The Family Bond! Chapter 9…Segment 3.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

How do we do that you ask?

Put our money back into our communities.  We build it, grow it, sell it, finance it, borrow it, price it, redirect it, film it, produce it, make it, and love it.  Then we will be able to keep it and leave it for our families and future generations.  They would fight for nothing because they have everything and knowledge on how to keep it, reproduce it, and leave it for the generations yet to come.  They know we are the people!  Don’t be fooled people we are still making America what it is, ever since the beginning.  We built the United States on our back and still building it on our dime.

Here’s the catch though they hate us but I don’t think we were the ones who ask to come here nor asked them to come here.  If Europe was so much better than the “savages” they stole this land from why didn’t you all return to this great place?  From my understanding, all who fled couldn’t return and if they tried.  They would be killed on the spot.  They themselves are the “savages, the outcast, the black sheep.”  They didn’t want to follow the rules there and then came and enforce those same rules upon the Natives of this land.  Didn’t they come and kill, rape, punish and ravage the people already here.  How can Christopher Columbus discover something someone had already found as well as inhabited? 

What they should have said was that they discovered a different type of race but they already knew of our people because the people of Spain made them fully aware of us.  The Spanish people couldn’t conquer us so they figure they would give it a try.

History already told us this correct?  What history left out was the land was ours and ours alone.  Technically, I stand corrected it is of the people, but when did God sell the natural elements, water, gas, electric, so forth and so on.  When did he sell the Earth?

He said it was for the “meek.” Are you telling me that “society” think they are the only “meek” God intend to inherit the Earth?  I think not!

I remember living in East Baltimore and most of the corner store as well as the markets were black owned and operated.  Black people had a future and something to leave the generations under them.  They had jobs when “society” decided they wouldn’t dare hire a black man.  The black community stood behind them and what they believed in.  What happened to those days?

“Society” happened to those days.  First, they poison the black community with cigarettes, then marijuana, then alcohol, and finally drugs.  Being as weak and unproductive as we could we went for it all.  Now we have it all plaguing our communities but it is spilling over into “society,” but they will find a way to control it, within their communities while still infecting our families.

Since we don’t educate our children of their heritage because we ourselves wasn’t educated nor had the will to know, our children are blinded by “society’s” history.  The only history they know is of other’s accomplishments.  Believe you, me all black families have a story, history of their own, not just the ones “society” chose to recognize but the ones they left behind or out of the history books.

We damned our elders for not having much when we should have been paying attention to their struggle to survive.  Listening and learn the stories told by them from their elders.  I too am guilty of somewhat listening but not fully.  Thinking how boring and unexciting those stories was ambushed by “society” games and television or just too wrapped up in wanting to play in the community with all my friends.  This isn’t an excuse and I dare to use it as one. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 9…Segment 2.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

Educating our children isn’t a hard task but first we ourselves need to educate and empower the next adult on what we now or have learned.  Since people of color was the first people on the planet then it is safe to inform you that “society” is of us and not we are of them.  This isn’t the reason for this book and this chapter.  We must have as parent already figured this much out for ourselves.  History itself isn’t all wrong just fabricated to fit “society’s” actions and to make themselves look superior.

This much we know without them tell us so.  We have eyes and ears so we can pretty much hear and see them to think and says this for ourselves.  What we do need to educate our children on is not to allow this to side track them.  “Society” feeds off this type of negative energy every day.  They actually make money off people of colors bad habits, negativity, and frustration.  How?  Because they have it set in their mind and wallets that we will do something stupid that is against the law instead of making a positive out of our situations no matter what they are or how bad they are.

We need to learn not be selfish; wield the knowledge and wisdom thrust upon us.  Rebuilding the community will not be easy, but if we educate our children and teach traditions then they too can carry on in our absence.  We are the indigenous people of this Planet and the only ones who haven’t found ourselves to know we are the rulers of Earth.

The education you supply your children with today could save their lives in the future.  What they learn today will be what they teach their children tomorrow so the legacy will live on but will it be a good legacy or bad one it’s up to you.  Redeem our heritage for a promising future.  If we are to have anything then we need to start somewhere and right now.  We have roamed this Planet since the beginning of Mankind, and still haven’t become distinct yet.  Why you think that is?  You can’t kill what is made to be, we will repopulate just like the earth heals itself we repopulate to keep the Planet from dyeing.

I could lie to you all and say we as people have come along way but like I said I could lie.  Only thing we have done is murder one another, destroy what our ancestors fought for and accomplished.  I can honestly say as a whole we have nothing, but even less as individuals.  Yes, we have homes on land we don’t own, cars and money, but so do “society.”  When you eat, do everyone else eat or do you eat alone.  You might feed them but do they really eat.

Eating and being fed is two different things.  Eating meaning, I can feed myself and those around me, being fed means they can only eat when you are hungry or when someone decides you should eat.  Not the same thing!  Teach the children that if they don’t bring anything to the table then don’t expect to eat.

Show them that if they don’t make something of themselves then they will be exactly what “society” deem them; “nothing!”  We have to show them a new way so they can think differently, preaching but not doing, is just talking.

H – Helping one another to cross bridges.

A – Assaulting each other no more.

R – Raging against “society’s” imprisonment

R – Reaping what you sow.

I – Implying your actions as what they are

E – Embowing the black people structure of unity

T – Tracing our lives to see where we been and where we can go. 

Not all men of our past were who they were and was the hero, we gave credit for their achievements and accomplishment.  Some of the truth was hidden from us but why?  Was it to protect us or to embarrass us later when we found out?  To demolish what hero life, they had in them from our eyes or because “society” knew of their wicked ways and was paid to keep quiet.  “Society” is without a doubt cruel and very unjust to any race except for their own that fits into “society.”  I do believe it’s because they are incapable of humanity, and love.

There only resource is money and power but only because we as black give it to them.  If we turn off the faucet then they can’t drink. If we blew out the polite, they couldn’t eat no warm themselves. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 9…Segment 1.

Goddess afternoon Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High on this rainy day. I see rain as an opening to heaven for all that have fallen victim to the grim reaper, Death! I see it as the All High opening his doors and inviting in his Soldiers.

Chapter 9.  Educating the Children of Their Heritage

All nationalities have enslaved the black man by one way or another.  It makes no sense though, because we as black people have the power and creativity to have not ended up as anyone’s property.  Thus, we have though and now we want to be slaves to them all over again.  Why?  We give them our money at these “society” owned stores to treat us like we are less than their non-spending customers.  We have made it hard for them to respect us by giving them all the respect we have.  When we don’t even have that much respect for ourselves.  If we did then we would know that they stole all from us.  We will know that they can’t make it without us. 

See they know of their heritage, but do we?  No, we don’t and that because they robbed us of such a gift and then decided to full us with lies.  What we do know of is slavery and we know of it all too well.  What they keep from us is what we know within ourselves and that is family love, happiness, and togetherness.  What they can’t have it for us to know of any of that.  “Society need our hate in order to thrive on our wealth, and misfortune, as well as our miseducation.  See they are the same people who stole our history from us and decide to educate us on it so they can leave out how much we already knew and had.  They refuse to educate us in the arts that once was ours.  Their science is ours.  Their wealth is ours.  Their land is ours.  Their fortune belongs to us and they know we just don’t know it. 

Educate them of the greats people who have made life a little more affordable, manageable, free, and peaceful for them by giving their own life.  See they know of the sacrifice but they can’t really feel their pain.  Why because we chose to give them everything under the sun that we didn’t have but at what cause.  We are now sacrificing our bodies, heartache, time, love, morals and values so they won’t know of the struggle.  It has become so much of the normal some even turn the blind eye to the pain and hurt they see you go through.  They have no care in the world of how much you suffer so they can have and some don’t even care what it takes they are just okay with it. 

These are the children that need to know how to share, care, and understand that just because mom and dad do it all doesn’t mean that the world is easy.  Then it’s those children who see the struggle as well as feel the struggle and they are the ones who will step up and try to help the family by any means necessary.  This is when you need to let them know the difference between doing it to lift the family versus doing it to lift yourself. 

Both sides of the coin need to know that life isn’t about materialistic things. When children aren’t taught this lesson, they seem to do whatever it takes to not feed the family but to cloth the family.  They seem to not know the necessities of life versus the wants of life. 

N – Needs are just things needed to survive

E – Everything isn’t for everyone

C – Circumstances calls for thought and not just actions

E – Essential to continue to live

S – Sacrifices made so you don’t have to change the game

S – Situation that calls for payments you can’t afford but you make them

I – Income is what you make it of your life’s choices

T – Testimony of your survival is to be seen and not bragged.

I – Improvement is of one’s self and not one’s wallet

E – Enjoyment is of one’s success and not another’s downfall.

S – Sight is seeing and boosting is convincing.

You don’t have to show your wealth directly because people who have been watching you will see it for themselves.  When you show your success in a derogatory manner it tells your spectators you have plenty for them to take and you won’t miss it at all.  When this happens, you do miss it because you had to flaunt it in other faces who don’t have or isn’t as successful as you are.  Then you are upset because they took from you.  Why?  Instead of bragging you should have been educating them in a different manner.  If you found a different way to manipulate the system then show others as long as it is within a positive manner.  Especially, if you know the system is designed to fail us all, black people.  Not everyone is afforded the same opportunity as others because not lives as we all think.  Just because we live in the same neighborhood doesn’t mean we all live the same.  Behind closed doors is what makes life different for all people. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Timeless Tuesday

Goddess evening Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

A nice quiet day will do you some good. I mean just relax and enjoy whatever life have to offer you. I myself had a great day! I had breakfast with my husband then a nice relaxed time afterwards. After an hour he decided to work on my SUV. He is such a great man to want to work on my vehicle and yes, I assisted him in whatever he needed.

He love to do for me and I love doing for him. Then he assisted me with moving things around in the house for the Winter season. Next it was time with the children and grandchildren. Our time together is always timeless and Tuesdays are always the best.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

Holiday Hypocrisy?

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

January – the first month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the second month of winter: Happy New Year, or so they say January 1st, because I believe my New Year is the day I was born and that is all to that.  Have you ever stopped and thought why they would make a baby the birth of a new year when so many of our children were dying by the hands of those who wishes you a new year?  Then they swear by their resolutions that this year will be better, different from the years before.  Isn’t that the same song every year and will remain the tune until we learn to listen differently and take life seriously.  Why is it that they give you the baby you ask?  It because no one can resist a baby or reject a child coming into this world but they should because “society” chose for your child not to come into this world.  They put plans in motion for your child to be aborted so that they can exploit this well-designed baby new year in your face.  Is that fucking with your psyche?  You abort your baby only for them to shove baby Jesus and New Year in your face like those babies means more than yours.  Damn what a power trip and a fucked-up way of saying your child mean shit or doesn’t compare to the child born on “January 1st or December 25th.”   What a fucking message?

“Martin Luther King, Jr., birthday on January 15th, the very first of many distractions that obstructs our views and brain from growth.  We are taught to believe that Martin; who real name is Michael, born at birth, was all for his people, and this is the reason he was given a holiday.  Keep believing the hype, because that’s all it is.  Keep being blinded by the facade that “society” as well as Martin put on for you so you could be led down a road of turmoil and deception.  I saw the same videos you did and believe you, me, I have questions.  Questions that until this day has not been answered.  Why isn’t Nelson Mandela given a holiday, or Nat Turner?  How about Malcolm X, or Marcus Garvey, or Medgar Evers; where is their holiday?

Then there’s black history month.

February – the second month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the last month of winter: Happy Valentine’s day.  President’s day, Washington’s birthday, Super bowl, Black Friday’s sales going on in Black History Month.

Now I’m not sure if you all are aware but they only mention black history like twenty-four times in this month.  Note* No other time in the year do they mention black history because they gave us a month. 

So that means that they mention black history once a day in February the same month designed or chosen for black history.  When they do, they allow “black people” to speak on something that they chose as their favorite person within black history.  First of all, black’s history happened everyday of the year.  So why are we just able to unfocused on it in February.  I’m not complaining at all but blacks created, designed, educated, empowered, invented, and motivated throughout the year. I understand they want us to be proud of what they are “giving” us, but we as blacks have to acknowledge our ancestry everyday of the year. Be proud of what they sacrificed in order to leave a legacy behind. They supposedly gave us a month but then threw everything on top of it, they could as a diversion from the already lies they were forcing down our throats.

Valentine’s day is a joke in its own rights.  They want your money and like blind people you all give it to them.  How as black people you think it is okay to love someone once a year and think that they are supposed to be loyal and trustworthy the other 364 days of the year.  Are you crazy or deranged?  Please understand that you are supposed to love your significant other every day of the year even when you are upset with one another.  If you don’t then someone else will. 

Fact: Valentine day was about beaten and raping of women with dead animals back in Roman times.  They decided to put a spin on it just to make it more profitable and romantic to those they could profit off.     

President’s day is another commercialized holiday because all the presidents I remember was okay with racism and slavery so why would you all celebrate or acknowledge this “holiday?”  That is all propaganda bull shit to sell you all something and then they have the audacity to give you days off at work for this crap.  You all can’t wait so that they can give you a day to celebrate the slave masters.

Now this is one that I really can’t speak on too much because I too love football, but why is it that it takes over black history month.  It is the only thing everyone including me can talk about, yet it is still a distraction from what is really important and that is black history.  Super bowl Sunday is talked about before the super bowl and then every day in February after the super bowl.  It totally takes away from the facts and hides the truth that we can be easily distracted when it comes to the importance of our race, heritage, nationality and ancestors.

Fact: The history of American football can be traced to early versions of rugby football and association football. Both games have their origin in varieties of football played in Britain in the mid-19th century, in which a football is kicked at a goal or kicked over a line, which in turn were based on the varieties of English public-school football games. The Pro Football Hall of Fame was dedicated at Canton, Ohio, September 7 1963. Green Bay defeated Oakland 33-14 in Super Bowl II at Miami, January 14. The game had the first $3-million gate in pro football history.

March – the third month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the first month of spring: March Madness all relating to basketball, Saint Patrick’s Day

Now I am very curious first they tell us according to their bible that Easter was about the resurrection of Jesus, but then they only advertise a bunny rabbit.  If this supposed to keep from offending anyone because I believe it’s very offensive to Jesus himself.

Now I want to know what is Palm Sunday.  I went and researched the whole situation and this is what I found out.  The Sunday before Easter, when the triumphal entry of Jesus into Jerusalem is celebrated in many Christian churches by processions in which palm fronds are carried. I have nothing more to speak on for this holiday.

Saint Patrick’s Day is in celebration of the Irish and being as though I have Irish in my blood.  I can grasp that ever so slightly but to make it a holiday in association with the resurrection of Jesus kind of worried me.  St. Patrick is the Catholic Patron Saint of Ireland, and St. Patrick’s Day began as a religious celebration.  Catholic saints have their own feast days, with March 17 being the feast of St. Patrick.  In America, St. Patrick’s Day is a celebration of all things Irish, but the true meaning of St. Patrick’s Day in Ireland is primarily religious.

April – the fourth month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the second month of spring: Easter Sunday, Easter Monday, Palm Sunday and Weed Day

According to the Bible Easter Sunday is the Resurrection of Jesus Christ, but instead the commercialize it with bunny rabbit and clothes and toys.  So “society” gives you a lie then cover it up with another lie. 

In retrospect, I have no idea what Easter Monday is about but I’m going to go ahead and guess more propaganda for us to spend more money on things we don’t need but to keep tradition alive and feed our children with this nonsense.  Then they have a weed day which is just ways to push their drugs in flavor in most of the black neighborhood.  I do believe “society’s” law enforcers turn their heads on this day just to stay face with the tradition of the holiday.  Doesn’t make sense because the very next day it is business as usual and they can arrest you for possession of an illegal substance.  Even if they themselves celebrate this holiday.

May – the fifth month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the last month of spring:  Mother’s Day, Memorial Day

Fun Fact: 1870 (Julia Howe wrote the first Mother’s Day proclamation asking women everywhere to join for world peace)

  • Founders: Julia Ward Howe | Ann Jarvis | Anna Jarvis
    • Earliest beginnings: 1868 (Ann Jarvis created a committee to establish ‘Mother’s Friendship Day’)
    • Became nationally recognized: 1914 (proclamation signed by Woodrow Wilson)
    • Founding country: United States
    • First celebrated: 1908 (Anna held a memorial for her mother Ann)

In other words, before Black People became free from the captive.  Now I’m not saying honoring your mother is wrong but in truth you should honor your parents without someone making it a holiday for you to follow.  Remember they are here for you 365 days a year than you should honor them 365 days a year. 

Memorial Day is a federal holiday in the United States for remembering the people who died while serving in the country’s armed forces.  The holiday, which is currently observed every year on the last Monday of May, was held on May 29, 2017.  The holiday was held on May 30 from 1868-1970.  It marks the start of the unofficial summer vacation season, while Labor Day marks its end.  On this day most veteran get things for free but any other day they get treated like crap.  “Society” doesn’t really care about their war vets just need for the world to think they do so when it is time for another war, people will want to go and fight for their country.  Afterwards ask what have your country done for you after you have served and sacrificed for their so-called freedom”

June – the sixth month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the first month of summer: Father’s Day

Only came about because of the celebration of Mother’s Day, as well as Sibling’s Day, and Grandparent’s Day.  Being of color you celebrate the life of your family every cookout, every wedding, baby shower, graduation, engagement, and so forth.  We used to honor our family for everything and long before they started making everyday a holiday of some sort.

July – the seventh month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the second month of summer: Independence Day aka 4th of July. 

Fun Fact: Independence Day of the United States, also referred to as the Fourth of July or July Fourth in the U.S., is a federal holiday commemorating the adoption of the Declaration of Independence 241 years ago in 1776 on July 4 by the Continental Congress.

Here is something that you should know that black people were slaves at the time.  So, the signing of the Declaration of Independence does not represent the black slaves only “society.” 

The reason I do not take part in this holiday nor do I acknowledge it or reference it in any of my daily conversations. 

August – the eighth month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the last month of summer: What is amazing that August has no Federal or State holidays accredited to this month.    

September – the ninth month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the first month of autumn:  Labor Day.  Also, one the nation’s most tragic situations shook America.  Nine-eleven happened and put the country on high alert as well as forced people together as one nation.  When this tragedy happened it crippled America but it also strengthened us as well.  We know it was man made but still it happened.

Labor Day is dedicated to American workers and is used to celebrate their contributions to the country through the year.  It is an annual celebration of those that have given to the prosperity, economy, and the well-being of the country.

October – the tenth month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the second month of autumn: Columbus Day; Halloween

Columbus Day is a national holiday in many countries in the Americas and elsewhere which officially celebrates the anniversary of Christopher Columbus’s arrival in the Americas on October 12, 1492.  The landing is celebrated as “Columbus Day” in the United States, as “Día de la Raza” in many countries in Latin America and as “Día de la Hispanidad” and “Fiesta Nacional” in Spain, where it is also the religious festivity of la Virgen del Pilar.  It is also celebrated as Día de las Américas in Belize and Uruguay, as Día del Respeto a la Diversidad Cultural in Argentina, and as Giornata Nazionale di Cristoforo Colombo or Festa Nazionale di Cristoforo Colombo in Italy and in the Little Italy’s around the world.  These holidays have been celebrated unofficially since the late 18th century and officially in various countries since the early 20th century.

He discovered nothing but invaded a lot!

Halloween or Hallowe’en, also known as All Halloween, All Hallows’ Eve, or All Saints’ Eve, is a celebration observed in a number of countries on 31 October, the eve of the Western Christian feast of All Hallows’ Day and Reformation Day.  It begins the three-day observance of All Hallowtide, the time in the liturgical year dedicated to remembering the dead, including saints, martyrs, and all the faithful departed.

It’s also the day that “society” got dressed up and slaughter thousands of slaves as a game.  Countless lives loss because “society” was bored with themselves.  Now they want you to purchase the same costumes and tell horror stories to minors to scare them while giving them treats or shall I say sugar to fatten them up and slow their abilities to get away from you as well affecting their mental capacity.

November – the eleventh month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the last month of autumn: Veterans Day, Thanksgiving

Veterans Day is an official United States public holiday, observed annually on November 11, that honors military veterans; that is, persons who served in the United States Armed Forces.  It coincides with other holidays, including Armistice Day and Remembrance Day, celebrated in other countries that mark the anniversary of the end of World War I; major hostilities of World War I were formally ended at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month of 1918, when the Armistice with Germany went into effect.  The United States previously observed Armistice Day.  The U.S. holiday was renamed Veterans Day in 1954.

I’m not going to say too much about this holiday because I thank the men who served this Country but I don’t think greatly of War.  I think it is a waste of resources, lives, and costly.  With all the money, it takes to fight a war, “society” could have found ways to preserve that money into the United States.  What is even worst then them not understanding that is that they are fighting for someone else’s resources in which they could have just paid for the resource instead of going to war for it.  What they are teaching our children is that if you want it, even though it is not yours, just go and take it or kill for it.  When in retrospect all you have to do is ask and if the answer is no them find another resource.  There is always a better way then violence.  Leave it to “society” they are entitled to all the resources but as soon as my people think the same then it is all out war. 

Thanksgiving Day is a national holiday celebrated in Canada, the United States, some of the Caribbean islands, and Liberia.  It began as a day of giving thanks for the blessing of the harvest and of the preceding year.  Similarly named festival holidays occur in Germany and Japan.  Thanksgiving is celebrated on the second Monday of October in Canada and on the fourth Thursday of November in the United States, and around the same part of the year in other places.  Although Thanksgiving has historical roots in religious and cultural traditions, it has long been celebrated as a secular holiday as well.

This is how they tricked the indigenous to trust them enough to let them into their resources as well as manipulate them into teaching them their ways of survival. 

Hints the name thanks for giving us all your resources, time, efforts, skills, farming techniques and women.  Before long “society” knew all, they needed to know or so they thought and wiped out the Indians and all their land was or the taking.

I say if you teach an outsider all your skills you just replaced yourself out of a home, love, life, and work!


December – the twelfth month of the year, in the northern hemisphere usually considered the first month of winter:  Christmas

Christmas is an annual celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ.  In Western Christianity, Christmas is celebrated on December 25.  For Christians, Christmas is considered the second most holy day of the year while Easter is the holiest day.

The great majority of Christians celebrate Christmas, and there are many rich and varied Christmas traditions around the world.  Religious Christians may attend special church services during the Christmas season and on Christmas Day that commemorate the birth of Jesus and call us to a life of devotion and following His teachings.

This is the biggest pagan holiday of them all.  This is where “society” makes the most money from everyone in the United States one way or another.  People get bogged down financially, while others successfully purchases everything on their family’s Christmas list.  Come on people we cannot be this blinded by “society’s” shenanigans that we can’t we how this makes poverty-stricken people look worst in their children’s eyes.  Stop feeding your children the lies that “society” feed our ancestors and know where we come from and what is right for us to celebrate.  Celebrate life and how to win where “society” has us failing. 

This Hippocratic bull shit has to come to an end or we will always be ten steps behind.  We will always slaughter our own people for what the next man can afford.  We will always be in financial ruins because our minds are programmed to materialistic things and not on advancements.  We are so caught up on the right now that we cannot see the future.  It is bleak to us because of the wool that is constantly being pulled over our eyes.  The real plan they don’t want us to see. 

The more façade the through in front of us the bigger our eyes get and the more we want, but they are stealing and consuming what we really need.  We no longer see what we need only what they want us to see. 

They prefer that we continue to speak like them, we walk and talk like them, we look like them.  They even want us to smell like them.  In other words, they want to replace us with them so they can now be the majority, the greater population and the rulers of this planet and we are giving them just what they want. 

They want us to believe we are of them but in truth they are of us.  We are the oldest, wisest, and indigenous people of this planet.  They find new ways to feed us their lives and we fall for it.

Now every day is some sort of National Holiday or day to celebrate.

They hype the “holidays” for one reason and one reason only to get you all to spend your hard-earned money.  They know you all can’t resist a sale or a good deal.  They taunt you all with “great deals” all the while taxing the hell out of the deal.  I do believe Congress and the President just went to the table on taxes and yes, they are going to raise them on the poor.  What most of you don’t know is that the rich pay taxes after they spend their money, while the poor can’t be trusted so they take ours out before we even see our checks.  Isn’t that amazing they wait for the rich to pay their taxes and as long as they can lie about where their money is then they pay what they want, but they snatch our taxes before we even know if we earned the right amount of money for the hours we put in to work.   

I don’t know about you but that doesn’t make any sense to me that you know how much taxes I am supposed to pay but have no idea how much taxes the rich are to pay.  Taxes is of the devil anyway.  You mean to tell me I give you all this money into an unseen account and when I file for my taxes back you are only going to give me a percentage of my money back.  Wow! 

Knowledge is power!!

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 8…Segment 3.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

When you get home remember work doesn’t come home; also, you may have a visitor from the neighbor so be prepare to either be that listening ear or that conversationalist you offered early.  Also remember homework needs to be signed and looked over.  Meanwhile, dinner needs to be cooked or ordered, plus you need to at least learn what your child/ren did today.  You need to hear all their complaints, feel their pain, congratulate their accomplishments, on jobs well done. 

We as parents are judges, jury, police, therapist, counselors, dictators, shoulders, healers, helpers, disciplinarians but most of all the glue to hold it all together.  When you are overwhelmed you need to vent so find a good friend to vent to.  If there is a significant other, please I can’t stress this enough, let them that be your first line of defense as well as your line of communication.  If there is no significant other, this is why we are supposed to be a village because we, ourselves need support as well.  The village isn’t only for the children it is also for adults. 

If you know that you are a real sharer and divulge to much information and afraid that it might spread throughout the village be careful who you share certain information with.  If you know Ms. So-and-So is a real gossiper then don’t give her the juice, just give her the water.  Especially, if every time you turn around, she is giving you someone else’s juice.  Know who to talk to and about what.  Everything isn’t for everyone in the village and everyone in the village doesn’t get everything.  Even if Mr. So-and-So is a good man, if you know he gossip more than the women, maybe he isn’t the one for the juice but great for the water.

Our healing process have to start somewhere, why not within ourselves.  Once we forgive ourselves then we can continue the healing process by forgiving others an accepting their apologies.  Let’s not relive the hurt but embrace the joy within ourselves and if there isn’t any then we need the Higher Power, village, family and friends to help restore what has been damaged.  It is time to make happy memories to combat the ones we no longer want to dwell on or relive. 

Fathers it is time to return to the home and if you have more than one baby mother, then unite your children in your own home.  Mothers it’s time to be better than what you have been.  If you have more than one baby father then your home needs to be the place fathers are allowed for visitation or pick up.  The family bond has been broken for far too long.  This is a new day and a new way.  We can no longer allow “society” our misery because they are getting rich from it and we are remaining poor behind it

If we stop trying to win a race that no one else is running then we will be winning.  There is no competition on making babies for someone else to take care of, so chill.  There are plenty of competitions of categories to compete in but baby making isn’t one of them.  First work on taking care of the ones you have before venturing off to make more babies, that you know you’re not going to take care of, ever.

If either of you know deep in your heart that brining a child in this world is not going to keep you all together then, truly don’t do it.  The child/ren are the only ones that really suffers at the hands of selfish parents.  Then your unwanted burdens become someone’s else burden and destroy whatever plans they had for themselves. 

We are no longer in competition for a race to the poor house while “society” walks to the rich house.  Stop buying all the merchandise they have to offer and dare to support the black businesses.  I keep seeing it and it is just not right black people, and you all know it.  I see so many people right now who have come up with their own fashion line and business that is for the black community and the very people in his own backyard will not support them but will go out of their way to make it to the store to purchase what “society” has to offer at whatever cost. 

How is that bettering the community, it’s not?  It is nonsense like this that weakens the community and keep us in the strong hold of poverty.  The only way the fashion can be a hit is if we support it.  That is exactly what we did for those fashion moguls that is top of the line today.  Without our support they couldn’t have made it and wouldn’t have made it. 

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove

The Family Bond! Chapter 8…Segment 2.

Goddess morning Royals. First, give praise and worship to the all High.

The black family foundation is the unity of life, gatherings, fun, and love.  We enjoy a good family get together.  You know a good barbecue, where you are going to see the whole family, it be like a family reunion.

We be laughing, hugging, dancing, playing card and eating.  Auntie is showing you how to do the latest dance or so she thinks.  Uncle is telling about back in his day.  Reminiscing on the loves ones we lost and giving thanks to the Higher Power for all the ones who made it through the storm.  We learn of the new babies in the family, new husbands and wives or significant others.  There’s singing and feasting on good news and mourning for our elderly getting weary and tired. 

Yes, we love a good get together, everyone knows we as black people love to party.  Give us good music and a nice environment and we will have a great time.  Then there’s always the one person who will always have that chip on their shoulder.  They cannot forget nor forgive anyone, or anything in their past.  Those are the ones we need to focus positive energy towards.  Those are the souls we know we are losing or have lost but there is always a way to find your way back to love, life, family and happiness.  Yes, there are cliques in the family, and yes, they do try their best to do all they can to start their mess.  Grandma don’t want no mess and Granddad ready to whip some ass if Big Momma say so. 

Everyone knows, neither one of them plays a game with anyone there.  You think you can get away with things but you don’t because they have eyes on everything.  You swear someone has snitched on you but they didn’t, it just they are just that good.  We, who pay attention learn and master this technique because we ourselves have been on the end of this watchful eyes.  We dare our child/ren to try to get away with anything.  You have those bitter ones that try their best though.  They are the same people who wants for nothing and have nothing because they are so angry with everyone, and blame everything that has gone wrong in their life except for the one person they should blame; themselves.  I’m not sure their motive for coming but they show up at every event with a nasty attitude like the whole family owes them something.  No matter who tries to cheer them up they refuse to be happy. These people need more than one person they are the ones that need family intervention and all the love they seem to be missing.  They want help but are afraid to ask because everyone sees them as the black sheep, or so they think. 

So now we are no longer working on being the black sheep and the family is trying to intervene as much as possible to make everyone’s presence enjoyable.  So, we show them love and in a different way because what they were used to getting isn’t working.  We teach them that not all people are angry all the time and not all who are smiling are happy nor are they fooling anyone.  We let them know we all have our bad days but we don’t allow them to hinder us.  We also let them know of our good days and how we try to use those to combat the bad days.  The intervention should always be about starting a new and leaving the old in the past where it belongs. 

We want to start a new day. First ,we need to have a new attitude and disposition.  See if we can do these little steps day by day, until it becomes second nature. 

Step 1.  Wake up and give the almighty praise.

Step 2.  Stretch and take in several deep breaths.

Step 3.  If there is a significant other next to you roll over and look at them then thank the Higher Power for them.

Remember we are starting a new.

Step 4.  Hygiene is the best gene wash; body, face, and hands.  Brush teeth and then rinse.  Floss teeth and then rinse.  Now you are ready to say Good Morning to that significant other.

Step 5.  Say Good Morning even if he/she is still sleep.

Step 6.  If there is child/ren and it’s time for them to rise, wake them with a good morning and a smile.  Now say I Love You.

Note* They are going to wonder what’s going on with you in the beginning and may even ask if you are okay but reassure them that everything is well.  Then tell them why you are happy.  Tell the how blessed you are that everyone is alive and healthy.  Then reassure them how blessed you are for the Higher Power blessing you with them, the precious gifts they are.

Step 7.  Breakfast because it’s going to fuel the body if it is no more than a fruit, because we are leading by example now.

Step 8.  As everyone is heading out to their perspective destination greet a neighbor or a passerby. 

Reason being is your greeting may save someone’s life.

Step 9.  Ask them how are they doing but mean it and if they say not good don’t be impolite and tell them things aren’t that bad.  If time is of the essence then let them know you will be home later and will love to finish them discussion.

Say well when I get home tonight if you want, I am available to lend a listening ear and here to converse with you.  Once again you may have, brightened or lifted someone’s spirit.  Now it’s up to them to accept it or reject the offer but at least you in harmony with your karma. 

Step 10.  Repeat the method at work but here to catch to it all.  No one business once upon your ears is anyone else’s business.  So, once they entrust you with their life don’t share it with anyone else.  We as black people have the tendency to make people life story the “tee” of the day just to have gossip to make conversation.

Step 11.  Now you have a great day and put all worries and unpleasantness on the Higher Power because that burden isn’t yours.

Sending you all love and kisses. #GoddessLove