Dollar Tree Mayhem

Goddess Afternoon Royals

My sister and I were going shopping this afternoon after I had my annual mammogram.  Ladies I can’t stress how important it is to get checked for breast cancer.  Any how I needed some things from the Dollar Tree and we decided to go to the one on Bel-Air Road, but lo and behold it is not opened.

First we couldn’t enter the parking lot because there was a sign truck stupidly blocking the entrance and so we had to park on the street.  Anyone who knows how traffic is on Bel-Air Road knows that it is dangerous anytime of the day no matter what.  Then you don’t want to leave your car and have to walk away from it in that neighborhood.

Secondly we got to the entrance and there is a big sign on the door.  Close for business, because of Food Contamination.  What in the world is going on here?  I was just there last week and well I didn’t purchase food from there but I did purchase picture frames, which I was returning to purchase more today.  That didn’t happen!

Now here is my question to you all, who in the hell purchases food from the Dollar Tree?  I know that it only cost a dollar but are you fucking serious right now.  No thank you, I barely wants to purchase food from markets that is credible, so why would I purchase from one that isn’t #1 not a market, not even considered a grocery store, #2 not identifiable as a grocery store, #3 doesn’t even have the word food in the tile or the description.  They aren’t even considered a convenience store.  Don’t get me wrong you have to purchase from where you can afford food from, but remember it is at your own risk.

Why put you or your family at such a risk?  For me, myself, and I wouldn’t do it, but of course I am not the one who got them shut down for purchasing contaminated food from the Dollar Tree.  To each is own, but you are the one that have to pay the price of your mistakes.

I am not down playing where you shop and what you can afford.  I say if you have only a dollar and you need something from the store and you know the Dollar Tree has it well purchase it.  Just remember this everywhere you purchase food and not completely sure of the place then you  are playing with your life at your own risk.

Sending you all love and kisses.  #GoddessLove

Simple Sunday

Simple Sunday

Goddess Afternoon Royals.

Usually, my Sunday’s are just washing clothes, cooking for the family and deep cleaning the house, but today I made it a simple Sunday.

I went to the market this morning, cooked breakfast for the family, and now sitting with my sister listening to music and watching her paint.  If you don’t know much about me know that I am very family oriented.  I love my family and try to do different things with different ones.   Dinner is a collaboration today, she and I will cook together.  I enjoy her company and her pleasantry she have when she comes to visit.  Soon she won’t be visiting she will be living with me and I will get to enjoy her every day.  How awesome is that.

So I didn’t blog yesterday, and yes there is a reason why.  I was doing hair all day yesterday.  I didn’t even get a break one time but I am not complaining by any means at all.  In fact, I am very grateful for the blessing of having such a talent under my belt.  Fun fact, all my siblings can do hair and have amazing talents.

I can cook, bake, published author, financial adviser, psychologist, dancer, and counselor.

My sister Nishie, can paint, draw, sculpt, sew, knit, crochet, cook, dancer, and bake.

My sister Kia, is a licensed daycare provider, demolition, and cook.

My sister Lisa, is a professional ballet dancer, professional signer and psychology.

My sister Mooney, is a comedian

My sister Starr, is a fashionista, experience, retail, singer, and make-up artist.

My brother Rodney, operate forklift, backhoe, demolition, woodwork, construction, drywall, electrician, dancer, and carpentry.

My brother Ronald, experience in retail.

My sister Reba, can draw, bake, and professional dancer.

My brother Sonny, professional gamer, comedian and singer.

We get our talent from our parents, both of them were as talented as we are if not more.  We are now passing on our talent to our children.  They maybe young but I can see the talent coming through.

My daughter Cashmere, is a Certified Medical Assistant, dancer, paint, draw, sculpt, sing, and model.

My son Ryheem, is a great drummer, draw, and dancer

My nephew Sean, professional rapper, video blogger, can draw, comedian, dancer, and auto mechanic.

My niece Deirra, is a professional singer, Tai chi, medical dental hygienist, dancer, can draw, and daycare provider.

My niece SweetPea is into techology and the Army

My niece She-She is a tech geek

My nephew Trelly, is a dancer, football player, rapper, comedian, singer, basketball player, and can drawer.

My niece Deborah, can dance, sing, can drawer, and bake.

My son Dre, is a comedian, brown belt in Karate, video blogger, gamer, and

My nephew D’Mone is a boxer

My nephew Dy’On, is a dancer and gamer

My nephew Syion is a gamer

My niece Kiyah is a dancer and gamer

My niece Iyannah is a dancer

My niece Dy’Ae is smart at technology

My nephew Tybarius is still growing and learning

My nephew Tyreik is still growing and learning

My granddaughter London is still growing and learning

My niece Rain is still growing and learning

I hope soon I will get to know the rest of my family as I continue on within this life.  Remember it is never to late to get to learn, love, and grow with your family.  All it take is time.

Sending you all Love, and Kisses.  #GoddessLove

Chivalry In Today’s Society

Chivalry In Today’s Society

I am fortunate and blessed that chivalry isn’t dead in this day and ages.

So I have been broken down in my truck before and a tow truck driver pulled over and gave me a hand. I had blown a tire and was attempting to change it but out of no where a gentle stranger came and rescued me. I would like to thank all the men of any color, race, or nationality that refuse to allow women to be damsels in distress. I salute you for your bravery in not know if it is a set up and more for not being a creep or mass murderer when you assist.

This morning as I was driving my daughter’s car and dropping her off to work. Her car simply shut off on me. Now I know I just went and had a tune-up done, oil change, cam shaft sensory replaced, all the lights replace and a new battery, so for the life of me i had no idea why it shut off on me. I do believe in safety first. I was sitting there thinking if only I was still married. Went to reach for my cell phone and then it died as well. Oh my word, I am in trouble now. I started to curse but then I just looked up and asked the Lord to help.

The guy was coming out of 711 and saw me sitting there. He wanted to know if I was alright. I told him no, I think I need a hotshot. He said let me check your connections first before I give you a hotshot. He checked and they were loose. I was thankful it wasn’t nothing to serious. He tighten them and then I asked him how much do I owe you. He said nothing but a smile. I gave him a smile and a hug. I thanked him and was on my way.

A week ago I was taking my daughter to the market in her car because she loves to use it since she got it. Gas on the Chest. Anyway and the car shut down on us but mind you this was before I brought the new battery. A neighbor of mine, my sister, my daughter and myself pushed it from out of the street. Since it is a small car it was quite light in maneuvering. Afterwards we went to get another battery to replace the old one. I was going to replace it myself and started the work. Then another neighbor of mine came along and finished it. I would love to thank the both of them for their assistance. I owe one of them a hairdo and waiting on his to decide when he wants it. I owe the other a cooked meal. I don’t mind neither of the request for their services.

So ladies chivalry isn’t dead it is very much alive in this day and age. Just be a Queen when you are being service and don’t assume it is for free. That’s when it get’s ugly. Thanks to all the Kings who are pioneers when it comes to assisting Queens, ladies, and Goddess as myself, in everyday life.

Sending you all Kisses. #Goddesslove

Humped Day Huh!

Goddess Morning Royals.  I have a little insert from my books for you on this day.

“The Perfect Man”

Oh fuck you sent pain up my side and pleasure all through me.  I explode with emotions, holding you like my life depends on it. The mood was desire and the actions was wanted, long overdue.  What you do to me makes me want more. NEVER STOP bringing me through, because I got you.  Hard to explain yourself, but the liquidation of your emotions say it all over my body.  Damn your good; taste and all!

Hair pulled ever so tightly arched perfectly on all fours, pump back with the right amount of thrust.  The force is acceptable, the waterfall was expected.  Finally, the journey was reached, but the trip was pleasureful.  Thanks again for the ride lover.  Sleep now, for when you wake, our journey begins again.

“The Truth About Her”

Dare to be bold and call my name because of your pride but understand I will hear it at all cause.  Play hard I like that, lay still I have to drive now.  Your motion is not needed now, it’s my turn.  If I have to yell at top of my lungs, I will as long as I’m getting my way.  Bareback is the only way but from the rear, you look surprised.  Don’t be just know there’s no limits to pleasing you.  Lift me off my feet, allow me to wrap my legs around your waist, place my hands on the floors and grind with me.  You feel so good, my blood rushes to my head but there is a conflict of acceptance.  My body and brain is all about this adventure, we’re exploring together.  My ocean filling from the rain you bring.  Flip me over so now we can thrust together as our souls become one.  Oh my, the pain is pleasure, I know I can take it.

Timeless Tuesday

20160722_211500.jpgGoddess Morning Royals.  How are we doing this morning?

Well we got swept away last Tuesday, this Tuesday let’s sweep someone else away.

How about a great dinner for two, or a romantic getaway on a budget?  A bed and breakfast will be the perfect little get away.  Just the two of you on a quiet one day outing, filled with excitement and adventure.  It only takes one day for you all to be drowned into each others eyes.  How about a long walk along the beach or a night out with dancing not clubbing but dancing or poetry night.  Either way, don’t allow your relationship to sour just because it is a Tuesday.

Read to one another in the comforts of your own bedroom, snuggle up under a warm fire or on the patio deck to a lemonade, ice tea or whatever your pleasure of drink is but as long as you all do it together, what does it matter.

If you really want to make it “timeless” see how many time you all can make one another smile and that means by all means necessary.  Now I am not saying make a baby because that will be a memory you will always remember but if that is what your family needs then by all means bring joy into your family as you both need and want.  As long as it is mutual and enjoyable then please do so.

Bring life into this Tuesday that will make a mark on your relationship for the rest of your life.  Maybe this is the Tuesday, that you both say I do, or may it is the Tuesday that you ask you to be his wife.  Just be open for anything and all things possible.

Love you all, Kisses and enjoy your “Timeless Tuesday.  #Goddess love

The Other Woman “She’s More Than a Friend”

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Goddess Afternoon Royals. A new book in the works

Hello everyone my name is Joanne Writ and I am a happily married woman well at least I was a happily married woman. Come to think of it maybe I wasn’t never happy just content with the idea of belonging in a place and to someone. Maybe I was happy in the beginning, I don’t know anymore, all I know is that I am confused as to what I am now.

See my husband and I are still married but whether or not we are happy is a color of a different horse. My story is that of many I am certain of that but not all is willing to share and not at this magnitude. Anyway, I have been married for twenty long years and believe long is an understatement. I am not sure if we are married for the children sake or because I just don’t know any better. Him on the other hand know plenty and well he have been sharing it, just not with me.

I know that he is in love with what I say is his side chick but I am not sure if I am not the side chick and she is his wife. Either way I know he has love for me but no longer in love with me. It may just be that I gave him something she haven’t or maybe the boys are his reason for not just upping and leaving.

Before I get ahead of myself I have to tell you the story of how I think I am the other woman in my husband’s life because the one he is with on the side is more than just a friend.

When in need!

When in need!

Goddess Evening Royals.  Sorry for the late post, really long day.

People seem to forget when they were in need of you or your services to the point they start to believe that you have a problem with them instead of the other way around.  When they get in a bind or in trouble they seem to remember you are the family, friend and resource.  As long as you are needed they are sweet, kind and humbled, until the moment you finish fixing their problem then they are rude, distasteful, disrespectful, obnoxious, and ignorant.

They seem to forget in that moment that you are the one who just save their home, car, life, job, hopes, dreams and maybe their relationship.  They seem to think after you have solved their problem that you needed them.  They can’t remember favors you have done for them, money you have lend them, or a place you have given them.  They gain amnesia right fast and will have the audacity to challenge you to the time they returned some of your money, like they lent it to you.  They will recall they time they gave you a ride after they have borrowed your car a million and one times.  They will recall watching your child after you have been the daycare provider to all their children.

They will turn tail and run when you recall all the things you did and still are doing for them.   As soon as you decide you aren’t doing for them or anyone else no longer then you are the worst person they have ever met.  You are no longer loyal or family.  You are a two-faced person or maybe even a liar and petty, but they can never understand until they are the ones in the position they put you in.  Then they want to come to you and tell you all about how someone always need them.  All you can do is look because you know you just had this discussion with them not even that long ago.  It may have gotten ugly but you still being you listen and then walk away.

Here is what I say to you when you are always the giver.  Learn NO!  It may sound cruel but it will save you a lot of arguments, and headaches.  It may even say you heartache depending on the person in questioning.  If you just can’t say NO then you are in for a long life of the same thing for the rest of your life and from all people who are just users and never will be givers, well not to you at least.

Stop being the welcome mat and start being the leave your problem at the door mat. Make a mental note this vessel isn’t for bargaining if you are for giving as well as taking.