called my name, took my vitals and verified my demographics, I escorted to a room. The lady then told me to undress and put on a hospital gown, a nurse and doctor will be in to see me as soon a possible. I feel weird so I didn’t do any of that. I looked around the room and it was blood everywhere. I was horrified. I immediately reported to the nurse. I then took pictures and uploaded it to all my social media outlets.

What do think happened next? Well I can’t tell you this it wasn’t pleasant. She left me in the room and in walked environmental services to clean. They took pictures and cleaned up afterwards all while I was still sitting in the room. I then grabbed my coat and walked out the hospital, got in my truck and drove to another hospital. Will in route the hospital manger called my to apologize for what happened and ensured me that if I returned I would get the best treatment possible. I told her I’m where I think I’m gonna get the best service, but what she said about the wait time is what made me change my mind. So I returned to the hospital I was immediately put in a room, and requested a different nurse.

The managers came into my room with apologies and stories, plus excuses. I didn’t think anything about their bull, I just wanted to be treated. They left after I said my peace. The doctor came in right after and asked me what is going on. I told her what I was experiencing and she suggested certain treatment. We went on with the treatments which none helped. Hours later nothing so I asked to be released, discharged because they had no clue as to what was going on with me. I will continue to seek treatment for my pain and discomfort. Pray with and for me.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday! Appreciation

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

I’m appreciative of the time the Higher Power has afforded me upon this rock. I have faced life threatening situations wherein I feel like I should have died. Not sure how my book ends I learned from disaster after disaster and move on. I preach to teach of such incidents so others will know that if they decide to drive that road, some of the consequences they may face. I encourage then to go a different route but some believe that death is a game to be played.

Well this Tuesday I faced yet another challenge wherein I feel like it was over and still my book had not ended. No I’m not trying to end it but my health is becoming a challenge. I guess aging will do that to you, reason why my eating, sleeping, and movements has changed. I cannot walk the same as I did when I was a child, a teenager, nor a young adult. When your body calls for change then change it. When your mind and body is on the same page there is nothing you can’t do to improve your health, life, or spirit. If they aren’t in the same page, you will struggle and life will feel like a battle you can’t win.

Appreciating the time given will make the time taken feel like it didn’t happen. You learn to love the timeless moments and forgive the stolen moments. You long for captive days and pray for the days that got away. The little things becomes more appreciative and the bigger things are no longer. You grasp every moment you can get and when you can’t you don’t feel so bad about it. Time is too precious to wasted it on what could have been instead you hold on to what is, was, and can be. Living for this moment and appreciating it.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoodessLove

Manic Monday! See Me; See Me, Find Me!

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High. Saturday and Sunday post have finally been added, go and check them out. I apologize for the delay.

Have you ever gotten lost or found yourself lost? All you want is to be found. All you want is for someone to see you. All you want is someone to find you. No not hide and go seek but lost! I mean they see you but do they really see you. You don’t look lost to them but deep within yourself you are, lost. You can’t seem to get it right, together or understand life. You seem to do well, but it just doesn’t feel right. It feel inevitable but will never end, like it just keep starting over and over again. You just want answers but all you get is more questions. I get that!

The feeling of being lost is so real that you feel trapped when you are around people because they seem like they are clueless to what is going on around them. Like they all want to be found but no one is looking or them because they can’t see the real them. They only can see what facade they display, but you can see their pain, hurt, insecurities, and shame. You know because you are lost with them. You think that you have no shame, no hurt, no insecurities, but you definitely know of pain. You want to scream, SEE ME! SEE ME! SEE ME!, but you know no one will hear you. You know no one will see you. You just sit, wait and praise that someone will see you, to find you, and to help save you from you.

Find me, find me, find me, I am right here. I am here, please find me. I don’t want to be lost anymore. You can be right in the same house with someone, laying in the same bed, eating the same meal, but still they can’t see you nor find you. You want it to end but how? How can I end this feeling and find myself, because no else is looking? You want to be free, you want to be found, you want to be seen! Look in the mirror, see yourself for who you really are and who you can be. Don’t see yourself for who you think other will want to see or be around or noticed, really see yourself for you. You are the one that is lost so you must be the one to find yourself. You are the one that wants to be seen then finally see yourself, especially if you been seeing isn’t who you are.

Take time to look for you, look at you, love you, in order to see you, find you, and love who you are. People aren’t going to make you happy if you aren’t happy and pleased with yourself. SEE YOU! SEE YOU! SEE YOU! Because I do. FIND YOU! FIND YOU! FIND YOU! Because I found you. BE YOU! BE YOU! BE YOU! Because I see you!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Sunday, Let’s Talk Food With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High. Sorry for the delay, technical difficulties over the weekend.

Corn Soup

  • 1 onion
  • 2 cups cooked corn
    • Add 2 – 3 tbsp of water and blend
  • 1 cup diced cooked potatoes (combine and mix with onion)
  • 2 1/2 cups nut milk (almond, sesame, peanut, cashew)
    • Combine and mix with above
      • 1 tsp. salt
      • 2 tbsp parsley
  • Combine ingredients and bring to a boil. Garnish with parsley and chives.

Crispy Corn

  • 1 cup yellow organic cornmeal
  • fi cup pecan pieces
  • 1/4 cup coconut
  • 1 tsp sea salt
    • Combine ingredients. Add 2 cups of boiling water and stir well. Then spoon onto a flour and oiled cooke sheet. Bake at 400* for approximately 30 minutes or until crispy. Serve with soups or as a bread.

Banana Milk

  • 1/2 cup coconut
  • 3/4 – 1 cup warm water
  • 1/2 cup cooked millet
  • 2- 4 bananas
    • Pinch of salt and vanilla. Blend until smooth. Add an additional 1-2 cups of water, if to thick.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Saturday, Sit Down With Lady K.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High. Second, experienced technical difficulty over the weekend so I am doing Saturday, Sunday and Monday posts today. Enjoy!

Leave People Alone! We all want to help but if they aren’t willing to accepted your assistance then we have to leave them alone. Be the villager that observe and ready to assist when needed but you have to allow people to go through something in order to know they need help. You can’t save them if they don’t want to be saved , or know that they are in need of saving. They have to want you to Captain Save them when they cry out.

What i have noticed is that allow of people suffer in silence and want to remain in silence. They aren’t seeking assistance for their misery because they have so much distrust in the world, for whatever reason. They want their misery to be left alone and for everyone around them to just leave them the hell alone. I get it! There is moments in our lives where we need to be left alone in order to know that we need not to be alone. We have to learn to want no need the help to be able to receive the help. This I can understand.

Its like this, a person who want to commit suicide will try and fail or try and succeed. They will either accept it when you intervene or they will be very upset that you saved them. Some people will cry out loud for help and those who do it in silence doesn’t really want your help. They prefer their silence and want it to stay that way. The world sometimes gets to loud for people and they need silence to hear themselves. They need silence to coop with the demons that keep knocking at their door. They need the Higher Power to hear their cry long before you can hear it and intervene. Some people wants death and prefer it over living because the world around them have gotten to be too big and to unfamiliar; to scary and to hard to handle. They aren’t able to continue on in this life so they just sit and wait for their time to end. We cannot make it less terrifying even though we try, but to them it is still just too much to bare.

I know that we shouldn’t just sit by and watch a love one or a friend deteriorate but we also can’t make them want life if all they seek is death. We can’t make them want light if all they seek is darkness. We can’t make them want to love it all the have is hate. We can’t make them want anything if all they want to be is left alone. it is them who have to want to and say so before we can intervene. I know it is horrible and terrifying to watch, but forcing them will only make them go into a deeper despair and the what, we may have lost them forever to the horror of nothingness.

Ask them if they need you; wait for them to need you and then be needed. Don’t find something that will keep you from them when they finally come around to knowing they need you. Don’t get lost in the crowd that they can’t see you and realize that they are now truly alone. Be their shadow, because unless you are dead that is always around, even when you don’t see it. I am not telling you not to have a life, I am telling don’t waste it trying so hard to fix a person who isn’t ready to be fixed, but to be there when the time is needed.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove